本人已有一個bb,想再生多一個,請大家分享懷孕第二胎的辛酸史



  • 我已有一個1.5 yrs oldbb,想再生多一個,但自己年紀都唔細,所以都唔可以再拖。湊兩個係咪好辛苦呢?請大家一起分享苦與樂。



  • babypopo,



    我個女剛2歲, 我都想生第2個呀. 你開工未呀?



  • babypopo,

    i am a 2 baby boy's mom.my eldest son is 6 yrs old and my little baby boy is only 4 months old.it is really a hard job as i need to go to work. my elder boy always not listen to the maid, hopefully my mother-in-law help me to look after my 2 baby boys with maid during i go to work.





  • hi,



    i also want to know the address. thanks.



  • I'm a mother of 2, my son is almost 3yrs old and my daughter is almost 8mths.

    I think it is easier with pregnancy and birth with the second child as you already have previous experience. The first time is a nervous and worry about a lot of things but the second one I'm much more relaxed.

    I also need the help of a maid to do the housework and help looking after my son. It is very hardwork to look after 2 kids by yourself, you have absolutely no time to yourself especially if your first kid is so young, when my son see me holding my daughter he'll want me to hold him, a little bit of jealous.



  • 我有個仔仔16個月大,最近開始想生第二個。我估有兩個小朋友開頭一定會好辛苦,淨係諗返亞仔岩岩出世時個幾個月都驚驚,不過我諗過一段時間就會好好多,有兩個細路屋企會熱鬧d開心好多



  • hi all,



    我今個月開工喇! 唔知會唔會bingo呢.

    唔知第一個係女, 生第2個會唔會覺得好d呢?因為我見有d朋友話個仔好active, 生多個如果又係仔都唔知點算. 依家阿囡都鍾意玩公仔, 見人有bb又鍾意同bb玩. 不過當多個人同佢爭可能又係另一回事?

    阿囡8月開始返n1喇. 所以寄望生多個都會有多d時間比大家. 而且仲要請多個工人幫手....一闊三大!



    pumpkin,



    如果我今年有, 出世時阿女就會係2歲10個月左右. 你囡囡出世前你有冇比心理準備哥哥呢?



  • 湊兩個開頭好好好辛苦.

    我兩個差好近, 唔足兩年

    帶出街簡直行軍咁, 前揹一個, 後一個backpack, 再推架bb車. 好辛苦但唔帶出街又唔可以分享喎~

    到後來, 細果個2歲零, 開始識同大果個玩, 有交流, 漸漸就舒服少少喇. 有時我仲可以訓晏覺, 佢哋自己喺廳玩添. 呵呵~



    我覺得兩個比一個易教, 因為識得分享, 關心. 同埋大會懶叻咁教細. 得一個會好自我, 無咁合群. 年紀相差得少仲好, 佢哋會開心好多~~~



  • 各位媽媽:



    Thanks for sharing!



    我有個女現在19個月大,今年11月返N1,我都係要返工,奶奶幫我湊女,星期一至五都去睇女,周未及日就湊女,無請工人,所以想起都覺辛苦。但正如single mom,兩個小孩的成長與一個獨生的分別很大,本人年紀都唔細,想生都要盡快開工,老公都鐘意bb,但生多一個大家的負擔都會好重,各位媽媽,其實生多個係咪真係要用多好多錢呢?



    Hello:



    祝你早日成功啦!



    Pumpkin:



    你就好,湊成一個好字!



    Mama:



    我想生多個,但都幾擔心錢的問題!



  • 我反而覺得花既錢唔差太遠喎(可能



  • 我反而覺得花既錢唔差太遠喎(可能我兩個有學費減免, 呢筆最大開支都減咗)

    其餘食, 多個細蚊食得幾多?

    最花錢可能係學嘢, 但唔俾佢學又唔得



    要既時間心機愛比金錢多好多~~~



  • 我都是第2任媽媽,大仔只有17個月,細仔的就07年10月出世,我同老公都覺得2個近年齡會好一點,所以都唔想等大仔2歲先再生,由於知道第2個都是仔,都有d擔心會好active,不過覺得都無得唸,很多人都想生仔都生唔到,便叫自己接受。



    我都是要返工的,而且要讀書,所以有了第2個都唔可以再讀住。



    其實都有擔心$的問題,不過而加有學�部A都可以減輕好多,而之前大仔都唔敢買野(e.g.衫仔)不過而加有細佬,感覺都唔會浪費,加上有很多野都可以即刻用番,用完可以比人,唔駛留太耐,真係好好。



    有很多人都唔敢生2個,怕辛苦,但辛苦得過自己的父母,以前一個揍幾個都是這梂,只要你想到對大仔/大女是好一點,便應該要生多個啦。





  • 生兩個同一性別, 佢哋會有共鳴d架, 仲會開心d啱傾d. 其實想生一仔一女既, 只係大人滿足自己既想法.



  • strongly agree with single mom.. 兩兄弟 or 兩姊妹會好d.. 如一男一女, 佢地大個會無咁close了..



    我都想生多個, 不過遲d先, 因我以傢個bb只得5個月大.. 或者等bb大d, 兩歲到我才再生.. 因真的要d時間去淡忘照顧bb頭幾個月的辛苦事..

    不過兩個小朋友在家最好有工人啦.. 如無工人, 在家照顧兩個的人會好好好辛苦, 好容易有意外.. 因睇唔到咁多.. 識行嗰個在家周圍走, 另一個要抱 or 餵緊奶時, 真的不知點顧另一個..



  • 同性別真係好似好d,我近日都要同定個大仔講,佢會有細佬或細妹,我問佢細佬好唔好,佢就點頸,問佢細妹好唔好,佢就無反應,都覺得好好笑,都唔知是真是假。



  • hi all,



    我又覺得同性名感情唔一定好, 好似我同我家姐d關係都幾差吓的. 不過當然同性可以多d野一齊玩一齊分享.

    今次我希望可以生囝囝呀. 因為之前有個囡喇嘛. 朋友話通常家姐都比較照顧細佬妹的, 但阿哥就唔會照顧細佬妹喇.唔知係咪真的呢.



  • bb細個係唔會洗好多錢,而且大人又要花好多時間照顧bb,仲返而少咗時間洗無為錢o忝,不過到bb大咗就係我最擔心無錢,佢仲未出世你又年紀大,佢小學到中學都係要使得多錢,兩個就好大壓力,我同我先生都唔係搵好多,真係有排挨!


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