好唔開心, 媽咪心臟病岩岩走左.....我知佢仲有心事未講....夢見我幫佢化妝佢突然喊,跟住我俾電話燥醒左....好唔捨得佢...好對佢唔住..幾年前鬧交搬走左,幾個月先見一次,好後悔.... :'(





  • 番唔到轉頭既野仲諗黎做咩?





    由今日開始珍惜身邊既人,以免重覆犯錯好過啦!



  • Hi 不孝女


    if you do believe in true, please give me an e-mail and let me contact you in the other way. chrisyau@sinagirl.com in truely sincere.



  • 我好辛苦訓唔到又有人機返工,我真係好掛住佢



  • blue_girl ,


    我d妹仲衰e幾年直情冇理佢見都唔見佢, 我老豆冇養過我地,我最錫係媽咪....



  • I feel so sorry for you and for your mother. It really takes time to recover from the sadness =(



  • 我好心痛..........



  • my friend just lost her mom in car accident, i know it must be very tough for you. were you able to speak to her before she left?



  • 不孝女,





    I understand how u feel. I had similar experience in 3 years ago. My brother passed away in a car accident. The sudden loss of a close family member was so hard to go through. I had many sleepless nights. I remember I dreamt of my brother a few times. Each time I woke up from my dream and realised it was only a dream (and knew in fact he died in reality) and I cried out immediately.





    My brother and I were very close when young. However we seldom saw each other since we started working. I was so busy with work. Before the car accident, my brother asked me to have Karaoke together but I was so busy at office so I just turned him down. I thought we had so many chance to meet anyway. I feel so regret now for not spending more time with each other when we had a chance.







  • 不孝女,





    雖然今世報唔到孝道


    有緣的話


    下世再報





    妳多D想�


    佢會知架啦




  • 有心各位..


    媽咪食完早餐就心臟痛,葯都未放入口就走左, 我係公司收到警察打電話先趕去但佢已經走左啦....我知佢仲有好多野未放心...婆婆同d女...因為第日去睇佢個樣有d唔開心同係醫院個樣好唔同....我好想問佢有咩方法



  • 日頭既我完全唔想同人講野,唔該曬你地



  • 節哀順變, 你想你媽走得安安樂樂要堅強d, 你媽都都曾經後生過做過人地個女會諒解你唔會怪你0既~



  • 我唔敢同婆婆講,驚佢頂唔住..我會一直呃住婆婆...



  • 換個角度睇, 你媽一身兒女債辛苦左成世係時候比佢休息下喇, 以後0既責任佢交左比你地喇, 你媽媽雖然走得快但起碼唔需要長時間受病魔折磨比起好多人仲算幸運, 再者對一個人0既思念並不在乎果個人是否在自己身邊只在乎一份心意, 環境雖然改變左但係你地關係永遠唔會變, 你媽媽永遠活在你心中, 佢愛你所以擔心你生活, 如果你同樣地愛佢就要活得幸福令佢放心, 你明嗎?



  • it is definitely very hard for the elders..i can't imagine how your por por will react, i feel so sad =(


    life is short, as a daughter/son we never have enough time to pay back our parents. I understand it's very hard for u, i just hope that you will think positively and continue your life, cherish your life is a good payback to your mother, please take care.



  • 媽咪好孝順,我一d都唔似佢,因為我咩都放係心,真係好蠢



  • same as you, I 我咩都放係心 as well. but i believe when you truly love and care your mother, she knows that too! You need to follow your mom's step and take good care of your grandma as well. try to speak to others and don't keep everything inside your heart, otherwise it would be very sun fu =(



  • 媽咪18歲就生我,要照顧d女仲要照顧婆婆...咁多年都有停過真係好辛苦.....我5年前就搬走......d時間真係過得好快......



  • your mom is a strong woman! i think you must be very proud of her, right?


    are you okay financially to prepare for the funeral?



  • we don't know each other in person, but after i read what you wrote, i just feel so sad for you, i believe the pain of loss if very hard to bear. So i am here to listen if you want to speak up your feeling. i ususally online around this time.



  • 我要訓啦,因為明天仲要幫佢攪身後事,希望可以再同你地傾過,我舒服d啦...



