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我同bf . he everytime do something for his job and family. he put me is the last

my ex also like that

男人係以事業為重架喎,好小男人可以將女人放係第一位.

我未同你一樣

yan
 then you dim do?
 楓
 i not think me is first, but i not want is last.

小苦妹
 you with me same? if yes, you wait your bf?

u don't put him in your pirority then u'll be fine being whichever place

my bf always busy, 連電話都唔聽,又無留言信箱, 有急事搵佢都0知點算......唉.......

the most impotant is he not honest to me, no safety feeling....he said will not sty with me for long term, i think he not serious... but i still love him till now..........

只好講一句,你捉唔到你男朋友個心,事業家庭都放得頭過你!

其實未必係將你放係最後既,我以前拍拖把口同行為都唔係好鍚女朋友咁啦,但係我真係好鍚同care佢.
 
 你諗下都知啦,事業同愛情係幾難共存,好多人會放棄愛情要事業添啦, 體諒下啦,你bf幾大啊?
 
 男人以事業為重好正常~

小苦妹
 me too , are u ok?
 BigWong
 have some fd told me too, then i think i will try

楓
 he 25

追緊果時就可以日日見, 就算出trip都會sms比我, 我今都sms咗佢3次都未覆, 都唔知佢係未真係忙得咁緊要......

小苦妹
 yes ar.

你有冇將你既感受表達俾聽..
 講出你想佢點做...
 因為你向佢表達你既要求好正常呀

25??咁肯定係心高氣傲,為自己事業打拼啦,咁好正常0者,拍拖同做生意一樣,要守架.你想同佢過人世.就一定唔會如意架啦,幸福你估通街賣咩???
 
 同佢傾下囉~
 
 男人過左一排就會係咁架啦,因為對你既佔有慾減低左啊嗎~~

jenny
 i have say b4

真係唔好講人壞話, my bf剛剛打來, 不過都係好忙, 只係問我有咩緊要事搵佢, 如果無就早d瞓wow.....

just don't call him ,. sms him,. then he will look for u ga la,.

BigWong
 realy?

小苦妹
 u gd la

well,. that's me
 i don't really know how's your bf like,.
 the problem is u r TOO available for him,. he knows u r there for him., anytime,. all the time,.

no more excitment, u know what i mean?
 i don't mean that u go out and screw around,. i am just saying,. maybe go find yourself some activities,. meet more friends,. open up your social ciricle., then maybe he feels threaten that u meet some nice hot guy,. he cares more about u?!

BigWong
 i know u mean

你點解會覺得佢將你放到最後??
 俾d例子黎聽下

其實..我最怕你未必係佢唯一既女友

但係比佢知道我出咗去, 佢會唔鍾意, 佢會話咁夜你d frd咁使瞓咩, 有咩傾係電話都講得啦........係未個個男人都唔鍾意女人有太多自己既朋友呢?

he everyday work , or help his boss work ,in his boss timetable,
 or he say will at night phone to me, then i wait, but he haven't phone, go to sleep

其實我唔在乎佢係未放我係第一位, 我只係想佢可以抽多d時間陪吓我咋, 唔通咁都有錯咩......

now i know his father sick too, i know he want with his father together a lot, then i can ,no sometime meet , but then he tired , then not day day phone me,

其實點樣先算係幸福呢?

小苦妹
 i want know too

我想把gf放在第一位...........不過我現在無gf lei
 
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但係比佢知道我出?去, 佢會唔鍾意, 佢會話咁夜你d frd咁使?咩, 有咩傾係電話都講得啦........係未個個男人都唔鍾意女人有太多自己既朋友呢?
 
 that's his problem,. i would want my gf have lots of friend,. she hangs out w/ her,.i hang out w/ mine,. hang out together every once in a while,. i would want if we go and do everywhere, everything together

到底係搵到個自己喜歡既就算幸福, 定係搵一個自己唔太討厭但同佢一齊開心d既人會幸福d呢?

i think 搵一個自己唔太討厭但同佢一齊開心d既人會幸福

i meant,. i wouldn't want if we go and do......

knowing what's "enough is enough" 會幸福

最近my bf問我想唔想同佢一齊住, 但又唔係同我結婚, 所以我就拒絕咗佢, 唔知係未咁樣激嬲咗佢呢? 各位姐妹比d意見我, 好嗎?

BigWong
 what u mean

i lived w/ my ex for 3 yrs,. not a good idea
 
 problem is we do EVERYTHING together and when u go back home,. there is nothing to talk about., he woulnd't let you go out and meet your friend,. you can't go out at night,. forget it,. let him 嬲

"enough is enough" is kinda like " gee joke" in chinese,.
 
 if he can't even give u a call before going to bed,. i don't know if he is really that interested in u,. sorry,. just being honest here,..... but then you can't tell him that,. because then he will make that phone call as a normal routine,. lose its meaning

我有個best frd都係咁講, 因為我個frd已經同bf住埋6年, 已經沒有衝動結婚, 所以佢叫我千奇唔好咁就d男人wow

BigWong
 how old are u? and why they broken?

doens't really matter how old man i la,. but been there done that,. just sharing w/ u girls my experience from a guy's point of view