如果係你,你會唔會問



  • 我同我男朋友之前因為佢同返佢ex一齊而分開,不過幾個月前佢同我講話佢地分開咗,想同返我一齊,問心我自己仲鐘意佢,所以我地宜家又一齊返



    不過因為佢parents會係加拿大返香港短住一陣,其實我都明白佢要陪parents多D,我都understand,不過今次佢同我講可能唔可以成日出嚟,我問一個星期只係見sunday呀,其他時間你陪你parents or friends囉~不過佢個answer係: weekday可能會好D



    唔知係我心多定係點,我突然間覺得佢好似同返佢ex一齊,因為上年又係咁,佢parents返香港,佢用呢個理由一路推我唔出嚟,我話掛住佢,佢個answer係"oh",同佢傾電話,佢又突然間問我有無特別嘢同佢講....所有嘢同上次都差唔多



    各位,如果你係我,你會唔會問吓,究竟佢係咪同返佢ex一齊?





  • 如果係我, 自己又喜歡的, 就不會問了, 問左知道答案對自己的感覺會有影響, 可能不是自己想要的答案, 所以如果自己想一齊, 咪再試下!就咁!





  • boring





    梗係唔好問啦..





    不過我覺得你而家己經有條剌了,




  • 已經有陰影


    有咩風吹草動你都會懷疑


    咁既關係你覺得會開心咩 ?





    問完可能將呢堆關係推入絕路


    佢會嬲你既唔信任?





    又可能問完佢, 佢真係同番ex 一齊又點算呢?



  • yes~我認我個心有條刺


    but~ thanks you for all of your suggestion




  • 睇下你想唔想同呃唔呃到你自己啦...



  • boring





    可唔可以交換msn 傾下計呀?



  • Hello boring,


    If I'm your bf, I will also do the same.





    First, parents will have only time on Sat & sun. So your bf will accompnay them on those day. But with you can not join their function as GF?





    Second, maybe he is very busy, so his replies will be so frighten. Because my job have peak season too. But laso he feel you are boring him, so his replies are like that. Check yourself if you you are boring him by asking the same question everyday or calling him making he feel angry le~~~.



  • 不如簡單d 諗...


    佢當你係咩??





    仲未有answer??



  • 佢份工一D都唔busy~


    佢paretns not only available sat or sun,佢地返香港短住一陣,日日都會係屋企,其實平時大家既空間都應該ok,星期一至五,我地幾乎唔出街,only msn or phone talk,Only come out on sunday, even 佢之前busy 到sat, sun and public holiday都要返工,我一句聲都無出過


    may be 我真係有條刺啦



  • 似乎係你自作多情d喎。我係男,依你所言,佢好可能只是貪求同你一齊時的快樂。你咪同等二個一齊囉,佢都應該唔會飛你的。



  • 仲有問好問,咁既男人唔要啦


    你自問鐘意佢既,咪忍囉,忍唔到,咪走囉,有咩好問?



  • If so just try to pick out 條刺 asap.





    Otherwise your relationship will be as same as 溏心風暴 ~ 常在心 & 程亮。



  • If I have doubt, I will ask.



  • boring,





    雖然有條刺但如果我係你,我一定會問清楚, 沒有人會鐘意聽唔好的答案,唔好的說話.兩個人決定在一起後,遇上對他有質疑,就要問個清楚,如果唔係一直放在心裡,到有一日,放得太多,就會吵大架,之後就會分手了,到時感情深了,要離開就會更痛. 當然要好好座下談談啦! 真相可能係殘酷,而當你感到不開心uncomfortable時,就要找出路和解決問題,要勇敢面對,可能答案在想像中也未必那麼差.



  • 我唔係好明, 既然佢父母從加拿大返香港小住一段時間, 點解你唔可以在星期六、日約出來去飲茶? 既然只係佢既父母, 當作係一個洗塵都好丫, 點解你唔會叫佢約埋佢父母一齊飲茶? 既然出得o黎做野, 根本就唔會擔心當見家長, 只係一種禮貌, 將來既野無人會知, 但點解呢一刻你唔可以叫佢介紹你比佢父母認識?



  • 問唔問, 就睇下你愛佢有幾多喇~~


    如果係愛到無左佢唔得既話, 我會選擇啞忍~





    問左, 佢認既話, 咁你要諗埋下一步會點~


    如果佢否認, 咁你信任他嗎?



  • boring,





    agreed with csls0518, 如果他當你係女友,為什麼 Sunday又唔帶你出來見他父母? 你有無問過他? 再唔係到星期日打電話去他家辦曬問候他的父母說幾句, 睇下佢有咩反應嘛!



  • boring,





    agreed with csls0518, 如果他當你係女友,為什麼 Sunday又唔帶你出來見他父母? 你有無問過他? 再唔係到星期日打電話去他家辦曬問候他的父母說幾句, 睇下佢有咩反應嘛!



  • 你要記住你是他的真正女友(如果他真的當你係),只是給他父母問候安好,有什麼問題.



  • 講真, 如果佢支吾以對, 咁你都應該先乜事, 如果佢真係同返佢以前既女朋友一齊, 我係你既話, 我會選擇無論有幾愛佢都好, 都會同佢分手, 讓你自己有得過新生活, 比多個機會自己同埋其他人。



  • 有很多中國人永遠怕出口, 只是問清楚得個明白,那有問題呢? 我年輕時試過有類似事情發生在我以前的男友身上, 當時我比你更勇敢地問他, 結果...當然不是你想聽的那一個. 雖然後果不是好受, 但cried過而又知道真相,心裡真的好過一些. 但你要記住我在這講我的經歷你知,不表示你的答案和我一樣, why not good try?



  • 我知道教人分妻是不應該, 假設就算他真的又對你唔住的話, 同時你有沒有問自己如沒有他你會怎麼過, 但我可答你...你可以一樣的過日子. 這個世界沒有邊一個係唔得, 人生係會行下去, 問題只是時間, 大不了自己一個也可以.