難題 (尊重別人,反對第三者勿進)





  • 你點事先講明, 都阻唔到佢地入黎



  • 我男朋友 , 已經結左婚





    佢昨日同我講 , 話呢排佢太太好似知道左佢出面有第2個 , 講左好多聽落好敏感既野





    同時 , 近呢幾個星期 , 我差不多每晚 , 同一時間 , 都會接到 1 - 2個 無來電顯示既電話 ,聽左 , 又無人出聲 , 又唔收線





    有一次 , 我叫我男朋友去聽 , 對方就即刻收線啦





    同埋,如果我男朋友夜晚早返屋企既日子 , 我都唔會接到個d 電話





    我好唔舒服 , 下次佢再打黎我應該點? 我真係好想問佢係唔係佢太太....





    what should i do?



  • 不如先講一下, 你想點?



  • ask lor.....aak her what do she want la ?



  • 我知佢太太叫乜名





    我好想下次再有呢D 電話





    聽個陣 , 我直頭問佢你係唔係乜小姐呀? 你晚晚打黎究竟想做乜野???





    應唔應該咁做??



  • 其實我覺得都唔洗問啦~


    由佢囉~





    我有少少情況同你咁...


    其實我都唔知可以點做...



  • 呢個時候, 你不如問下個男人,下一步佢會想你點仲好啦



  • 我同你都係一樣.........



  • 佢唔知佢有時做d野會令人心痛



  • 唔知醜!!



  • sugar


    你地一齊幾耐啊


    幾先知佢己婚?



  • 我係佢ex gf...


    散左無耐佢就結婚啦...


    不過呢排就成日都有搵返我...


    佢同佢太太好似出現左d問題...





    same


    你呢?



  • 我都想同佢傾





    ........





    我真係有衝動....如果佢再打黎..我想話我已經知道你係邊個,唔該唔好再打黎煩我





    不過我怕會令我男朋友難做





    .......



  • 我同佢一齊都係衝動


    佢好照顧人





    但係一個月後頂唔順


    5個幾月..... 這星期應該是真的分了



  • same





    開始個陣我已經知佢結左婚





    不過我真係好鐘意佢 , 同埋我地在公在私都好夾



  • 我一直都沒提出要他離婚


    若他真的有心, 自然會





    何況


    他如果真的離了


    之後我對他都沒信心........





    他不是一個喜歡出去玩的


    又不是多口/口花那些......



  • 其實我都覺得


    佢以前結得婚都好愛她才會結


    時間久了


    "我們" 仍是新鮮..... 過些日子又會怎呢...



  • sugar


    交換msn好嗎





  • 短短幾個月已經夠將我的情緒起伏得甚至影響我的工作及生活. 我的心情就同你差唔多, 要試新的又唔敢, 放棄一個已肯定起碼現階段係非常愛我的人又不能. 我唔係自私到要兩樣都得到, 而係我真係唔忍心捨棄我bf, 不忍心要佢傷心難過. 當然我亦知道我的行為係自私, 我已經傷害左佢, 袛係佢唔知道. 我真係有好多次想去控制情況, 避開新的, 甚至剖白我地係唔可能, 請佢唔好再搵我等等. 但係, 仍然係欲斷難斷咁. 成件事, 我冇同一個朋友講過, 完全唔知道點開口. 因為個個朋友及家人都認定我bf一定係我將來的老公.





    兩個星期前, 我終於鼓起勇氣同新的講, 我地要stop, 唔可以再係咁. 佢agree左, 我係text message 同佢講, 一日後, 佢email我, 我都唔知我係唔敢睇, 還是真係下定決心唔再理佢. 我冇睇到就delete左, 重要起recovery items delete埋, 因為驚自己忍唔住會搵番出黎睇. So far, 已經兩個星期, 大家已經冇再聯絡但 我個心依然放唔低.





    我曾經都有諗過因呢件事想轉工, 但其實咁樣係冇咩用, 因為個人已經進入我個心裡面, 影響緊我日常的生活.





    現階段惟有用時間慢慢將件事淡忘, 我希望我可以做到.



  • 有咩好講 ?


    我勸妳都係做返個第三者應有既態度會比較好 D


    除非妳想搶或者妳想散....



  • 搶~~ 點搶



  • 開始個陣我已經知佢結左婚 ......你應該預�鱁捸I


    若要人不知,除非已莫為!


    自已都唔為自已做過既事負責!


    搵鬼幫你呀!




  • 原來係一個笑話




  • 我好唔舒服?





    我打劫果時無諗過會死人, 諗住銀行會送錢比我. 如果打劫幾億要殺死一兩個人都有乜所謂, 返正人重有一死啦, XDDD



  • 唔知偷側摸摸果時, 版主有冇尊重別人老婆呢?



  • A funny thought just popped up in my mind. The calls might be from his new gf.



  • 如果係佢太太打電話黎,你打算點?如果佢太太叫你離開佢老公,你又點答?





    其實你bf 有冇打算離婚 & 同你結婚?



  • 老實講 物先腐而後蟲生


    出事 我地去怪 條蟲?


    如果平日保養得好 點會生蟲ar


    出事要怪便 怪變心果個


    第三者 只係 '想' 找自己既幸福


    (但找唔找便唔知)


    一個人(第三者) 要為一個佢唔識既人 而放棄自己既幸福咩??