  • 人只可以向前看, 以後努力做好d 喇~



  • good night~



  • good night...bo chun ar! you need to be strong ar..sleep well.



  • 你媽媽會諒解你0既, 早d 休息啦, 你仲有好多野要做~



  • 親人往生了, 難過是一定有的, 唔開心就搵人傾計, 或者上網抒發心情吧, 會好好多的......





    正如樓上有網友所言, 妳媽咪離開時少痛苦都算幸運, 這是幾生修來的福氣, 都算是安慰了............生老病死畢竟是自然過程, 現在就讓妳媽咪先往別處享福, 休息一下, 大吉利是講句, 我們再多等幾十年就可跟先人在另一世界重聚, 希望樓主妳可以放開一點, 別過度往壞處想, 身體要緊呀!妳還要替她打點很多事情呢.......



  • 我曾經歷過喪母之痛﹐我因為我媽病到好嚴重所以就快d 結婚還佢個心願可惜結咗婚唔夠三個月佢就去咗了﹐佢有兩個心願都未實現佢乜說話都無講咁就走咗我當時都好心痛好唔捨得佢﹐我都好似你咁時常責怪自己唔比多d 時間陪佢﹐我返工係公司廁所度喊﹐最難過係第一次過時過節就諗起阿媽的。


    不過時間係可以沖淡一切嘅唔好諗到轉牛角尖多d 揾朋友傾訴開解你﹗



  • 雖然我同你唔相識, 但聽到呢個消息都好唔開心


    你唔好太傷心, 人已走了我唸她都想你開開心心咁生活下去, 如果你真係好後悔當初無好好咁關心她, 你仲有婆婆呢, 放多D時間係你婆婆身上, 她都好需要你既關心同照顧....







  • 振作呀!! 你媽咪在天之靈都唔想見到你咁樣, 你會令佢更加唔放心, 走得唔安樂.



  • 可以體會你既心情, 不過唔好咁自責喇, 你媽咪一定想你開心既, 而且都冇得番轉頭, 不如你同多d人講你既經歷, 等其他人唔好愛得太遲啦~



  • 我用狗志成條命換番你媽媽條命



  • 有人又攪事



  • 生老病死係大自然定律, 你都唔好怪自己, 以上網友講得arm, 去得舒舒服服都係一種福氣


    邊個無同屋企人嘈過丫! 你媽咪知道你唔開心, 佢都唔開心啦! cheer up! 事情總要積極面對


    前排我媽咪突然中風, 情況曾經好差, 我知佢成日都好擔心我地唔識照顧自己(我個女都讀小學啦!), 我同自己講, 如果佢有咩事, 為左要佢安樂, 我會更加照顧好我自己同家人, 我老闆見我無曬心機問候我, 我都係咁同佢講"無架, 好多野我地control唔到, 就算有咩事, 個地球一樣係咁轉架啦! 做好自己lor!"


    喊完, 就要振作喇! 人生總要向前看呀



  • 如果你再發夢夢到佢.同佢講你會好好照顧自己,咁佢就會好安樂....





    我因為工作上見過好多人死,基本上無乜邊個死得好.有跳樓,斬死,被車輾過.病到七彩先呻吟而死.被機器夾住而死,燒炭自殺叫好少少....


    咁耐以黎,只有一個死得幾幸福.


    係一個 80 歲既阿伯,佢有一個同年既老妻,


    佢倆住响佢個仔屋企既.佢嗰仔結咗緍,仲生咗三個細蚊仔.


    事發當日,佢個仔同新胞都返咗工,佢同佢老婆响屋企同孫仔玩,玩玩下就覺得餓,咁就求其食個包醫肚,食下食下就突然暈咗.跟住咁就去咗.........





    我去到現場,見到三個孫仔不斷大喊並哭泣,叫著:[爺爺!爺爺!,快d 救我爺爺.]


    咁我就同佢做人工呼吸.事實上我實在不忍小孩得悉佢地爺爺經己去世.而老婆婆當然好傷心.


    不過,兩老都年過80,有兒有女,仲三代同堂,家境亦算富裕.我覺得都算係好死......





