同個男同事識咗年幾, 近排開始覺得好似對佢有D好感. 我o地同team好熟, 間唔中都會同埋幾個比較熟o既同事去玩. 我初時都想遲D至算, 不過同我o地兩個都好熟o既一個同事話覺得我o地之間好似有D嘢.唔知點先可以知道多D佢o既想法呢?
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其實最令我不安都係佢成日同人 msn
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why it makes you feel uncomfortable?
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唔知佢係咪對呢個女同事有興趣
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you mean he always msn with one particular girl?
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yes ar
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雖然個女同事有男朋友
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既然你地對對方都有好感,相信好快會有結果啦
如果佢對妳有意思,我諗佢會每日借d機會同你傾偈
不過佢同另一個女仔msn就好難搞...
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我係公司同佢坐得好近, 所以無咩機會 msn
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aiya,
msn with another girl is quite common, but not a good thing...
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but one particular girl
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yes, I know, he shouldn't do that in front of you, especially if he has a connection with you...
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haha but I also always msn with other boys
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oh, then it's fair la, don't worry.
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and he knows that another colleague is chasing me
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oh, what did he do then?
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佢知我唔鍾意呢個同事, 不過佢會成日批評佢個外表
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it means he is jealous
maybe you tell him something good about this colleague, and see what is his reaction
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有一次追我o個個同事b o個 team 搞活動問我地去唔去, 我話遲D覆, b就係咁叫我快D覆, 佢就話b公事又唔見咁快覆.
p.s. b 同我地唔同 team
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ggll,
Why he always MSN with other girls, may be he discuss about you with others to get more methods to date you. Think positive. Girl's view always different from boy's view.
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the girl is my university classmate
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ggll,
咁你即係懷欵你朋友??????
或者個男仔覺得接近佢可以知你更多資料呢？
公司地方唔係太適合講乜多野架！公司始終係辦事地方！
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I see, he is jealous
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ggll，我係男仔，係被動個種人。我覺得如果你個男同事都係被動的人，佢所做的，係表示佢有意思了。因為我諗我會做的，都係同佢差唔多囉。不過如果係我，我會攞埋你個msn，放工後可以每晚都傾。
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juniorsec:
我又唔係懷疑我朋友, 最多都係懷疑佢 jei.
WL:
我地都有大家msn同mobile, 不過因為佢屋企幾兄弟姐妹得一部電腦, 佢未必晚晚可以online.有時佢會send sms 黎講下無聊嘢 lor.
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今日我 team 出去食 birthday lunch, 咁o岩 b 個 team 又係, 仲係同一間酒樓. 我就同佢講返, 佢問我點知, 我就話 b 同我講o既, 跟住佢有D惡咁問 b 做乜要同我講佢地去飲茶, 我被佢嚇到都唔知點答, 淨係識話唔知.
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佢今日又提醒我記得星期日睇史力加1
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好唔開心呀, 佢今日約我睇史力加, 仲叫埋我個同學一齊去, 我估我都係無乜機會
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我個同事話佢係呢方面其實都好怕醜, 所以就算約埋其他人睇戲都唔代表佢對我無意思.
不過近排佢唔知做乜, 次次提起b都好勞氣.
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佢叫埋你個fd去係可能驚2個人無話題會dead air, 又或者佢又驚自己約你會被你請食lemon, 請到尾都係想搵人妝胆
你要對佢有信心, 對自己有信心
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只要你唔做一d 好似會拒絕他的行為, 對佢友好得來又與別不同,他都要覺得你對佢有點意思才會表白
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點樣做先好得來有與別不同呢? 我個同事就係話我對佢好,但睇唔出係 more than friend o個種,
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昨晚同十幾個同事去唱K, 佢九點幾就問我要幾點走(佢知我唔想太夜返屋企), 我就話十點半左右啦, 佢就話第二日唔使返工不如夜D, 咁最後就十一點幾走咗. 走之前佢問我搭咩車呀, 我話巴士轉火車. 佢話成十二點唔知仲有無火車, 其實我都唔知有無. 我o地o個時o係銅鑼灣, 我返沙田. 佢就話驚我去到紅磡已經無火車, 咁最後我就搭咗架好慢但係直返到屋企o既巴士. 佢仲陪我去到巴士站等我上埋車先走. 我個同事話佢真係對我好好, 個個都唔理剩係關心我點返屋企. 我就覺得可能只係出於朋友既風度.
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有時佢會send sms 黎講下無聊嘢 lor.
--->好明顯有意思啦????
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0岩0岩見到你個post, 都希望你地有結果
我諗到有一個辦法唔知得唔得
你會唔會試下問佢係咪對你個朋友有意思?
如果佢好緊張咁同你解釋,或者d反應係好驚你誤會,咁就即係對你有意思啦!
不過,如果個答案係yes,咁就會hurt d 喇..你諗下0丫
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咁可能唔係剩係 send 畀我一個呢
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版主,我覺得你諗嘢有d似我,好defensive,驚誤會左會瘀,但係你試下唔好諗得咁灰,多d留意下佢d小動作,AB比較一下,可能會發現到d你平時留意唔到既嘢架,就當係睇人地咁, 有時用第三身角度抽身睇,會唔同諗法架.
因為我都試過自己成日亂諗嘢,反而仲誤會曬d意思,仲因為咁而忽略左d表示添.有時諗番真係覺得自己好蠢架,搞到d氣氛衰曬..><
我唔想你好似我咁呀!
