你會唔會同一個大自己二十年男人一齊?

我係十一月尾識到一個男人，不過佢大我二十年，曾經離婚及有三個仔，最大個仔都成九歲，但我對佢有 feel，唔知點好，好唔好真係同佢係埋一齊?

如果你想長久,又唔介意做人後母, 先好同人地一齊.

very hard to have romantic thing
 esp he has to look after 3 kids
 + he has less energy

if u wouldn't mind
 
 why not give yourself a chance?

做得我亞爸既唔會囉,even有feel都係咁話,仲要曾經離婚及有三個仔,NO WAY!!! 比亞媽知道實鬧死.
 大十至13年都可以接受, but not 20yr.
 
 p.s. i'm female.

如果佢好似梁錦松咁，有錢又有修養，咁都可以考慮架，你睇國寶小伏幾咁幸福

佢個三個仔唔係同佢一齊住，由兩個工人去照顧佢地。我都知我同佢有段距離，但我真係對佢有 feel，我都 feel 到對方同我一樣唔敢試....只係噯味中...都唔知點。

if u are really with him, u hv to take care of him after 20 or 30 yrs as he is very old already. like he is 70 and u are 50, see....i dun think it works!!
 such as my bf''s parents, his dad is older than his mum 17 yrs. they divorced 8 yrs ago. his mum has another guy.

To: 睇下
 
 佢既條件唔差，係某國際公司既高層，有學識同收養，不過佢做野超忙既人，成日飛黎飛去。

do u know why he divorced with his wife?
 as i think it seems his family is quite healthy if he didnt divorce. 3 kids and good financial situation(由兩個工人去照顧佢地)
 just curious why they divorced?! there should be a big problem. and u should know it before with him.

佢有主動同我講點解同佢 ex-wife 離婚

because of these reasons "佢既條件唔差，係某國際公司既高層，有學識同收養", u are interested in him. haha...
 i can bet if he doesnt have this background, u must not like him.
 do u think u really like him?? if so, go ahead then.
 or like his background only?

btw, the final deciion depends on u.
 that's all i can tell.

主動同你講點解佢同佢 ex-wife 離婚, 唔等於佢鍾意你, 而家好似版主一償情願咁話feel 到對方同我一樣唔敢試....只係噯味中...講真, 咁好條件, 大把女人la, 版主駛乜咁煩

我真係鐘意佢，我唔明點解你地話我因為佢既 background 而 like him。to be honest，我自己本身都係 professional，有唔錯既收入，有自己既樓，唔駛男人養。我 ex-bf 無錢，佢無錢我都有 support 佢，只係大家分格兩地而分開。我明白香港大部份女仔都只係睇錢，你地唔好同我講你地唔 care 係 bf 無錢，我知好多女仔都只係識叫 bf 買名牌俾佢地。我開哩個 post 係問一下你地中肯既意問而唔係俾你地 challenge!

其實叻有吸引力既男人有好既background好正常。話你聽鍾意�鱄茼n叻好有吸引力既男人但佢做份文員搵幾千蚊個月都冇人信啦。
 
 我都鍾意�鱄茪j我15年既男人，佢都係大公司高層，都係噯味中，不過佢未離婚(冇仔女)。我知我係衰，成日想佢快d離婚，但係反正佢地都名存實亡架啦。
 雖然佢大我咁多，但係心境上我地好接近呀，佢好了解我。

仲話唔係鍾意人地backgroud ! 如果佢變左窮, 你地仲會唔會一心一意咁為佢呀??自問做得到, 先好出聲!

我開哩個 post 係問一下你地中肯既意問而唔係俾你地 challenge!
 
 by Brandy -
 
 don't worry, i am not challenge about yr life $$$ or whatever shxt
 
 i am just worried about on his energy , when u reach to 30+ u will demand more... but he can't offer u....
 
 will u stand for it ? or aganist it?
 
 i feel that you have made the decision already, u just need someone to support you. Follow your heart. don't look back.
 
 i support you ^^
 cheers lady

by Brandy - 01/03/07 12:44
 
 I agree you are fairly exceptional, but, its 2 exceptional to be with him, and mother of 3+ if you get married with him
 
 there r lots of choices elsewhere