Mature man looking for Secret Relationship. Please come in and have a chat.
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eilot, not like or dislike. just feel tired to repeat everything.
busy today. u? are you a 9-5 person?
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man
yes, introducing yrself like in an job interview ... i hate that 2
monday is always busy, and yes i work 10-6 :)
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eilot, that why i hate to repeat myself.
you are right. monday is always the busiest day of the week. but at least you can sleep later than me.
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man
yes, thats really frustrating, i totally understand, i hv tried to find someone b4 but i hate that feeling of introducing myself... especially by numbers such as age, height, weight and even body figures....
i think personality is much more important then those number, and the way to tell one's personality is by chatting , at least can get some basic idea right
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eliot, right. physical appearance is important. but when you ask / being asked about the "dimensions", more or less you'll impose some "illusion" on him/her. as the chance of getting a handsome/pretty guy/man + good personality = 0. why bother? :P
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man, u are right, um, if you hv to discribe yrself, and of course not in figures, what will u tell me? may i ask? ^^
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eliot, i'd say i'm a lazy, boring & not talkative person. i used to be a listener rather than someone who speak non-stop. i prefer to focus on people's talk and ask whatever i feel interested in. how about you?
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i think we are pretty much alike :P
i will talk, only to someone i trust and love
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eliot, it's not easy to establish love and trust. esp. for secret relationship... it takes time, effort, patience, ..... do you have secret relationship before?
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man, once
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he just dont know how to respect sometimes, and said a lot of things that hurt my feelings, pretty immature i think
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eliot, men used to like that sometimes. it really takes time and respect in order to have long term secret relationship. were you the one in secret or he was?
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we both are, haha, but he got a busy gf, and i got a busy bf
we expect to hv a long term relationship, but it didnt work
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it's really not easy to get long term. but at least you two had the intention to at the very beginning, right? is he really not mature (in mind?) how old is he?
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yes, we wanted to have a long term one, at least i was....
he is 27, i think the main problem was he never think b4 he speak, and i am quite aware of that
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as both of you are single and with busy bf/gf, do you two have more time to gather together? i think by this you can understand each other well enough. single people really are more "flexible".
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yup, we did spend a lot of time together, met like 3 times a week, we did had some great time.
but i really cant stand his temper, i am not looking for torture (mentally) but fun
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too sad to hear that. it didn't last long right? if he is really bad temper, why you started with him in the very beginning?
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it last like 2 months, everything was great at the beginning
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do you still intent to "jump" into some secret relationship? or you already scared?
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i am pretty scared, but sometimes i really want to hv someone who can share and do care about me
um...i think its very hard to trust someone again, maybe it will takes more time to build up my confidence
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understood. i don't think you need to hurry for another secret relationship. just take your time and luck to observe, you are still young.
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i am not in a hurry
and i dont expect much
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the failure of secret relationship is "expecting too much", that's what i'd say.
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that's very ture
do u hv any expectation on yr SL if u hv one?
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i'd expect she's a lovely, mature, caring, and not emotional person. able to express herself well, willing to speak/listen. i expect two-ways communication rather than one-way. besides, don't need to meet too often.
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i see
if u 2 cant/dont meet often, how can u 2 keep communicating ? by chat?
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there must be some ways to communicate if we intend to keep it.
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yeah, as long as both of u want each other, it will work i think
its 2 already, bed time, thanks for yr time :)
good night ^^
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that's what i think. thanks for your time too. hope you come back later.
sweet dreams.
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hi
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Good afternoon,
Anybody home?
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lady0419, good afternoon. i thought you won't come back
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why not if I am still welcome ....? :-)
How are you today? Any plan today?
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will dine with family tonite. you? plan to go out with your partner?
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I stay at home, no plan going out
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very shinny outside. you should go out, have a walk, and enjoy the sun bath.
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Do you like sun-bath too!
It's really a Good day! But my fds are afaid of sunshine...they prefer stay in shopping mall.
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i enjoy sunlight more than going to shopping malls. the only good pt to stay in malls is, they have air cond. :P
are you looking for secret relationship too?
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yup.
Did you have any secret relationships before?
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yes. i did. how about you?
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me too. Once.
How many times you had b4?
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i'm not experienced. what are your expectations?
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seem you are reluctant to ans the questions which are related to numericals.
I expect "he" can give the things which can't be given by my bf...looking for more happiness, sharing, caring....etc. I admit I am greedy.
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i'm just tired to repeat myself. besides, those are not really important. old doesn't mean mature, experienced doesn't mean can handle well any relationship.
what kind of "things" your bf cannot give you? would you expect to meet "him" very often?
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what's the importance in secret relations? Any idea?
We live together....I can meet him everynight actually.
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to me, most important are "keep it secret" and "be honest".
it's good to live together. can you communicate well with him?
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um....just you and her in the secret world...i think it is basic. Otherwise, it can't call secret relations.
Honest is also a important factor. Considerate and undertanding are the key factors in secret relations too.
Bf and I get along well so far.
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right. secrecy is no. 1 important. honesty makes the relationship more healthy.
as you are living with your bf, would it be hard for you too go out with your secret partner?
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