分手不分開............. 有無人好似我咁............. 唔捨得放手..............................
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to wsk_57:
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<br>其實我之前都開過條thread,
<br>你介唔介意睇下?
<br>因為條thread都講得幾清楚..
<br>我諗我既經歷唔會比你地開心
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架
<br>好呀
<br>係邊呀?
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唔知點解唔可以直接post 條link 出黎...
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<br>條thread 名:"點解唔可以堅持一點?"
<br>請係she.com messageboard search 就會搵到ga la~
<br>Thanks!
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1234,
<br>你仲未放得開呀？
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<br>wsk,
<br>祝你也成功啦
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wsk_57
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<br>我都應該唔會啦
<br>我會成日諗佢又唔係對我好好....咁d感覺就開始 fade out
<br>你都加油啦
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nikki
<br>其實你有的感覺我都有.............
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<br>做呢樣做個樣唔緊要, 但係我 feel 唔到你鍾意我...咁點解我仲要同你一齊
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<br>...........其實大男人真係好難相處..............
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<br>或者我真係要理智d...........同佢一齊根本無幸福..................唔好再比籍口自己...........去留係佢身邊
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wsk57
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<br>我都想息曬d電話
<br>唔好等自己心掛掛.....係度等佢電話.........
<br>因為我覺得大家唔再contact
<br>大家會分開得快d
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wsk57
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<br>你話要另自己好忙？
<br>但我份工唔係好忙.........
<br>好多時都可以準時走.............
<br>自己又唔多約朋友出街........又無咩朋友
<br>咁做咩去另自己忙呀？
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<br>你會點另自己忙呢？
<br>加上我一個人住..........會好多時間想起�
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<br>你同你ex無contact幾耐
<br>你有無miss him？
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fhw
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<br>多謝你!
<br>^^
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大男人唔等於自私ga wor...
<br>我覺得真正大男人既男人係好ga!
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<br>to wsk57:
<br>希望你睇曬我打既野la..
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nikki
<br>我都係呀,一諗到佢對我唔好我就好嬲啦
<br>好似覺得自己好委屈,
<br>何必呢~~~總之大男人就唔易相處.
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<br>但我又鍾意大男人多d喎~呵呵~!!!
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我覺得大男人都唔緊要...但係大男人都會識得錫自己女朋友啩...你唔好話俾我聽你唔識囉...你真係鍾意我你自然識得做...女仔要既只不過係好少既 caring...你連最基本既都唔會去做...咁行落去冇意思....唔好淨係識得話你其實係鍾意我囉
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架
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<br>你而家同你女朋友點呀？
<br>咁你過得好嗎？
<br>可以忘記了嗎？
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<br>nikki
<br>或者你已經清醒曬了................
<br>我要幾時先醒呢？
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nikki,
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<br>我 ex 絕對同你一樣 !!! 都係要為佢 ! -> "咁之後就反而次次都係佢搵我...."
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<br>各位, bluegirl + bubebu1234, 我同佢分開左個多月, 最攞膽既係, 我地工作上一定要幾乎日日聯絡, 真係.....
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<br>不過為左唔比自己犯錯/賤下去, 我呢個幾月一個 personal call or email 都冇, 我都痛苦過, 就係因為太痛, 傷得太深, 我明白, 再下去唔係辦法。而家工作上聯絡, 都唔會多講一句話, 只係 - 係, 好, 唔該等等等等...
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<br>我明白, 大家都要明白, 痛, 傷害/心, 只係一個心理既過程, 過左, 就 ok !
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<br>我也不是很酒脫, 天天起床, 晚上閉上眼睛, 都是他, 但又如何 ?
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bubebu1234
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<br>好似 wsk_57 咁講....你真係要搵d野做 occupy 吓自己d時間啦...
<br>例如瑜珈啦...我啱啱散左個都係咁...而家搵番自己既 rhythm, 自己既 life...當然仲有成班 friends 陪啦
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bubebul1234
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<br>u r too stupid..........please stopped disscussing this shxt........if u broke up with him, just stopped seeing him....n start dating other guys.......many of girls like u in hk......wasting their timing ..til they r 30 or something n whing about why they cant find a decent guy!
