o岩o岩同男友鬧左一場大交..喊完一場之後..心情都依然極度低落..好唔開心!!



  • 佢為左公司一個女仔..同我爭持左近一年!!   佢口口聲聲話同人冇野..只係同事同幾o岩傾..但我感覺唔係幾舒服 (我承認我係較為呷醋)..曾經同佢講我心裡既不安..之後佢口口聲聲答應我唔再聯絡..但偏偏比我發現左幾次佢地依然有聯繫..我個心好痛............



  • if u can't leave him, 忍下啦........





    or 比個機會自己.......試下離開佢一段時間, 睇下適應唔適應到.......





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  • 妳男朋友根本同妳講緊大話


    算啦...咁辛苦為乜.......





    不如識多d朋友..或者搵d朋友玩下好過



  • 其實佢有女性朋友都唔出奇ar,你有冇捉到佢地做d咩對唔住你既野?



  • HIHI,r u ok?



  • 我都懷疑佢對我講大話..但每次鬧交..佢既態度都好似好理直氣壯..又話每個假期都陪住我..我打電話比佢..次次都可以搵到佢..o甘重要懷疑佢!!



  • 兩個人一齊既時候,真係要互相信任,如果唔係,好難相處落去...



  • 但有次我去完 toilet 出黎..見佢神神秘秘同人傾電話..收線後問佢同邊個傾..佢就話同媽咪..我唔信..叫佢比個電話我 check..點知根本唔係佢媽咪電話, 我問佢..佢就叫我唔好嬲.佢講大話..只係唔想我誤會!!



  • 我想問...你地好返之後,點樣再相處落去呢?


    你跟本就唔信佢...而佢又比唔到信任你...


    交...只會愈鬧愈大...最終......



  • 太利 - 我明白依個道理..但我同佢一齊八年喇..佢係我第一個男朋友..亦都係我唯一一個有 sex 關係既男人..我真係唔捨得!!



  • 我覺得就算佢無做d咩,你都肯定左佢同個女仔有野,就算之後佢真係因為你同個女仔唔做friends,難保將來無第二個女性friend ar,你咪試下大方d去同個女仔做下朋友仔囉(不過呢個可能性唔高)或者你試下從你bf了解下佢地點相處,可能真係無野,只係你唔想有女仔同佢太親近



  • 我都唔知係咪真係我多心同小器..好似今年初..佢知道我好唔放心..就提出話結婚..暫定今年 12 月..而雙方家長亦都正式見過面!!



  • 八年...又點...初戀...又點...


    咁樣落去...時間耐了總會累...


    你唔累咩...咁佢呢?


    一係...你去相信佢...唔應該知既就唔好問...睇開d...


    一係...ha...唔洗我講啦...





    當然...我都識有人會去忍受,繼續去懷疑對方,勉強起埋一齊...不過,佢每一日都過得好辛苦囉...



  • 不過個女仔曾經 send 過一個好曖昧既 sms..就係 "我在想你..你呢"!



  • 嘩...結婚...你諗都唔好諗住呀...


    我係過來人...以為結左婚就會咩事都冇...


    點知唔係...最後都係離婚收場...


    結婚唔係解決問題既方法...


    解決左問題先好結婚...



  • 若果你需要找個人同你傾計,聽你講你的感覺,我隨時都陪伴你架!





    ^__^





    msn: aibo_729@hotmail.com



  • 我個心..係好想同佢結婚! 不過又好擔心之後又會繼續過依 d 徬惶既日子!! 加上父母都知道哂婚事..如果有變化..我實在好難面對同啟齒!!



  • 加上父母都知道哂婚事..如果有變化..我實在好難面對同啟齒!!


    我話你知丫...當你要離婚果陣仲難啟齒呀...





    如果你真係咁想結...咁你同佢真係要好好解決左呢個問題先囉...



  • 你而家都咁hurt,咁同分手有咩分別



  • 係..你講得岩..如果離婚..真係比而家話唔結更難開口!!



  • 嘗試去解決曬d問題先...


    得閒同佢傾下...





    除左結婚外...佢可唔可以比到多d信心你呢..?


    就算佢同其他異性一齊傾下計,你可唔可以唔好咁多疑呢?





    其實...有樣野我都覺得幾過份...就係check對方電話...



  • 好好諗清楚啦...





    閃一陣先



  • check對方電話...過份?到你bf或gf走左而你比人呃左果陣,你會話who會過份D?



  • Hi Sally,





    I can feel how hurt you are. I feel really sorry for you :(


    Some guys like to flirt around but keeping their gf and I don't think it is acceptable. I think you should STAY CLAM right now, sit down and talk to him properly again, tell him your concern, why you are worrying, how hurt you were when you knew that it wasn't his mum on that phone call. You should request him to promise not to lie to you anymore although this is the basic requirement/rule for couples, tell him if he breaks the promises you may leave him. (It's liked a final warning to him, but please tell him WITH CLAM otherwise he won't listen)





    On your side, try to listen what he says and know more about the relationship between him and that gal, be open minded. May be they are just fds, you never know! (same as @0@ said, 你咪試下大方d去同個女仔做下朋友仔囉(不過呢個可能性唔高)或者你試下從你bf了解下佢地點相處,可能真係無野,只係你唔想有女仔同佢太親近)





    I would say he misused your trust on him and it is hard to build on again, but I think you've chosen to forgive him because you love him right?





    Marriage isn't the way to slove this problem, you should know that.





