兩者間存在問題.....大家都唔想分開.....可以點解決?







  • like what kind of problem?










  • 咁真係要毫無保留咁傾, 是但一個吾坦誠, 段關係都冇得救



  • 傾... 你已經好好彩... 明知大家都存左問題都唔想分開... 傾下啦



  • 同男朋友一齊左兩年幾, 經常會0係佢屋企過夜,我地同年, 佢細我一個月,我今年22 歲...同佢做埋同一個性質既行業(不同公司),我工作表現一般, 但死好命地做左一單大生意, 全行既人宜家都識我, 佢工作認真,又聰明,但係冇乜成果,好大壓力....可惜我地係做收佣金既, 底薪只係好少, 兩個人加埋都唔夠$10k,所以我決定過埋07 年唔做, 揾過份多d人工既....咁兩口子就夠生活....我地有諗過結婚,但係佢經濟環境未許可住....





    佢成日都話自己做野好辛苦,.....成日聽倒佢話辛苦我好心痛, 所以成日都叫佢唔好做, 揾過份定薪既工,其實呢份工都幾揾錢,可惜冇生意就冇假放,畢竟佢宜家需要揾多d 錢





    上個月, 我冇得放假...日日都好似m 到咁....冇乜笑容....又成日發佢脾氣,比面色佢睇... 主要原因係佢媽媽(一路佢媽媽係令佢經濟出現問題攪到宜家仲負債既人)我覺得佢媽媽累左佢.....我唔係好有錢, 有時都教佢點解決債項和問銀行等





    今個月, 輪到佢冇得放假,日日都好攰,放工就即刻返屋企..,我見佢有時對我不啾不采,都有發佢脾氣.....前幾日仲拿分手黎講....佢當時有留我....由得我走, 我當然冇走...仲即刻喊,佢都有tum我.....





    幾日後, 佢對我既態度有d 唔同,冇以前咁好...我feel 倒佢直頭係唔想同我一齊,我就問清楚佢(用電話問), 佢老實咁答我佢係好想同我兩個分開一排冷靜一下係咪仲咁需要大家,佢話覺得我同佢越來越遠,冇以前咁夾... 佢覺得好難配得起我,又話佢覺得我同佢一齊我就佢就得好辛苦.....佢好想努力工作,揾多d 錢,養倒周圍既人.......我係咁tum 佢,又喊, 佢叫我冷靜d,成熟d....求我比佢自己一個人....佢地話其實佢好鍾意我,唔想同我分手....我亦肯定冇第三者存在





    跟住佢叫左兩個best frd 上去佢度...0個兩個frd 其實未上去已經打比我問我咩事, 我照講佢地知....佢地上到去之後傾左一陣就灌醉我bf, 走0個陣佢打比我,話我bf 其實真係好大壓力, 佢掩飾得好埋,基本上冇人知





    0個晚我成晚都冇訓, 第二朝我6 點鐘就過左左去睇佢....佢飲左好多同嘔,我去幫佢抺地, 佢醒左見倒我, 跟住佢同我講我冇事,唔會再唔要我.....但係佢呢幾日對我既態度仍然係咁..............呢幾日都同D frd 去飲野飲到好夜, 我提議去佢屋過夜, 佢又話佢阿媽返黎訓.....(佢阿媽返黎既話我就唔會去)





    我唔想同佢分手, 因為佢係我第5 個bf , 但係係我唯一一個我想嫁既男人....以前有呢d 事情發生, 我會直接分手....但係呢個我真係唔想散....我完全唔知點算.....





    有冇人可以教下我??



  • 有得傾就傾,無得傾就後悔無講



  • 我尋晚0係佢屋企, 同佢傾....我講曬我心目中所想既野, 佢既感覺, 同埋我有諗過自己既唔啱,我會改, 但係佢仍然唔肯講d 乜野, 剩係話冇野, 我問佢點解無啦啦回心轉意同返我一齊....佢又話叫我唔好問,佢唔知.....我覺得佢唔係唔知.....我覺得其實佢係唔想我唔開心, 諗住過一排等我冷靜左先再講分手



  • 講俾你男友聽一個「事實」...


    錢, 幾時都可以搵, 但要遇上一個心儀既人, 要好好運, 仲要呢個人係「愛」你既, 你估用錢就可以買到?


    倆口子, 一條心, 乜野都可以解決, 問題只係「肯」定「唔肯」「一齊」面對.



  • jan,


    男人係甘,講過一 次分 手,他就無安全感.他覺得您遲早會走.他差唔多麥都無,您仲講分手


    順其自然,係您始終係您




  • 我d 朋友聽完之後, 佢地都同我講要"gill" 開我男朋友個口唔係咁易....



  • agree to maggie,


    your bf doesn't want to say because it is useless to talk to anyone, I think now he wants to gain money, but none of you can help him, so what thing can he say?







  • jan..


    其實我都同男朋友有類似問題


    我同佢岩岩分左手..


    我有留過佢...不過佢話唔會返轉頭..





    呢個幾星期入面..我冇再搵過佢....


    因為我知道就算我同佢幾愛大家都好..


    有時有d位...係一齊唔到就一齊唔到..


    如果依家有問題既...死拉住大家都冇用..


    不如放開d....放手一排...比大家冷靜下先啦....咁樣可能對大家都好d.....





    其實佢同我共同既朋友..都知道...我同佢一齊返既機會係好大...因為我地都睇到..我男朋友o係度死撐緊...其實個心都係唔開心緊....





    我依家都等緊中....雖然冇人100%會知道佢返唔返來...不過未當比自己一個考驗囉..睇下呢個人係唔係真係同你有緣呢....



  • 同埋..希望你比d時間佢..


    有時男仔既野..想靜一排既..


    就算你同佢傾...真係會得唔到d咩結果....





    時間...可以令2個相愛既人走返埋一齊..


    相信自己...都要相信你男朋友...


    加油丫....



  • Jan,





    兩個人一齊, 有時都需要空間,


    佢唔開心, 你可以做的野, 就是唔好發咁多皮四, 唔好煩佢咁多, 其實你地都冇乜問題丫,


    壓力呢d野, 個個人處理方法都唔同,


    女人或者喜歡講出來, 要人逗下鍚下,


    但男人未必, 如果你真係想同佢一齊,


    就係背後支持佢, 唔好再引發更多問題就ok



  • 咁我係咪即係仲可以同佢一齊呀?



  • 其實如果佢想冷靜下,你可以參考下baby o既case。



  • jan - 02/24/07 02:14





    問題宜家唔解決,


    以後真係結左婚點算?



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