情人節果日bf 話要幫個fd 做野,唔同我過,俾你地會唔會唔開心?(我知佢一定唔係有第二個)





  • 佢個fd 近來攪緊d 野,但人地果日都無叫佢幫,只係佢話想義務去幫,,,

    佢話開心日日都係情人節啦,,

    但一年真係得一日,,

    俾著你地會點丫,,

    我唔開心又會覺得我唔體諒..



  • 完全唔會有hard feeling.



  • 佢個fd 近來攪緊d 野,但人地果日都無叫佢幫,只係佢話想義務去幫,,,

    佢話開心日日都係情人節啦,,

    但一年真係得一日,,

    俾著你地會點丫,,

    我唔開心又會覺得我唔體諒..



    將段野copy&paste mail比佢



  • 都會唔開心既, 但唔開心又唔代表唔體諒喎.





  • 我地拍左三年,

    即係其實你地覺得果日唔一定要一齊?

    唔知呀,,我聽到真係唔開心,

    你話要返工就話啫,

    人地明知佢有女朋友都唔會叫佢果日幫手,

    但佢已經咁講,

    如果我夾硬要佢陪我,我都唔會開心..



  • 點解一定要個日先幫fd 做野?早一日, 遲一日唔得咩? 要幫成日架?

    佢個fd 你識唔識先? 佢個fd 係咪唔知佢有gf ?





  • 唔開心都無計啦, 唔通你叫佢唔好幫個 fd 陪你?



    btw, 我同 bf 一齊幾年都無試過一齊過情人節, 都慣哂.



  • 有咩所謂, 點解一定要限死一日去慶祝, 仲要比商家佬揾笨添



  • 我係覺得佢已經打算係咁,

    我要開到口佢至唔去,

    我覺得已經無意思.



  • 算巴啦......情人節嘛.......我覺得生日咪重緊要.....



  • you ask him if he's gonna spend mother's day with you? Father's day with his cousin? Christmas day with his enamy? Jogging in water and swimming on land?



  • 會唔會佢特登o甘講, 等你失望, 然後果日突然出現, 比 surprise 你呀!



    你咪同佢講: 既然你要幫 fd, 都無辦法啦, o甘我地安排前一日或後一日慶祝lor, 正日我約自己 fd 去玩 (約d同性單身朋友去睇下戲, 行下街lor), 如果你男友真係另有安排的話, 佢應該會 reject 你約 fd 架。



  • 會唔會:

    佢個人話一就一,同埋係唔會俾驚喜我的人..



    唔好話前一日後一日慶祝丫.

    係果個星期佢都要去幫手.



  • 你咪同佢講出你既感受囉, 你體諒佢時, 亦叫佢體諒下你. 問佢可唔可以果日陪你食個早餐/宵夜囉.



  • 答佢: 你話唔出����, 咁我自己�M節目�豲�



    嚇下佢...



  • 睇佢本身重唔重視節日啦, 如果唔重視, 我就放過佢, 鬼叫自己鍾意佢咩。不過明明有男朋友, 情人節又要一個人過點都唔會係開心架囉!



  • 自己去埋幫手咪得囉, 唔洗幫一日呀, 食飯都要啩, 佢個fd唔洗拍拖咩



  • 會架,反而生日唔陪ok

    因為生日淨係對自己有義意

    但情人節喎

    對個個人都有同樣義意架喎

    我信得過bf都信唔過佢d fd啦



  • 自己去埋幫手咪得囉, 唔洗幫一日呀, 食飯都要啩, 佢個fd唔洗拍拖咩



    by ShingShingCHU - 02/06/07 13:42



    贊成!



  • 如果個男朋友淨係情人節先對你好就xy啦

    情人節d野又貴又唔好, 為左一個虛榮就唔開心, 唔值得

    最重要係你男朋友對你好, 你又感覺到



  • 佢又唔係去玩,做正經野之嘛

    唔係咁都唔開心呀?

    乜d 港女咁麻叉煩架!



  • arrange a celebration dinner before valentine's day .

    is it ok?



    if he is love you , all 365 days are valentine's day too...........