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咁可能唔係剩係 send 畀我一個呢
---> 係咁, 佢又真係幾無聊.......哈哈
唔好諗第二個, 諗你同佢!
其實講真, 諗咩丫, 你都就唔做啦, 就快冇得見喇~
你仲諗諗諗.... 可能冇機會架喇...
唔好諗個d 男仔主動, 女仔被動
你係鍾意, 點解唔爭取? 有d人就係咁架喇, 企係度諗, 諗諗下, 個機會就冇左... 可能個男仔都係諗緊呢....
你可以試將個關係變得曖昧d~ 例如每日都叫佢等你放工(一齊行去 mtr 又好, 食反又好), 每日返到屋企都 send sms 同佢講你安全到步, 每日踏車個時send sms 俾佢問佢係唔係都踏緊車....問佢同邊個 msn(語言輕鬆d咁問) 如果佢答同你個朋友msn, 你又好輕鬆(扮 friend咁)咁講: 哦, 你死喇, 佢有男朋友架~~
總之將個關係變得曖昧d 'in order to let him know u have feelings on him"....
dun give hime pressure, just make the enviorment very decent, happy, and SWEET! get it?
he wiill knows, and i bet he will do sth!
sorry.... tired to type chinese.......:)
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May:
你的方法好正，正正係進可攻，退可守，但小心這種狀況不可太耐。
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ppppie, yea, 有人支持下
其實咁樣可以咁樣維持到你地唔做個時啦....
做女仔要大方d, 唔好亂諗野, 問丫嘛, 老師有教啦
或者轉個圈黎問啦
例如: 你好想知點解佢同個女仔成日msn
你可以好輕鬆咁問佢同邊個 msn
跟佢會答你係邊個啦
你可以即時答番: 你小心人地個男朋友唔鐘意呀,以為你地有野呀~(自己再修息下)
跟住佢俾咩answer 你就會大約知佢諗咩啦 (對你個 friend)
再跟住你自己睇下點答
如果佢連同邊個 msn 都唔俾你知, 咁你明你係佢心目中有咩地位啦
一個男仔如果對你有意思, 應該會係有問有答既... i guess
你最好俾佢"知" 你 like 佢... 你可以唔講出口呀, 但你最好俾佢明確地"知"啦~~ 咁佢先會正視自己而決定對你有咩行動呀
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其實我差唔多日日都同佢一齊放工, 未必淨係得我o地兩個, 但總之就會好自然咁問下大家走得未.
佢又好似無乜嘢瞞住我o既. 有一次我o係佢部電腦整緊嘢, 咁o岩我個朋友o係 msn 叫佢, 佢就叫我睇下佢講乜.
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我個好熟o既同事話如果個男仔對個女仔無意思, 根本就唔會一次又一次同佢出街. 同埋對 b 既反應, 佢想唔到仲有咩理由會咁.
我同事話佢昨晚陪我去搭車同等車做得好好 wor, 因為如果佢唔知我既想法, 咁樣唔會畀太大壓力我.
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諗諗下其實我都覺得佢對我o既嘢都幾上心, 我好似無講過話夜晚唔想太夜返屋企, 但佢每次都會問我要幾點走, 搭咩車走; 去唱K佢又會幫我點曬我鍾意o既歌, 仲有我之前提過下話好聽o既歌. 仲有D我提過下但連我自己都唔係好記得o既嘢.
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我同佢同另外兩個同事下星期去玩, b 知道後話 join 我o地, 佢好唔想, 仲想諗辧法等佢唔好o黎. 我o地話其實都唔係好大問題, 佢就話 b 會打亂佢個計劃. 我o地諗極都唔明.
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佢又提我今晚要睇史力加2
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版主 你好!
睇哂你地d留言,我覺得你好幸福lor!佢應該都係對你有意思!
我同你一樣都鍾意緊個男仔,but好明顯佢5鍾意我.
調番轉頭,其實係我想睇史力加3,問佢個陣,佢又話冇睇1同2,咁我又好似你同事咁叫佢係tv睇番,佢一句話對卡通片冇興趣!幾hurt!
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咁如果佢對卡通片無興趣都無計啦
上個月佢提議話不如睇場戲, 我o地既選擇有魔盜王同珠光寶戲, 其實係佢想睇魔盜王, 我想睇珠光寶戲, 不過我無睇過魔盜王1同2. 初初佢都話就我睇珠光寶戲架, 後來佢又話真係好想睇魔盜王, 最後我o地都係睇咗魔盜王. 我咁就佢唔知會唔會做得好明顯呢?
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我意思係佢如果唔係想同你去睇戲,就唔會成日提住你睇番1同2lor.
仲有,我都有成日同佢msn架,不過,正如我所講,佢好明顯唔鍾意我,所以我覺得你同事同另一個女仔msn都唔代表d咩.
我都覺得上面位may講得好啱,你真係可以試下問佢唔驚同人女朋友msn咩?睇下佢有咩反應lor.
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咁我知有時係我朋友叫佢先o既
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咁我知有時係我朋友叫佢先o既
by ggll
sorry 唔係好明?
你係咪話你朋友叫睇戲先,定係叫你同事叫埋你呀?
但我都係覺得你唔好唸咁多,正如你講,你地都就黎唔係同事,如果成事就有個男朋友,唔成事又唔會再成日見到,冇壞啫!
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ggll
男人如果真係鐘意一個女仔
佢一定會做主動
根本無須個女仔費心 !!