是否真的物以類聚? 身邊多數朋友仍單身,其實個個都唔差, 算得上靚女. 是否30歲以上就難找對像? 真心, 單身, 專一的男人去了哪裡?





  • no ar....many of my friends are single (boy)....but they only focus on their career...



  • hello, Mag:


    我都係單身男, 第一次上來, 做member, 你好嗎



  • 幾釐米: 就是囉. 男的就為自己事業. 女的找不到另一半, 又迫著要努力為自己事業. 結果男的又說女的條件太好... 做女的真慘!





    ThxFor: 其實我都是今日才第一次上來.. 你好呀



  • cos wowmen always have very high eye level



  • Mag:


    我會甘睇, 找一個合適的伴侶才是我的終生職業, 可能, 有人會唔同意, 但我想, 每份工都有退休的一天, 但你的伴侶才是伴你一生一世, 直到永遠呢........



  • mag,


    hi there! how old are you ah?



  • 女仔年輕時太被動..加上又要求高....咪等到三十先會夢醒...



  • agree



  • i have a another view.


    when girls are young, they tend to find guys of their age. When girls become mature and want security, guys are still playing around. The more they complain, the more men find them annoying. At the end, men leave older girls for younger girls (more playful). Girls still they have market and try to look for men with good quality. Time passed by...30 is reached..harder to find men lor.



  • 係囉!唔知點解身邊大部份30-40歲嘅朋友都單身兼冇拍拖,男男女女都係咁。


    個個都話想拍拖,但開口埋口都話隨緣,咁就過下一年又一年... 究竟有冇人真係相信齋坐,就會有緣份撞埋嚟?



  • when girls reach 30....still have 30+ men with good quality and still available?


    30+ men and single..must have some bad side..see weather girl can accept it or not.



  • 但係30+以上的男性可以搵d細過自己,但女就唔得啦



  • snailhk,


    everyone had bad side... whether he/she is 30+ or 30-, no one is perfect la!



  • 我諗30歲既男人都仲可以搵番d後生既女仔,但30歲既女人就慘d啦,事關都幾多女仔介意個男仔細過自己



  • 最大問題是





    人大左﹐好似難左識新朋友



  • kit





    係囉~交朋友既圈子細左好多,o係公司成日都係對住o個班人。上到黎she.com又o係度click黎click去都唔知自己做乜...haha



  • 因為人到了30歲





    工作應該固定了﹐朋友圈都定了﹐而且會因經歷多了﹐對人唔多唔少有了戒心﹐沒有了識朋友的熱情了







  • 不過其實而家香港好多女仔都唔介意單身,我識好多女仔friend 三十幾都無諗住結婚,自己養得掂自己



  • 我同意!


    好似我咁,小學、中學同學都無個,好似好多朋友,真係知心嘅朋友都無。好多時想揾個朋友陪下,食餐飯、傾下偈都好難!



  • 就算養得掂自己,但都想搵個伴,行街、睇戲、食飯都會想有人陪



  • 我只係中學得兩三個朋友...間中見下...電話機本上唔會響



  • 你地有冇人試過d咩交友既meeting?



  • 我個電話都係





    自從年多前同女友分手後


    電話.......變了一隻沉睡的小狗


    無言的陪在我身邊



  • haha, 個個身邊都淨番一個啞咗嘅電話!



  • 講真, 我身邊朋友無論外貌條件都唔差, 工作又叫做接觸唔少人. 就係冇得拍拖就冇得拍拖.


    至於話自己養得掂自己, 當然係冇問題. 但工作完後, 都想同人傾吓計, 有人關心吓自己. 有邊個女人唔想俾人錫. 大時大節有人約去街, 情人節/生日永遠同自己/知己食飯. 有愛情就人都靚d.



  • 我就相反, 我身邊既男性朋友全部未婚仲要單身, 佢地話要識一個正正經經既女仔好難, 想識一個諗野成熟一d既仲難.



  • mei: 聽到你咁講, 我真係會話俾你知, 我身邊朋友 (包括我自己!) 都係正正經經, 仲諗野成熟喎. 但就永遠識唔到好既男仔.





    我估個market 其實仲有好多貨. 不過又只可以賴緣份未到?



  • 我會咁睇囉, 寧缺莫濫囉...


    如果你認真時對方又只係玩玩��, 咁咪仲傷...


    遇唔到���儭�, 我會選擇唔開始好過, 費事第日有種"曾經滄海難為水"�儱P覺!



  • ingrid- 10/26/06 12:16


    絕對同意!



  • 同意既. 寧缺莫濫. 但.... 真係只可以等運到?