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to wsk57:
<br>佢咪開開心心拍拖lo...
<br>我冇再搵佢, 就算搵佢,佢都唔會覆我...
<br>不過我冇後悔當時reject佢,
<br>因為o個個問題令我好冇安全感....
<br>最難過既時候都過左lu~Thanks~
<br>不過千其唔好搵水泡..
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bb
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<br>真係可以做到咁勁？
<br>一個電話都無？
<br>你係咪無諗過要同佢再一齊返？
<br>其實係咪分左手就無得返轉頭？
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<br>搵返自己.............或者真係好重要...........
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bubebu1234
<br>你都試下息電話啦
<br>可能有肋架~
<br>你一個人住咁爽既~我都好想試下呀~~~
<br>可惜資金不足...$$$$
<br>朋友唔多係悶d,但你一定唔可以用呢個作藉口!
<br>你可以去學下嘢架,興趣班都好呀~其實去學嘢增值自己呢個都係辦法黎,好多人都試過,亦都可以當識多d朋友,不過我話過佐年去報到而家都仲未去報....=.=
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<br>開朗d啦~搵多d朋友傾解.或者多d關心屋企人/朋友
<br>試下多d聽佢地講嘢做下聆聽者
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bubebu1234
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<br>你好似都仲係好想同佢係返埋一齊....當然因為你仲好愛佢...但係我建議唔好 show 到俾佢睇囉....你一日係咁佢都唔會珍惜你架...佢會覺得你垂手可得...
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bubebu1234,
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<br>係呀, 其實係要好大決心, 唔比自己心軟/ 軟弱, 先可以做到, 你再咁落去, 結果都係一樣 : 一段冇結果既感情 & 延長自己心如 knife 割既情緒, 好辛苦, 好痛, 心日日在淌血...
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<br>我地試過分好幾次, 之前大家好唔捨得, 都走番一起, 不過, 重複又重複既分離, 一起, 流淚, 很是討厭, 也, 很 trouble -> 係我而家既感覺, 所以, 今次係真係冇得番轉頭, 因為無謂再糾纏下去了。
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<br>緣份盡了.
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nikki
<br>是的.......
<br>我仲好想同佢係埋一齊
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<br>男人真係咁犯賤？
<br>對佢好就唔珍惜..............
<br>要另到我唔愛佢...........佢先會諗起我？
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<br>就好似我同佢講...我識左個男仔....
<br>佢就變得緊張.....成日問我放工去邊
<br>但當我同佢講我係唔會鍾意呢個男仔
<br>因為我知自己仲鍾意你
<br>佢又變得無咁care lu
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<br>但我好清楚...........當我唔再愛佢唔想再關心佢時..........我就係好返lu.............
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<br>可能到時佢先變得想同我一齊..........
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其實好無奈ga...
<br>我之前都係咁拖拖拉拉, 點可以真正分開?
<br>就係是但一個有新開始, 但到個時另一個就會好hurt.... 我係容易心軟o個個,hurt既自然就係我..
<br>應該要放開就放開,如果唔係就只會傷害大家,
<br>大家keep contact, 見面, 感覺好似以前大家一齊既感覺只係借返黎ga ja...到某個時候你就要雙倍俸還!!!
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bb
<br>你地離合好多次..........你會覺得好痛苦......
<br>又一齊又分開..........開心...........之後又痛苦
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<br>但對我黎講..........點解佢唔可以再試一次一齊呢？點解佢話左分開就真係分開.....
<br>唔可以比多次機會大家試下........
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<br>既然佢又成日搵我又打比我......
<br>咁點解唔可以試下..........？
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wsk57
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<br>我都明學d�洏i能會好d
<br>一黎可以學��
<br>二黎可以識朋友
<br>三黎可以消磨時間
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<br>不過就係因為一個人住
<br>d錢唔多夠用....
<br>學�炡ㄣX貴
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<br>你呢你係咪有好多朋友可以傾訴.............
<br>你做邊行嫁？忙唔忙？放工點打發時間呢？
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bubebu1234 ,
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<br>可能佢既諗法同我一樣, 無謂再拖落去 ! 同埋, 真係好鬼煩 !
