最近經濟出現問題. 需要錢應急, 我想到兩年年前 ex-bf 一個情理上虧欠我很多ex-bf 佢一直以來有表示過佢抱歉,同內疚. 佢算係一個心地善良,肯幫人男人. 我想佢幫我1萬. 問女仔,請問我好唔好咁做??會唔會好叼架.好無用? 問男仔,如果係你ex gf -咁問你肯唔肯幫.你會幫嗎?定係你覺得個女仔好chep定係對佢反感. 100個唔該





  • chxxp呢個字我唔會亂用, 所以我唔會咁話你, 但個'幫'字就...你係問佢借定拎先? 有分別喎.



  • 分手後兩年來,我都無法再去愛第二個,因為太傷太上;啦,


    而ex bf 係分手後一年都試圖聯絡我.


    不過我都reject啦.


    而且我更假稱我已經有新 bf .所以佢無再打來.


    但偶然深夜, 我都會收到無聲電話.只有呼吸聲...而呼吸聲直覺話我知係�


    1) 佢要番shift ,


    2) 佢係知道自己傷我太深





    3) 面對而加經濟困難.我好無助.


    但係要再面對佢.我怕我會再次崩潰...


    因為以佢為人,佢係一定要見到我.先肯幫我.


    即係話,佢係一直以來要見到我真人先可以答應我任何事.


    我好驚..而加經濟又 問題..唔知點算好...


    希望大家幫我分析下丫..thx



  • 咁咪問其他朋友借, 斷估你唔會得佢一個朋友.



  • I think you can ask for help, but pls remenber ,


    1. he might reject you


    2. he might help but with condition such as get back with you..



  • adele


    佢係最有能力同potential幫到我的人,





    queenie


    係, 我就好怕佢成功見完我一次,會有第二次,第三次, 因為兩年來,我極力克制自己,唔容許自己再同呢個人有任何關係.


    而我也知道.我見到佢.....直接勾起我一生人中,真係最傷最痛的事. 一次見面我尚可以控制自己唔崩潰.但又下一次...我真係唔知自己會點..我也怕佢察覺我有bf只係life...好驚...點算..



  • 咁你問佢借定拎? 你應該明白到兩分別.






  • 因為短期兩年內都無可能還到.


    因為我屋企經濟真係好差, 我一個人做.幾千一個月.要養4個人.


    我無可能兩年內還到.


    但係過多兩年多個人做野我可以鬆動先可能還到....




  • 我唔會話真係唔還,但係能力上得唔得係一問題.


    佢揾18k一個月.屋企個個出來做野.


    佢係省下好多錢.i know.



  • 我也怕佢察覺我假裝有bf...好驚...點算..


    我好驚佢...


    因為佢...........


    佢知道我無b,佢就會搞d 小動作.


    .煩死..




  • 咁咪兩年後先還, 更何況我睇唔到有咩理由佢可以拎佢錢, 因為佢傷害過你?



  • 我覺得你好可怕, 佢比我個感覺係吼住你前度男友有幾多錢, 更何況佢只係揾萬八蚊一個月, 你唔好以為真係好多先得架.



  • typo 佢=你



  • don't think too much, if you need his help, just go ahead and ask.





    you will find that you have worried too much if he simply rejected you.



  • 唔好問佢拎...除非借..仲要立借據..証明你係有借有還..如果唔係佢叫你點..你都要做..


    另外..點解問佢攞錢..就會知你扮有BF?



  • adele


    因為係一個人有困難時,你想盡瓣法都揾唔到出路. (我已經自己煩了一個月.好大壓力)


    以為絕望時候,忽然我想道佢.


    也想到佢經濟比我好.


    想到佢會為過去兩個人情分上,佢會可以有得商量.


    你試過窮盡了.身邊無人幫滋味嗎??


    難道我去揾大耳隆嗎??


    我兩年來都遇到過不少困難.我都自己一一挨過去.就算係遇到極大打擊.我都唔肯向佢求助.我係個自尊心好強的人.


    如今只是我最需要1萬.


    我也要放下自己櫃掘強同難堪丫.我也唔好受...




  • 女仔


    我想問, 借據係可以手寫然後打手指毛.定係可以買一份?


    如果可以,我希望佢會同意借據




  • 咁咪借lor, 立埋借據兩年後還, 但依家你係要"拎". 佢唔係應份比錢你用, 更何況問每個朋友借兩,三千咪一樣夠數.



  • 如果立借據可以兩年後還


    我唔會"拎"


    我朋友也好窮.我唔會問朋友. 大家都剛出來社會,又要養家.點開口? 100幾十都可以.


    ex- bf 性格我好清楚.


    佢係個功於心計.我唔知道咁次我主動要佢幫.會帶來咩後果.


    我會試下啦.唔該曬大家意見.



  • 其實以你地既交情..手寫簽名就可以..


    最緊要個男既信你...


    同埋佢都冇藉口對你有要求...


    試下啦..



  • 每個人問人借錢果陣都諗住會還架啦

    如果唔還 我諗佢唔會追你

    一萬唔算好多



  • 佢算係一個心地善良,肯幫人男人.





    佢係個功於心計.我唔知道咁次我主動要佢幫.會帶來咩後果.





    咁怪既??



  • 女仔


    係分手後半年(係佢提出)


    佢開始揾煩番我. 但係我仲係好傷好傷.


    個人又心軟.次次打來我都唔識reject佢.


    好驚會再次比佢Tum番.因為我唔會原諒佢當日咁絕咁恨.


    直到我好堅決咁(假裝)已經有新男友.好幸福.唔想佢再揾我.甚至我永久飛佢電話落留言箱.


    就係咁我先可以斷絕同佢聯絡.


    今次向佢求助.佢一定會judege 我點解有bf 唔問問佢.我對於人地盤我真係豪無能力抵抗.


    特別係...佢係個盤慣人的人. 我就唔知點面對.



  • even you promise to repay the $$ to him 2 yrs later, you can't disappear after getting $$ and should have keep contact w/ him, are you will to do that?





    You told him that you have a bf, he may wonder why don't you ask your bf? or just find a reason to keep in touch w/ him?




  • fish


    i considered for one week .


    the final decision is


    keep my self -esstem is more importance





    find one more pt job is ok


    it's hard , but better to meet him again.


    better ..better^^




  • 問其他人借啦!



  • 人地搵到,人 地有錢,係人地o既事,你唔應該去算住人地囉!人地感情上欠你,唔可以用金錢去償還囉!



  • 俾得你一次你就有下次!你諗吓其他方法啦



  • 如果佢拒絕你,你仲瘀



  • 藤 ,





    多口問句.. 你好似o係另外一個 thread 同人討論你自己就快搬出黎住咋 bor... 何來經濟困難??


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