係唔係我鑽牛角尖?有冇人可以幫我分析下?(正經sex問題, 搵sp, sl勿進, thx)





  • What is your question lei ?




  • what question???



  • 我同bf有sex問題, 自從上年九月開始, 次數減少左好多, 佢好似冇曬mood做咁, 平均一個月一次, 有時兩, 三個月一次, 時間唔耐啦(過程), 我好想知點解啦,因為以前佢係好熱情, 突然變成咁, 我問過其他人的男朋友都唔係咁, 於是不斷問佢, 佢支吾以對,



  • 多數係有第二個。小心呀!



  • 23,


    is it coz pressure for him?



  • 佢答: 因為去街冇時間, 冇地方 (佢屋企長時間有人, 唔方便做), 工作壓力好大....我都明白, 但係唔至於一d需要都冇呱..何況每次仲係由我主動, 我會買下d sexy睡衣, 新bra, 幫佢口口, 有時會吞, 我諗到的都做左, 情況都係咁



  • 有無試過去時鐘酒店?





    講下你背景,拍左幾耐拖,你幾歲佢幾歲?身裁如何?自問技術如何?



  • mm, 我都以為佢出面有第二個,但係佢發誓冇, 每日都打幾次電話比我, 除左呢方面,佢對我真係好好囉



  • 23,


    then u better talk with him, try to go to camp at weekend, only u2, he can relax and enjoy with u



  • 23





    may be you can change ml place


    you always ml in the same place?




  • Hard to tell. I think he's not honest with you so you won't get an exact answer from him. Could be your problem too.





    I am an honest guy so I can help. You can try to do the same to me as you do to your bf. In other words, I sacrifice myself to be your testing bf subject and as time goes by, I will tell you why if you experience the same symptom as you now experiecing with your bf.





    This is your only chance to find out why.



  • 身為女仔, 佢咁樣表現, 我會好懷疑自己的一切, 外表啦, 身材啦, 身材我改變唔到, 我都想大d, 個胸大左, 人就一定會肥, 我又唔想..而且我有d fd , 老實講身材樣貌都比我差d d , 佢地的男朋友都好enjoy make love with them..仲話男仔搞野係唔會咁注重女仔外表, 係真心愛個女仔就唔會介意



  • 23,


    dont think too dark, u better talk with ur bf to solve the problem



  • 如果佢無講大話,真係可能係工作壓力,唔好迫得佢咁緊,順其自然,唔好為上床而上床,我既意思係有D人會約定開房OR趁無人係屋企就快D去攪一次,其實好無情趣。有無諗過去旅行,去澳門都得,總之個日只係吃喝玩樂,仲要飲到high high地,睇下佢有無反應?



  • shxt, you can't read English. That's the problem. You need to read English and your bf will love you more.



  • 耐左會厭.....呢個係我的過往經驗





    愛情同性唔可以完全拉埋黎講


    我果陣都知女朋友對我好好


    而我亦無第二個


    或許....我對佢熱情退減左


    所以連sex都對佢提不起勁





    p.s 以上內容純粹自己, 未必同其他人一樣



  • fantasmic , 都有試過, 係會比平時好少少, 但唔可以成日租酒店去旅行, $ 作怪.....我真係好想知個原因, 以前我甚至唔使佢用套, 好多時都驚會有左, 就係因為"我自己為已經做左咁多" , 佢仲係咁, 於是我地開始鬧交



  • 有其他女同佢做



  • muscle 先生,想換女去第二個thread啦!23 都唔係要搵 sp。





    23


    你地都未結婚就為左sex而鬧交,好傷感情,不如試下直情幾個月唔同佢做,又睇下佢會點?



  • 唔好諗住單方面付出就可以改變個事情


    感情...係有兩個"心"字組合而成架


    再者...如果你下下計住自己付出幾多...收番幾多


    會好辛苦....



  • mm, 你都覺我迫佢緊, 我自己一直諗點解點解, 問佢又問唔到, 就快諗到傻, 唔知同邊個講, 我次次同我d fd 講, 佢地都笑我, 會覺得一定係我需要大啦, 身材唔好啦, 我可以點答? 好似咩都係我錯咁



  • 23


    正經問題,佢做個陣係咪可以正常勃起?洗唔洗攬好耐至得?佢又會唔會有病唔敢話你知呢?



  • 23





    do you think you are 需要大?



  • 23,


    你男友工作環境冇變ma?