  • 除非你地兩個有共識情人節當日唔會慶祝

    否則

    你話冇hard feeling 就假既



    調翻轉, 我老公諗住當日同我慶祝, 點知我話走去幫朋友手/ 朋友失戀要陪佢, 老公把口話唔怪我,但個心都有少許不是味兒



    除非相當urgent , 否則為乜一定要揀果 日呢, 都唔知怪你bf朋友唔通氣, 定係bf 唔細心



  • 妳都話佢果個禮拜成個禮拜都要幫手啦

    前一日後一日做耐D唔得咩﹐點解要14號都要做呀

    個朋友真係吖...



  • 板主,



    你識唔識你bf個朋友o架?

    如果識/熟o既, 不如同佢朋友傾下, 暗示下...

    睇你上面所講, 佢朋友都唔想情人節果日阻住佢, 如果佢朋友係醒水o既, 可能會推你bf, 唔使佢果日去幫手呢.



    我都明白你感受... 要自己開到口先肯陪自己, 就冇意思啦...

    不過你試下再同你bf傾下啦



    其實我同你差唔多情況...

    男朋友早幾日同我講o左今個weekend要幫朋友唔得閒,

    我問佢: "咁你weekend又唔得閒, weekday又要返工(佢個schedule日日唔同, 唔係朝九晚五) 咁你都唔得閒見我o架啦? 你下個星期比一日我得唔得呀? (扁嘴+嗲佢)"

    佢話: "我而家梗係唔話你知啦... 到時先算啦..."

    激得我丫... 我而家都唔知點......



  • 版主, 認真問你幾歲?

    究竟係咪某個年紀的人先會咁重視呢d已經商業化的節日?

    但我從來都唔重視呢d節日, even係生日.

    因為我覺得刻意響節日特別安排某d野係好無意思....就好似有d人淨係響母親節先幫手做家務.



  • 情人節係外國嘅節日,外國人過情人節只係送card 或者送花,而且唔一定送俾情人,好似D銀行會送一枝花比入嚟嘅女顧客,上司會送一束花俾下屬。學生做一張card送俾老師。

    唔知點解D東方人學 D 唔學D, 俾D 商人搞到氹氹轉 。



  • 我27歲,

    我知我呢個年紀仲為呢d 事唔開心好似好無謂,係愛你都唔係至在呢日,,

    但佢近來已經成日幫佢個fd 手,少左陪我,我近來唔開心都唔煩佢,情人節果日我知佢點sip 都sip 到時間可以見一陣,,但佢都話要去幫手,,

    你地提意我一齊去幫手,,一來我收工去到都要成10點,我bf 又話累(佢要早起),二來佢地係做類似裝修果d ,佢會話你去到幫得乜丫,又要顧住我,

    我而家唔會再同bf 提喇,我已經講左2次,,佢果日唔陪我我真係會好唔開心,如果佢真係唔過來我會話同男性朋友出去,,算數...



  • 我係識佢個fd,但唔熟,

    人地果日真係無叫佢幫手,,(我睇過更表),

    所以我唔會同佢同fd 傾囉,

    多謝大家回應..



  • ,佢果日唔陪我我真係會好唔開心,如果佢真係唔過來我會話同男性朋友出去,,算數...

    by sad - 02/07/07 12:14



    you are not going to hurt him but both of you



    relationship s not easy to build but very easy to destory



    you shoul go to meet him even its 10PM, and tell him you really want to see him in this spicial day



    you will get much more later



  • no, 唔可以就咁算數, 不過我唔會因為呢件事同佢嘈鬧交, 一定會用少少手段要佢留底陪自己, 有bf等於無bf, 好慘呀! bf其中一個function係過時過節有人陪, 除非佢要返工啦



  • 我認同"佢話開心日日都係情人節啦" 人大左, 節日感會淡, 你父母會慶祝嗎?好閒啫.



  • 你咪一齊去幫佢個fd囉,多個人多對手



  • SAD,

    你唔開心, 應該坦白同你BF 講你既感受, 等佢知道你既需要呀!


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