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架
<br>大家keep contact, 見面, 感覺好似以前大家一齊既感覺只係借返黎ga ja...到某個時候你就要雙倍俸還!!!
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<br>原來呢d都係假像...........................
<br>好害怕呀
<br>我明的...........其中一個有新開始就唔會再搵另一個
<br>我都係心軟的
<br>所以受傷都係我
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<br>咁你而家好返d未呢？
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我個 case 係，拍拖時成日話分手都唔捨得，結果好快就心軟係番埋一齊，一直拖到結婚年齡，家人迫婚，就結埋婚...... 但結婚唔代表個問題會自動解決，大家都冇心去改，一樣成日都鬧交，最後離婚收場，浪費青春！
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心軟我代價 = 浪費青春！
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心軟的代價 = 浪費青春！
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bubu1234:
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<br>好好多..不過都係未好曬..
<br>因為hurt得好緊要...都唔知要恨佢定愛佢,
<br>岩岩分手仲會好傻咁為佢諗,為佢學琴,因為想tum返佢...但諗清楚,根本冇可能,我太天真la..其實不如對自己好d...加上唔係我已經係呢段感情盡左力,我問心無愧,有愧都唔係我,
<br>所以不如學習放開la..
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我覺得可以同佢講你仲鍾意佢....但係再同佢講雖然仲鍾意你...但我決定要開始慢慢學習唔鍾意同唔見你咁多...咁我覺得我會比而家開心...因為我同你一齊時唔開心多過開心
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年紀越大、拖得越耐、承諾越深 (eg 結婚)，分開既時候越痛，唔好再浪費青春！
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我到而家都唔知道大家一齊係為咗乜,相愛?定係情慾???我只知道無人清楚我而家有幾痛苦.................
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對方一直都無講過愛我,咁一齊呢段日子裡面係咩一回事呀??
<br>我真係有諗過死............
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to Cry:
<br>做乜咁傻ar?
<br>你係Girl?
<br>同佢一齊幾耐?
<br>Love 就算冇講過出口都唔代表佢唔love你ga ma..
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架,
<br>唔係咁簡單架...........
<br>我係女人,
<br>我為佢做好多野...........我自問從事沒有對佢自私過半點........但佢講既同做既從來都無理過我感受..........真係好辛苦............
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其實我覺得盡量唔好將呢樣野放得太大囉, 問吓自己...點解你既世界淨係得佢一個....
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有時係事與願違...........
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Cry:
<br>如果唔係咁簡單,你可唔可以講下你又點解不問回報咁對佢?
<br>其實你自己最清楚,不過不妨分享下你既唔開心.
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<br>Elyse:
<br>你講得好岩!
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i'm leaving now guys... good luck to all of us...ADD OIL!!
<br>talk later
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See u nikki~
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cry
<br>唔好咁傻喇
<br>你要清醒D
<br>你雖然愛佢,但你一樣需要有自尊,女仔更是!同埋生存唔係為佐一個人,佢唔重視你唔愛你唔珍惜你唔代表你就無人愛或者唔值得人愛你
<br>我一樣好唔舍得...但我可以放得開
<br>因為我話得就得!你都要堅強D呀,知嗎??
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架
<br>我會記得去睇架喇
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架
<br>我會記得去睇架喇
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to: 悶人一個
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<br>你係....?
<br>記得去睇??
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wsk57:
<br>oh~haha~原來未睇ga~
<br>等你睇完我地再係度傾計la~
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bubebu1234
<br>其實我朋友唔多,不過我都會盡量去同朋友傾.分擔/分享下.
<br>如果唔講出黎自己會更加諗得屈,會做傻事架.
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<br>我係做速遞公司文員架,有時好忙又有時好得閑
<br>相信你地個個都收曬工,得返我一個.................
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悶人一個係我黎架 呵呵~~~~
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<br>唔好意思呀..我頭先都一直忙都無去睇...
<br>我明日一定睇完!!!
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wsk57:
<br>e~我地做d野差唔多wor~
<br>我都有時好忙又有時好得閑,其他人收工,
<br>我就要開工, 仲要返夜開通頂...
<br>之前d唔開心野會令自己極之抑鬱....
<br>我做Forwarder ga