男....女.....real friendship??
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妹豬
<br>right. 你有你做人嘅style
<br>一切都係講matching
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sorry, 應該係太好, 唔係太快
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dent
<br>no, I am not stock agent, I just have little investment in stock market.
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<br>依個係我朋友俾我嘅advice
<br>佢地認為我對girls 太快. 會problem making
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<br>haha, what did u do to girls? I know some girls will think Gentleman is good feeling. I heard a lot in the past.
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may,
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<br>有機會同你講下stock related affair
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dent
<br>that is great. I am only new learner, just buying "stable" stock, very slow upward!
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以前我會相信有好朋友存在,但現在...似乎有D問題.
<br>不是單一化,而係雙方化.
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因為唔同女仔有唔同嘅反應
<br>我諗我都係一個幾細心嘅男仔,
<br>我有個concept, 對女仔都一定要gentleman
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wsk_57
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<br>why 雙方化?
<br>it seems that somethings happened to you
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wsk_57
<br>I feel that if you have this thinking, your "friend" will have this thinking too, so it is very difficult for you to have pure friendship with "opposite" sex.
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dent
<br>我有個concept, 對女仔都一定要gentleman
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<br>are u from other country? Since I have been living in other country some years, I know that guy could treat a lady very nice due to gentlemen only. But if the same behavior happen in HK, most girl will say that guy is approaching her. Very funny.
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may
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<br>i am not from other country
<br>但係我會覺得gentleman係basic requirement
<br>你講嘅問題係因為hk gals 保護意識強
<br>hk boys 好多又會有所目的
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Dent
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<br>咁係因為香港有部份男仔太衰,先令女仔咁保護自己~
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Dent,
<br>I have some female friends, who are good friends of mine. I introduced my gf to them during friend gathering event. And I will bring gf to those event if she wants to go with me. My action also makes my gf to introduce her friends to me.
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<br>I noticed there are many men/women want to hide their gf/bf away from their friends, who are opposite sex. I think that is the difficulty you are saying.
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妹豬
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<br>依個係一個好重要原因, 我自己係男仔
<br>都會feel到有好多男仔hurt到女仔
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eight_letter
<br>你講嘅野都有point
<br>兩個人fall in love will become selfish,
<br>couple oriented
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簡單來說, 坦白, 信任 最重要
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Dent
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<br>無辦法~做女仔的只可以帶眼識人
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妹豬
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<br>男仔都係要帶眼識人, 太複雜了
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for myself, I just classify if he/she is good person, if our personality is match, if I feel comfortable when communicate with him/her...etc to see if we can be friend or not.
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<br>However, if the situation change that he eventually is want to approach me, then the friendship will change...
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<br>my point is we can not avoid knowing friends due to prevent "something may be happen".
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may
<br>如果你知道你自己係點, 係最好
<br>別人的想法的確沒有辦法去控制
<br>只想遇到新相識的人時, 有機會成為朋友就去珍惜, 希望真正可以同你成為朋友, may
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need to leave again
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<br>if want to contact me.
<br>via email: [email protected]
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dent
<br>thanks, See u later la.
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When I studied part-time, there was a classmate interested in me and she mentioned to my good friend about it. At that time, I had a gf and everyone knew about it.
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<br>I didn't take any advantage from her by know this information. After we graduated she is still a good friend of mine and we still keep contact. She will mention her new bf and live to me. Don't be afraid if someone likes you. 因咽廢食 is stupid
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eight_letter
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<br>你的經歷可能有少少唔同.
<br>大家可能沒有面對面去說我愛你
<br>不過你地都好好, 大家都可以放下
<br>your life keep going without any problem with each other
<br>我都會好似你咁講
<br>唔會去怕, 只會好好處理, 因為我一定會相信
<br>boys and girls can be real friend
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hello, 你地有冇啲唔同嘅睇法??
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<br>大家一齊share
<br>可能會令你有更好嘅relationship
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有冇人可以傾下計?
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其實真係好難...但未必絕對無可能
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<br>剛剛開始認識對方都會先保護自己..
<br>咁係正常的反應....
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<br>只要大家用平常心而又真誠的對待,
<br>大家必定可以做到好朋友...
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木籣
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<br>你有冇試過發展friendship過程中
<br>會唔經唔覺有曖昧的時間
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你地有冇一些成功的例子?
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你好DENT
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<br>這麼多年來, 幸好遇上幾位知心男性朋友..
<br>大家相處都沒有什麼曖昧或唔見得光的事..
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<br>現在比較少見面..
<br>原因各自各長大了..
<br>大家都工作為將來而忙碌,
<br>稍有時間也要陪陪身邊的另一半或屋企人, 對我這位朋友只可以在EMAIL裡大家互相聯絡......
<br>這情況下, 少見面唔代表失去了友誼..只要大家個心還關心對方..已足夠了..
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<br>當然間唔中都會搞笑話下對方 " 有無搞錯呀咁耐都唔浦頭? " 呢一類對白咯..
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木籣
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<br>朋友就係咁, 朋友往往默默在你身邊
<br>平時各有各忙, 需要的時候, 想到他們的時間就會有講唔完的說話
<br>朋友間, 用"心照"去聯繫
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木籣
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<br>how old are you?
