最近經濟出現問題. 需要錢應急, 我想到兩年年前 ex-bf 一個情理上虧欠我很多ex-bf 佢一直以來有表示過佢抱歉,同內疚. 佢算係一個心地善良,肯幫人男人. 我想佢幫我1萬. 問女仔,請問我好唔好咁做??會唔會好叼架.好無用? 問男仔,如果係你ex gf -咁問你肯唔肯幫.你會幫嗎?定係你覺得個女仔好chep定係對佢反感. 100個唔該
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chxxp呢個字我唔會亂用, 所以我唔會咁話你, 但個'幫'字就...你係問佢借定拎先? 有分別喎.
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分手後兩年來,我都無法再去愛第二個,因為太傷太上;啦,
<br>而ex bf 係分手後一年都試圖聯絡我.
<br>不過我都reject啦.
<br>而且我更假稱我已經有新 bf .所以佢無再打來.
<br>但偶然深夜, 我都會收到無聲電話.只有呼吸聲...而呼吸聲直覺話我知係�
<br>1) 佢要番shift ,
<br>2) 佢係知道自己傷我太深
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<br>3) 面對而加經濟困難.我好無助.
<br>但係要再面對佢.我怕我會再次崩潰...
<br>因為以佢為人,佢係一定要見到我.先肯幫我.
<br>即係話,佢係一直以來要見到我真人先可以答應我任何事.
<br>我好驚..而加經濟又 問題..唔知點算好...
<br>希望大家幫我分析下丫..thx
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咁咪問其他朋友借, 斷估你唔會得佢一個朋友.
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I think you can ask for help, but pls remenber ,
<br>1. he might reject you
<br>2. he might help but with condition such as get back with you..
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adele
<br>佢係最有能力同potential幫到我的人,
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<br>queenie
<br>係, 我就好怕佢成功見完我一次,會有第二次,第三次, 因為兩年來,我極力克制自己,唔容許自己再同呢個人有任何關係.
<br>而我也知道.我見到佢.....直接勾起我一生人中,真係最傷最痛的事. 一次見面我尚可以控制自己唔崩潰.但又下一次...我真係唔知自己會點..我也怕佢察覺我有bf只係life...好驚...點算..
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咁你問佢借定拎? 你應該明白到兩分別.
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拎
<br>因為短期兩年內都無可能還到.
<br>因為我屋企經濟真係好差, 我一個人做.幾千一個月.要養4個人.
<br>我無可能兩年內還到.
<br>但係過多兩年多個人做野我可以鬆動先可能還到....
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我唔會話真係唔還,但係能力上得唔得係一問題.
<br>佢揾18k一個月.屋企個個出來做野.
<br>佢係省下好多錢.i know.
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我也怕佢察覺我假裝有bf...好驚...點算..
<br>我好驚佢...
<br>因為佢...........
<br>佢知道我無b,佢就會搞d 小動作.
<br>.煩死..
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咁咪兩年後先還, 更何況我睇唔到有咩理由佢可以拎佢錢, 因為佢傷害過你?
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我覺得你好可怕, 佢比我個感覺係吼住你前度男友有幾多錢, 更何況佢只係揾萬八蚊一個月, 你唔好以為真係好多先得架.
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typo 佢=你
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don't think too much, if you need his help, just go ahead and ask.
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<br>you will find that you have worried too much if he simply rejected you.
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唔好問佢拎...除非借..仲要立借據..証明你係有借有還..如果唔係佢叫你點..你都要做..
<br>另外..點解問佢攞錢..就會知你扮有BF?
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adele
<br>因為係一個人有困難時,你想盡瓣法都揾唔到出路. (我已經自己煩了一個月.好大壓力)
<br>以為絕望時候,忽然我想道佢.
<br>也想到佢經濟比我好.
<br>想到佢會為過去兩個人情分上,佢會可以有得商量.
<br>你試過窮盡了.身邊無人幫滋味嗎??
<br>難道我去揾大耳隆嗎??
<br>我兩年來都遇到過不少困難.我都自己一一挨過去.就算係遇到極大打擊.我都唔肯向佢求助.我係個自尊心好強的人.
<br>如今只是我最需要1萬.
<br>我也要放下自己櫃掘強同難堪丫.我也唔好受...
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女仔
<br>我想問, 借據係可以手寫然後打手指毛.定係可以買一份?
<br>如果可以,我希望佢會同意借據
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咁咪借lor, 立埋借據兩年後還, 但依家你係要"拎". 佢唔係應份比錢你用, 更何況問每個朋友借兩,三千咪一樣夠數.
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如果立借據可以兩年後還
<br>我唔會"拎"
<br>我朋友也好窮.我唔會問朋友. 大家都剛出來社會,又要養家.點開口? 100幾十都可以.
<br>ex- bf 性格我好清楚.
<br>佢係個功於心計.我唔知道咁次我主動要佢幫.會帶來咩後果.
<br>我會試下啦.唔該曬大家意見.
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其實以你地既交情..手寫簽名就可以..
<br>最緊要個男既信你...
<br>同埋佢都冇藉口對你有要求...
<br>試下啦..
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每個人問人借錢果陣都諗住會還架啦 <br>如果唔還 我諗佢唔會追你<br>一萬唔算好多<br>
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佢算係一個心地善良,肯幫人男人.
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<br>佢係個功於心計.我唔知道咁次我主動要佢幫.會帶來咩後果.
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<br>咁怪既??
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女仔
<br>係分手後半年(係佢提出)
<br>佢開始揾煩番我. 但係我仲係好傷好傷.
<br>個人又心軟.次次打來我都唔識reject佢.
<br>好驚會再次比佢Tum番.因為我唔會原諒佢當日咁絕咁恨.
<br>直到我好堅決咁(假裝)已經有新男友.好幸福.唔想佢再揾我.甚至我永久飛佢電話落留言箱.
<br>就係咁我先可以斷絕同佢聯絡.
<br>今次向佢求助.佢一定會judege 我點解有bf 唔問問佢.我對於人地盤我真係豪無能力抵抗.
<br>特別係...佢係個盤慣人的人. 我就唔知點面對.
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even you promise to repay the $$ to him 2 yrs later, you can't disappear after getting $$ and should have keep contact w/ him, are you will to do that?
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<br>You told him that you have a bf, he may wonder why don't you ask your bf? or just find a reason to keep in touch w/ him?
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fish
<br>i considered for one week .
<br>the final decision is
<br>keep my self -esstem is more importance
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<br>find one more pt job is ok
<br>it's hard , but better to meet him again.
<br>better ..better^^
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問其他人借啦！
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人地搵到，人 地有錢，係人地o既事，你唔應該去算住人地囉！人地感情上欠你，唔可以用金錢去償還囉！
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俾得你一次你就有下次！你諗吓其他方法啦
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如果佢拒絕你，你仲瘀
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藤 ,
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