勉強留住一個不斷傷害自己既人,我真係好傻





  • 好煩好煩好煩!!!!



  • me too. I left him but I cant let go of him. in my mind. I still want him and miss him. Inside I still want to be with him tim.



  • tell me how he 傷害 你?



  • silly ,erica,


    don't like that,i have some experience b4,the good way to forget and forgive him is find the better one to replace him .i do it ,now i am very happy.



  • 我地一齊半年,一路都好好,一齊住,突然間佢話要搬走,想有私人空間,原來佢識左第二個,叫我俾時間佢攪,佢話只係一時貪玩,好快,佢就話同個女仔講清楚左,我都肯定佢係講清楚,但個女仔仲有send sms俾佢,佢都有reply,內容只係普通野,佢有俾我睇,但我唔佢佢地要糾纏到幾時





    好正常,我成日懷疑佢,佢覺得我好煩,成日甘


    大疑心



  • mm, its easy said then done. I don know if can find a better man to fit me. It hurts and I hate being in this postion. Cant call him but want so much to know what he is doing and how he is doing.



  • another man who cheats again. A ya!



  • 我冇嬲過佢對我唔住,我唔想迫佢,只要佢肯返轉頭!我唔想懷疑,但我真係一d信心都冇,我唔想分手,但唔知可以點



  • erica,


    其實您只可選擇信他或者唔信他,除非您選擇分開.您又做唔做到?


    如果係呢個階段做唔到,您可以繼續留係他身邊,睇下他係咪有誠意去愛,但千其唔好彼此傷害,如果有一日您發現他重複犯錯就係您一定要走的時候.




  • 唔想分手,就只有承受痛苦,他不會珍惜的。



  • silly,


    我都好掛住一個人,但彼此曾經傷害過對方,亦明白各自都無坦誠相對.雖然掛住但我唔會再找他,因為我好清楚最愛往往係唔適合成為生命中最後一個男人,又或者明知再愛大家條刺永遠洗不清,會有結果嗎?


    我現在不是很好嗎,身邊的另一半很錫我,不 久還會結婚.何必留戀一個傷害自己的人呢?


    掛住一個人不可找?人生本來就係有煩惱同遺憾,正因為人生有失落先知道喜悅時的感受,甘先人生,您要學懂享受開心和唔開心的過程,人生先會精彩







  • 如果繼續留戀傷害自己的人,繼續一起,您認為有將來?


    可以係番埋一起,能夠做到又有多少呢



  • 其實呢個人愛你,你唔使刻意做d咩,佢唔愛我就做咩都會令佢討厭





    呢個道理我明白,但我真係唔想就甘冇左



  • erica,


    姻緣真係要隨緣加...我學識珍惜曾經擁有過的 一切...


    一段感情該來時由它來,該走由它走.依我為例,我過去呢段感情涉及金錢,對方經濟能力差.我要借給他,形成他覺得理所當然.


    但我要用理智告訴自己,用智慧分辨在利益關係下的可能不是愛情,而係單戀.我選擇離開,讓他更主動努力工作.縱使我今天也不知道他曾經有愛過我嗎?但過程開心.感謝上天給我的bonus 就夠.




  • 我都好掛住一個人,但彼此曾經傷害過對方,亦明白各自都無坦誠相對.雖然掛住但我唔會再找他,因為我好清楚最愛往往係唔適合成為生命中最後一個男人,又或者明知再愛大家條刺永遠洗不清,會有結果嗎?


    我現在不是很好嗎,身邊的另一半很錫我,不 久還會結婚.何必留戀一個傷害自己的人呢?





    >我同你既心態一樣,學緊放低,雖然仍未放低得曬。


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