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DENT
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<br>你這一問有沒有和對方有曖昧過..
<br>um...當然有遇過呢...
<br>但現在都也是朋友但沒有咁熟了..
<br>因為很難維持....
<br>除非雙方都放低哂..就可以再做返好朋友了!
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<br>其實曖昧有好多種...
<br>SEX, 言語上, 拖下手仔錫一錫等等...
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<br>只係睇下邊一種會令大家拎得起放得低吧了
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所以我都會講過
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<br>要道出"我愛你" 通常會失去大家的友誼
<br>因為可能會變成情人., 或是陌生人
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曖昧我覺得係大家之間有一種feel
<br>uncertainty....
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細心想. 做朋友, 往往開心過做情人
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朋友間, 用"心照"去聯繫
<br>by Dent
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<br>其實真係好睇大家咯..
<br>心照呢樣野唔係人人都受落..
<br>好多人覺得係excuse....
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<br>而我, 我有時真係好忙
<br>但間唔中都會send email傾1,2 句
<br>唔係簡單咁forward email呢一類..
<br>有時我果D email內容,
<br>對方睇完唔洗真係要reply我比response..
<br>好似睇雜誌咁一樣,
<br>你鐘意睇完想寫返回應雜誌社又得,
<br>唔回應, 咪等下期咯...
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可能依樣亦都係男同女唔同的地方
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<br>女的追求始終都係別人的關心
<br>男的追求始終都係別人的明白
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<br>你都好好, 會send email keep contact
<br>我有時會覺得自己唔上心
<br>就係我好少主動搵我的朋友
<br>通常都係佢地有事會搵我傾計
<br>朋友庚間我的確欠了一份主動
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我快 30 歲了! 失禮哂
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<br>我都認為做朋友好過做情人
<br>但唔係人人都接受的..
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<br>如果真係要同對方講一句 " 我好鐘意你!"
<br>之前就要有心理準備
<br>假如對方唔接受你,
<br>你都可以繼續和對方做返朋友..
<br>當然對方都要明白才可以..
<br>你睇下自己想唔想take risk了
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<br>而我,
<br>我鐘意一個男性朋友時
<br>我知自己鐘意佢其實係"欣賞" 佢...
<br>並唔需要係埋一齊做情侣的..
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所以我可能唔適合做情人
<br>情人需要的是承諾, 付出
<br>朋友間的相處比較適合我
<br>做情人的我可能往往都會傷害到人
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我都有好多女性朋友....
<br>冇諗過會追佢地...只係想做普通朋友...
<br>有感情問題�黈伬唹i以搵佢地訴苦...
<br>佢地會用女性角度同我分析...
<br>唔錯唔錯....
<br>有好多��...最緊要自己睇得通....
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有時我會諗
<br>可能我地同一個女性朋友講" i love you"
<br>唔係真係愛�
<br>係好自私咁想自己擁有佢, 唔想佢對其他人好
<br>之後就因為一時衝動而無左依一個好朋友
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痛苦傷心人
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<br>我都好同意其實有異性朋友一定會好啲
<br>始終意見, 睇法有根本的分別
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要有一個原則
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<br>最緊要唔好傷害到人
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女的追求始終都係別人的關心
<br>男的追求始終都係別人的明白
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<br>無論男或女都好, 都有呢個追求
<br>我相信, 男既一定會找到那位明白他的..
<br>而女既也會找到那位關心她的..
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<br>你說你自己欠了主動
<br>如果你遇上明白你的女性朋友
<br>當然沒問題
<br>但遇唔到的話,
<br>只係她不是太明白你吧了....係咪?
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<br>不過你都要比多少少反應比人地
<br>唔好令人誤會覺得你係玩失踪
<br>又或者係想疏遠佢地..
<br>其實你自己唔係的..!!
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<br>我有女性朋友都是欠了主動
<br>但性格是這樣...
<br>唔可以怪佢的...
<br>只要她身邊的朋友依然記得她
<br>常常不介意誰和誰先主動...
<br>因為大家都知道佢性格係咁..
<br>唔係玩失踪或疏遠大家..
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但係我往往都會被誤會為
<br>唔係玩失踪或疏遠大家
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<br>可能我都係唔係咁懂得去keep a relationship
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<br>我時時都希望能夠遇到一個明白我的人
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每個人都會有自私的時候...
<br>你話自己最緊要唔好傷到別人
<br>但自己可能唔知原來已經傷害左人..
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<br>點都好啦
<br>唔好話自己唔適合做情人..
<br>同人地相處係好難既學問..
<br>有心既, 一定做到..
<br>只在乎你自己有幾多要求..
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但係我往往都會被誤會為
<br>唔係玩失踪或疏遠大家
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<br>可能我都係唔係咁懂得去keep a relationship
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<br>你似乎係懶多D 咯..
<br>有心無力果隻..
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<br>唔好再係咁啦...積極一D....
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有時候唔係只係自己有幾多要求
<br>他人對你的要求亦都重要
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<br>我自己都會覺得自己係一個好嘅朋友, 男朋友
<br>我會好細心去關心身邊每一個人
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其實我都係一個幾積極的人
<br>有咩唔開心好快會唔記得
<br>覺得樣樣都可以重新做好啲
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<br>所以我都好想搵多啲男同女嘅real friendship