我想問女仔:你地有冇男朋友係因為佢太自卑唔識同你拍拖?

[sunday]

[monday]

或者有冇男仔都係咁樣,真係會因為自卑, 佢話由細到大冇人咁愛佢,佢覺得我太好,佢唔值咁...咁我可以點呢?佢話佢好同我出街會好唔自然,咁點樣可以克服到佢既心理呢?

[sunday]

有冇人可以答下我??

[tuesday]

encourage them more. =) and reassure them u love them, but help them become more confident at the same time.

[sunday]

我都知,所以佢成日都話俾d 時間佢,我地只係一個月先見一次,好驚好難維繫~~

[AhCer]

自卑呢個係一個死症, 除左佢自己消除到呢個諗法, 唔係的話, 其他人好難幫佢解決到



不過你可以做既就係...盡量show 比佢睇, 佢都帶到開心比你, 你同佢一齊你會覺得好開心, 等佢唔會覺得你同佢一齊, 只係得佢單方面"受惠"

[公子]

如此漢子不要也罷

[sunday]

ahCer,



多謝你既reply~ 我都成日同佢講佢教識我好多野,佢係叻架,只係佢對自己無信心咁,我都唔敢俾咁大壓力佢~

[sunday]

公子,

點解你咁講呢? 佢對我好, 我唔捨得放手~

同埋,佢咁樣我更加要幫佢克服啦~

[AhCer]

唔駛多謝...我都係講我既意見唶



不過千祈千祈唔好比迫得佢太緊, 或者真係唔好對佢太好, 你越對佢好, 相信佢會更加自卑, 或者你可以多d 叫佢幫你做野....或者表現得依賴佢.....等佢覺得, 佢都可以為你做d 野, 咁樣可能都有幫助



btw, 你同佢拍拖左幾耐?

照計開始得, 應該唔會出現呢d 問題喎

[monday]

ahcer,



我同佢拍左半年,其實可能係因為佢同左一個拍左好耐既女仔分手,所以咁樣,我問過佢,係咪仲鐘意前女友,佢話唔係,咁我都信佢~ 咁又係,我都唔敢迫得佢太緊~有丫,我而家開始咩都問佢意見,希望咁樣會好d 啦~

[AhCer]

咁我想問.....開頭佢點追你?

如果佢未克服到呢個問題, 佢一定唔會追你架啵!



咁你知唔知佢同之前個gf 分手, 係佢提出定對方? 我反而會認為....如果佢上一次係比人女仔掟, 佢唔係會更加珍惜依家對佢好果個嘛? (即係你)

[monday]

AhCer,



佢開頭都係電話攻勢,跟住出黎兩次就開始lu~我d fd都話我同佢太快一齊~

以我所知,應該係双方協議既~

[AhCer]

咁佢果2次同你出黎 , 有無唔自然丫?

我覺得好怪唶....如果你話當初你係做主動, 我都仲理解到, 但係佢又敢追你, 追到你反而至覺得唔自然, 覺得你太好....好奇怪~

佢梗係知你好至追你架啦(suppose), 定係你變得更加好 :p





btw, 會唔會你身邊有新既追求者呀? 都有影響架

[sunday]

其實一路都係佢話自己唔自然,

[sunday]

死勒,唔係打左sunday 就打左monday tim~可能我一路我都好體諒佢卦~~ 我有人追都會同佢講, 但我覺得好小事咋喎~

[sunday]

同埋佢成日話自己唔靚仔,唔知咁樣關唔關事~所以唔多同我出街~

[細s]

依我黎睇, 佢自卑係假0架, 你小心0的。我覺得佢似講大話咯。

[AhCer]

都無留意你又monday 又sunday, 哈



都關事架

如果佢又覺得自己唔靚仔, 又成人聽你講話有人追, 唔多唔少都有d 危機感架, 如果佢本身又自卑, 更加有影響



不過你有人追, 又唔好完全唔提....

你提有人追之餘, 講埋你點reject 囉...等佢安心d, 如果太多呢d case, 自己揀d 黎講啦~