    I envy you because you had 8 treasurable years with your 1st lover. I think it is not the worst situation yet, don't be sad and cry anymore ok? Good luck!





    Thanks for reading my rubbish laaaaa :]



  • 太利,





    老實講, 我知道 check 對方電話等等既行為係唔正確, 會令對方覺得同我一齊冇私人空間; 我唔係搵藉口去 support 自己既行為係岩 (其實我係知自己唔岩)..但當你發現自己身邊最親近既人..神神秘秘..同人講電話時態度唔自然 (唔講: 哦..唔..係既字句)..而且一次又一次呃妳..妳個人就會變得好迷失..好猜疑..會好想好想去查根問底..甚至不顧一切..





    CarreraGT,


    其實我有做過你所講既 final warning..佢每次都 promise 唔會唔會..但之後都比我再次發現..每次佢既解釋就係..佢真係再冇搵過人..只係人地打比佢..但我叫佢同人地講 "佢女友唔鍾意..所以唔好聯絡"..佢又話咁樣唔得..因為冇咁既需要..佢根本冇背叛我..重話信心唔係個女仔比我..而係從佢對我既行為..重舉例同我講..每次我 call 佢..佢都有聽..每個假期都同我一齊..情人節生日都有買花比我..陪我一齊過..如果佢真係有變心..就唔會咁做!! 所以好多時..聽完佢既解釋..我都會反醒自己係咪過份小器左..但每次個女仔打黎..我一聽到佢既對答係 "哦..唔..係"..我就好唔舒服..好不安!!




  • sally, really understand ..wanna further chat in msn..marriedman1968@hotmail.com



  • 我覺得男人你越想綁住佢, 佢就越心野


    不如你試下唔好咁緊�




  • sally,


    How are you going along with him right now? is it still the same? that girl still keep calling him and he still pick it up no matter what? He should consider your feeling too bor~ If he breaks the promise so many times, now i think it's time to think about is this guy wroth to stay with anymore then. The key point is, he cares about what he says to that gal on the phone more than you. Leave him alone, let him know who is the one he should care. Best of luck!



  • 公司既同事好難避免..睇黎你都唔係好信佢..咁樣你不如離開



  • 老實講...當你check得佢電話既時候,你已經好難再相信佢...



  • 冇錯..我真係覺得..只要個女人一打黎而佢係有接聽..我對佢既信心已經盡失..我曾經都同佢講過: "如果你地真係普通朋友咁簡單..咁可唔可以當為我左..為左我地咁多年既感情..而犧牲依個普通朋友"!! 點知..佢依然唔肯主動同依個女人劃清界線!!





    八年感情..我真係唔捨得放手..但如果要我一直都過依種徬徨迷失既日子..我諗我寧願深深咁傷一次..



  • hi sally,


    yea, fully support with you! No matter what your decision is, all he has no respect to you at all by now!!! A bad guy is not worth to miss.


    Build up you new life, be independent again, explore your social life and meet more new fds :]



  • CarreraGT,





    多謝你既 support..我真係好希望自己當面對佢時..可以堅持而家依個決定..唔好再心軟..不過要同一個自己深愛既人講分手..真係需要好大既勇氣同堅持!! 我希望自己真係可以做得到...tks!!



  • 你再同佢好好傾下先啦...


    話佢知...你點諗佢...


    話佢知...你既感受...


    話佢知...你將會決定點做...



  • sally,





    你而家的遭遇, 我都經歷過...我個ex都是我的初戀, 第一個男人, 識左6年,唔肯放棄同佢o既女性好友聯絡...我一直都好就佢....最後都分手!





    我同你一樣都比較容易吃醋, 但我覺得如果一個男子真心鍚你, 佢會明白你感受的, 我想你的bf同我ex一樣都係比較自私, 即係顧及自己感受多過你.





    到現在我的男朋友同我一樣, 好需要安全感....直接d講即係"夾"d 囉, 係唔需要吵都明白你點解會吃醋...





    我好想話你知... 一個人性格好難改, 千萬唔好以為你可以改變到佢呀...





    佢係唔係一個可以付託終生的人? 你和他將來有沒有幸福? 希望你想清楚才計劃結婚~



  • 唉..江山易改本性難移..我曾經都以為我可以用大家咁多年既感情..黎令佢為我做多 d d..點知都係失望而回!!!





    其實我真係好辛苦..我 feel 到佢唔係唔愛我架..好似禽日鬧交..我熄左手機..又唔想佢打黎屋企搵到我 (唔想屋企人知道我同佢有 argue)..所以呃父母..今日同個老死去 disney..唔想太早出門..所以禽晚去個女仔朋友屋企到瞓..事實係唔想比佢搵到我...





    點知禽晚半夜..我個朋友手機响起..原來係佢..但我朋友冇接到 (因為佢唔想講大話..話我唔响佢到)..電話响左一次又一次..今早我開番手機..又一次又一次咁响....





    如果佢真係唔鍾意我..真係變左心..又點會四圍搵我!! 但係..點解..佢偏偏又唔肯同個女同事斷絕..佢算點o者而家!



  • 佢仲意你唔代表佢唔會對第二個有好感喎....





    佢真係無仲意第二個, 但佢無了解顧及你感受係事實, 你認同嗎



  • 同佢好好咁傾下啦...


    八年感情...又搞緊結婚...


    睇下大家可唔可以好好咁解決呢個問題先囉...


    唔得先分...


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