    其他老人家好多死既時候,都係獨居,係天寒地凍情況之下咁就去咗,特別係年近歲晚,可能會倍感孤獨.好多都過唔到年.



  • 不孝女,





    I feel sorry for you but pls be strong. your mom wouldn't want to know that you're so unhappy now. Leave us messages here if you need people to talk to. God Bless You.



  • 版主, 個個仔女都係咁, 有既時候唔珍惜, 無既時候先可惜, 我同你都係一樣, 我衰過你, 我有成十二三年無見過我阿媽, 係近呢年先見返佢, 佢已經差唔多五十歲, 又多病痛, 仲要捱餐死搵錢還債, 日日唔夠訓, 我諗如果當初出黎做野後同佢有返聯絡, 我會努力d搵錢, 識諗好多! 你唔好咁傷心啦, 你錫佢佢在天之靈一定知架



  • 對你婆婆好d, 你媽媽會感安慰的.....希望你快d recover



  • 希望妳可以堅強下去啦,願主保佑妳



  • to不孝女,


    我都好同情你,我自己同你一樣..不過係我公公剛去世..我好錫我公公的...加上佢去世既事太突然...唉..不過時間真係可以沖淡一齊家..我公公都去左成個月有多..我學識左諗起佢而唔喊啦..我都覺得自己好叻...你而家要做既係...孝順你阿爸..知嗎



  • 各位有心,睇完你地俾我既留言真係舒服d,比係有d只會八掛我家事的(所謂朋友同事)好得多......最唔開心就係冇養過我地既老豆,口口聲聲話最愛係媽咪(我信佢係真)不過佢一d都唔識去愛人,仲話佢同第d男人, 佢又唔諗下自己,一個女人咁細就生左女老公又唔養,佢唔去識個第二個跟住佢仲慘,冇錢先識搵我地......e幾年媽咪病多得佢身邊有一個照顧佢的男友,我以前好憎佢,但係媽咪出事到現在佢都仲喊又有幫手,比係我口口聲聲話愛佢的老豆好得多, 佢細我媽咪十幾年架, 不過佢真係好照顧佢, 媽咪叫佢做咩佢都肯....其實我好想感謝佢係媽咪病既時候都不離不棄,反而我就搬走........



  • 唔駛客氣, 大家都很希望妳可堅強面對這一關, 我們會繼續為妳打氣的, 加油!





    妳既要一邊為母親辦事, 又要向外婆隱瞞, 真的不簡單, 妳好叻女! 希望妳面對外婆時要特別堅強一點, 控制情緒尤其重要, 萬一洩漏風聲, 影響老人家健康可麻煩了........好好照顧外婆, 令她生活開心快樂, 其實都是孝順的表現, 妳母親知道後必定很放心, 真的!



  • 其實換個角度黎睇, 你當年搬走未必係一個錯既選擇, 有時人與人之間相處實在好難講, 一齊住可能仲多磨擦, 好多時有d人同住但係如同陌路人. 我相信你同你媽媽都曾經隔洽相處過, 同埋做媽媽既亦都唔會計較仔女有幾多回報, 佢在天之靈唔會怪你.





    唔好淨係自責, 佢見到你咁樣會覺得唔安樂, 如果你覺得後悔, 就開始學識珍惜身邊既人.



  • are you alright? i hope everything is fine with you. please take care, i have been thinking of you these days.



  • hi,前日去探婆婆,代媽咪俾家用佢, 見到佢真係唔忍心俾佢知,但係真係好怕佢問媽咪去左邊...e十年真係發生左好多野.....我會堅強面對,思想好似老左好多咁...



  • do you have close friend who can support you? is everything alright with you? you are right for not telling your por por about this. Too painful for her!



  • 我也是過來人


    我的父親在去年父親節當日突然過身


    在這普天同慶父親節既日子, 我失去了他


    今日我仍在傷痛中, 我明白時間可以治療傷痛.


    盡可能的話, 不要自己一個去面對


    找朋友幫助你, 他們在身邊, 不用說/做什麼, 也可作為一份支持的力量


    不要再自責難過你怎樣忽略她待薄她, 這只會令你更難過, 更無法面對目前.