    唔係更年期,到某個年紀自然會好多煩惱


    做乜都冇心機.你可以俾段時間佢relax.


    去旅行,做多d戶外活動




  • 23





    唔想要又真係無得迫喎!咁對大家都無好處。



  • 芝士判官, 可能真係厭啦, 咁我仲可以做d咩?如果我男朋友對我冇興趣, 我會覺得自己好失敗架, 點解人地外表差過我, 人地男朋友仲係咁熱情呢? 我做曬主動, 越諗越灰心



  • mm , 佢一切正常, 有時摸下我就有反應, 但係就係唔搞, 上次我地訓埋一齊, 佢摸我, 我知佢有反應, 又冇搞



  • edenangela, 佢工作環境變得輕鬆左, 有時間睇住個市tim, 聽佢講比以前間公司仲好...我更加唔明白



  • 23,


    find some fun for sex, like wear sexy lingerie ar, oral him but dnont let him cum, ask him to ml with u



  • 人比人比死人,你越係咁諗你會越唔開心,咁就真係係度鑽牛角尖。





    不如試下改變下自己個look,如果係有D肥既就減減佢,整到自己索D,又睇下你男友點?



  • 其實一個人冇左性趣...好多理由


    正如你唔想食野都可以好多理由..剛剛食完、無胃口、有心事...


    唔好將所有問題歸咎於自己先


    不妨同佢慢慢拎出黎講


    當然...上面好多人話因為累、有壓力...


    都絕對係一個唔係你問題的理由



  • tom, 我唔知幾時一次為之正常呀, 拍拖唔係有feel就想做? 我鍾意佢就想同佢做



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    佢肯摸你都唔算無反應,無話摸親都要攪喎!你咪由得佢摸,自己加兩錢反應,如果佢都唔想做,咪攬住訓囉!有時唔一定要做至覺得舒服架!



  • mm, 好呀, 我聽日去shopping 先,



  • 總之唔好迫佢,順其自然,自己都唔好諗太多,你應該開心搵到個男友唔係當你係洩慾工具,有D男人真係覺得女朋友係有‘義務’同佢上床架。



  • 芝士判官, 其實上年開始, 我同佢講左好多次, 因為每次都唔知, 所以又再問, 重複又重複, 又email講比佢知我的感受..依然係咁...我係唔係唔應該再提? 唔講我又屈住, 好矛盾呀



  • 如果係性冷感,最好求助醫生


    可惜佢唔係你老公



  • 你越問佢就覺得你越煩,可能因為咁就越唔想做,因為怕你做完又問。







  • fantasmic, 我都想, 都要佢比機會我, 我好似要隨時候命, 佢想做就做, 唔想做就唔做



  • 我絕對明白你的矛盾


    但男人.....應該話人.....


    係好怕人迫,好怕人煩


    你越講只會越令佢生厭


    有時問...都係一種技巧





    不過我諗首要解決的係你唔好咩都攬曬上身


    唔好悲觀


    檢討係好...但你咁樣就過左火.....會變得悲觀



  • mm , 我未遇過一個男人好似佢咁唔like sex, 佢曾經講過"如果我兩, 三個禮拜都唔搞你你先好嘈"..係咪兩, 三個禮拜一次就正常? 我都覺成日問佢係超煩囉, 唔問我又屈住...唉



  • 23,


    thats very bad ar, he dont give u, then u find a sl for urself law



  • 23,


    其實困擾妳既, 主要係:


    a. 佢無法滿足好需要; 定


    b. 妳驚咁樣代表佢唔愛妳?



  • 23





    你先問下你自己你係咪愛佢先? 講到‘隨時候命’ 咁嚴重,我都可以想像到你係用咩態度去‘審’你男友。小姐,佢都無‘義務’同你上床架,男人都要講feel喎!邊有男人鍾意‘煩‘既女人架?



  • edenangela, 佢摸我時會扯起, 又唔似性冷感, 有地方有時間有反應都唔搞, 我想知點解, 唯有忍住唔問, 自己一個人唔開心



  • 但呢個情況..





    大多數都係識左另一個先會係咁



  • 芝士判官, 我諗唔會再問佢啦, 或者會好d



  • brad 講得o岩,我地唔知佢平時點對你,係咪真係唔同你上床對你黎講係一個好大既問題,如果係既咪考慮飛左佢,兩個人隨左性格要夾,sex 都要夾至得ma。



  • fantasmic, 接受唔到sl呀