    唔道德?? 又唔係排隊買樓 邊有先到先得架


    但 作為第三者 你應該諗下有冇結果


    同佢又會唔會 再變心呢?




  • 我都做過人第三者,亦都無話想「坐正」要佢拋妻棄子.....





    嗰時都有無声电話.....我冇理,事實上係無乜可理,人地唔出声你吹唔漲.


    直至有一曰行動昇級,电話另一邊傳來BB喊声.....





    唉!人地一頭家,我又何必加隻腳呢?


    回頭是岸啦~



  • 老實講,若果對方無細路,你不妨攤牌....





    但有的話,我勸你早D放手.



  • why there're lots of married men seeking love behind their wife? If they really lost the loving feeling with his wife, why not get divorce? Why they always want to be a 'good man', pretending that they love the 3rd party so much but can't leave his family due to responsibility?





    They just afraid once they leave their family, it'll ruin his reputation...





    Same at here, my 'bf' choose to give up our relationship and keep his family...





    On the first day you became a married man's gf, you should know the final ending




  • gf,


    其實你先真係 講左個問題中心


    個男既要貪新


    但又怪比人話


    咪咁law


    如果佢真係愛你 邊有咁多責任問題


    佢對你唔使責任咩


    我覺得 一係 要新 一係要舊


    唔好拖



  • gf 不愧係一個過來人





    sugar 你醒下啦!!!!!!!! 做乜要怪人地老婆打, 唔怪你"男友" 點解會比佢老婆知道左你電話





    唔想你男友難做, 又唔諗下, 個男人將你放係呢個位, 有冇諗過你難唔難做!





    三人關係中, 最錯果個一定係踏兩船果個!!!!!



  • 造成今日情況


    皆因男人賤格....



  • Sugar,





    Hope you still reading yr thread. If you received such strange calls, I guess you should stop meeting yr bf and give him some time to deal with such relationship. If he really loves you, he'll do something for you...





    Don't try to talk to 'the other end' of the phone, don't make him feels that u like a 'bitch', just ignore the call. If the calls getting more and more, you can call the police... I did that before and finally knew who's calling me, but I didn't sue her.



  • 三人關係中, 最錯果個一定係踏兩船果個!!!!!





    完全同意



  • 造成今日情況


    皆因男人賤格....


    非常認同


    而包庇呢個男人的女人"弟三者


    " 更係賤格中的賤格





    不懂反省自己,


    到最後,傷到盡都係自己攞來



  • you don'tneed to ask people,what are you doing now,you are sleeping wih marrried man,the man is not you ,he belongs to another woman


    I'm sure his wife knows you.you think every woman listen to man what he said.


    Your boyfriend is lie to you


    until he s tired to you he will leave yousoon



  • 真相, 其實每日系你面呈現


    然而,你卻不肯面對事實





    一個真係愛你男人,一定會為你而做出決定








    你唔止傷害人地家庭,你仲傷害緊你自己





    你以為弄致人地離婚先算係傷害嗎?





    從人地老婆發覺你存在一刻,你已經一刀一刀插入人地個心度





    然而你卻毫無知覺 . 連半點良知,同情心都無.


    只將自己的 "愛"棒到上天. 完全莫視令一個女人心碎..





    第三者, 根本毫無廉恥可言


    還想得到他人認同及同情.


    真令人嘔心










  • you are bitch,...............................Cause you know he s married and start a relationship with him



  • you should leave ,you are rubblish .is your mother s bitch?cause she born you



  • Please stop 'baking' over here! Sugar never ask for anyone's sympathy. Please behave YOURSELF!



  • gf


    event she didn't ask for , but she enjoy it and shown here innocent HERE!!!!!!





    what is a fxxking Bitch !!!!!!





    and U TOO to support her



  • she is the first one who Must Control her fxxking stupid behavior before kill other's heart !!!







  • gf





    care to chat in msn?





    add me if you don't mind





    sugar7772@hotmail.com



  • 我都好辛苦先放棄到





    雖然他仍很愛我, 我仍愛他





    但他沒放棄現在的她....


    可能我也不敢告訴他一個訊息


    "我也想, 也可以 過著很安穏的生活"





    既然我在他的觀點上不值得我放棄他


    為我自己好也好


    為他也好


    為她也好


    也要離開.............





    早己給人家一條深深的傷疤


    因為他


    大家都傷痕累累



  • 我都做過第三者,其實最錯的一定係個男人先,就算佢同老婆真係冇感情,應該搞清楚先去開始新一段關係,佢咁樣一腳踏兩船好明顯係自私自利,一個離開佢仲有第二個,太個自保,損失的當然係兩個女人。而身為第三者的你,我好明白,你進退兩難,但你應該問清楚你個男人想下一步點行?唔係逼佢離婚,而係係咪就咁一世?如果你甘心無名無份跟佢一世,ok,照去囉,反正係你情佢願,你撫心自問下啦,你內心會俾到答案你!



  • 有邊個女人唔想身邊既男人係屬於自己ga..





    與其女人與女人之間的責難..


    還不如好好的和這個男人傾下...


    女人對男人的忍讓,只是進一步縱容男人...


    唯一解決方法是迫男人作出決定..


    佢唔決定,女人幫佢決定,不留情地離開他


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