  • 運係唔會自己走黎,要自己捉架! 唔通唔去買六合彩就中左有錢收咩! 我識我老公時,都有比個位佢行動, 唔會坐係度睇下佢會唔會自己主動架~



  • mei, 我都認同. 所以見到你之前message "我身邊既男性朋友全部未婚仲要單身, 佢地話要識一個正正經經既女仔好難, 想識一個諗野成熟一d既仲難." 真令我眼前發亮. 有機會真想認識你的朋友.





    我不是坐係度等運到的一群呀!



  • mag


    多主動識朋友, 耐心等候...



  • 我係男


    亦係覺得識一個正正經經諗野成熟d o既女仔好難



  • hi,各位,我可以加入一齊傾嘛?


    我都有同感呀


    maybe 你係到搵緊合適既另一半,係另一角落有一個人同樣係到搵緊,只係未遇上.....


    呢d 係緣份


    急唔黎,亦強求不得




  • 我遇上了...非常合適既對像


    但係仲未同佢成為情人....


    感激我遇見....


    非常我同佢能夠有結果啦



  • Hi mag,





    this is a funny subject, may i share point of view. in fact, the quailty of gal is good, but they ask for too much and not willing to spend.





    Guy in hk is also very tough, too much pressure on workload in day life, handle mortage, parents living expense... a lot of items..


    In my case, too many items to handle and overcome. u have to build up ur business in ur earier age, no time for love stuff.





    Love seems a luxury item for agreesive guy. or love is a bonus, not a necessary right now.





    once u have business and become more mature, more and more gals will knock on door. this is my point of view,





    welcome share! keep going



  • 而家發現好難識到新既人,係可以深交落去至好朋友.甚至拍拖


    自己又唔係鍾意去蒲落d的人,其實男生一樣愁



  • parkc


    你講出我宜家心情



  • hi packc,


    totally agree with u, when u get older u will be more pretend urself, the more exposure the more u hurt.



  • 我係男


    亦係覺得識一個正正經經諗野成熟d o既女仔好難





    by 火 - 10/26/06 13:02





    I agreed your point! We can easily find some Wet or Open minded 女伴! But 識一個正正經經諗野成熟d o既女仔好難! 好難! 好難!




  • maybe 你係到搵緊合適既另一半,係另一角落有一個人同樣係到搵緊,只係未遇上.....





    by baby_girl - 10/26/06 13:04





    更難受o既係卒之遇到個幾o岩自己o既人,但果時佢已經有另一半,自問自己o既內在外在都不在佢o既另一半之下,點解自己偏係遇唔到,但係唔通去搶人未婚妻咩



  • 不如大家向度公開下自己既條件同擇偶條件,又或者攪下D活動出黎見下面丫!!




  • she.com成日都有人出沒搵食


    無需強求搞活動o既,無謂置d女仔o係危險之下喇


    不如順其自然o係度傾,到o左邊日想出o黎見面果時先出,咁仲好d



  • 正常成熟的男人,有都已經是她人bf 啦,呢樣嘢是提早投資,到現在的已經剩餘d工作狂



  • 就正如davidcheung講既一樣, 開放既女仔好多好易識, 仲要係一群要你付出比佢地多, 物質啦, 風度啦....我身邊的男性朋友個個都怕了這些了...



  • 天意弄人. 尤其係感情. 都唔知幾時先會遇到一個屬於自己既. 唔知自己set既條件算唔算高, 其實我只係想搵一個唔需要我同佢一齊憂柴憂米既男人. 而家自己搵夠自己同父母洗. 真係唔想同咗一個男人之後會為食咗一餐飯, 洗咗537.9 而下一餐要食飯盒. 個男人唔一定要養我. 但佢一定要自己養到自己. 亦唔一定要高大靚仔. 咁都算要求高?



  • 我身邊的男性朋友個個都怕了這些了...





    by mei - 10/26/06 14:46





    其實男仔唔係怕o左付出風度,而係因為唔係個個女仔都值得我o地咁做...


    得罪講一句,女仔o係要求男仔對佢有紳士風度之前,先要問下自己又係唔係一個淑女,正所謂"紳士淑女",女仔要享受紳士風度o既待遇,首先自己要似個淑女先,男仔唔會對住一個淑女同對住一個只識搵著數o既女仔都俾出同等o既紳士風度出o黎。男仔o既紳士風度唔係咁下賤,係唔係都俾出o黎



  • mag





    或者咁啦


    你要求o既係個男人而家就養得起自己?


    定係要求個男人而家養唔起唔緊要,只要將來有本事養得起自己就已經算pass?


    到底人o既際遇好難講,男仔而家養唔起自己未必表示佢無用,如果只係睇佢而家個股價而唔考慮佢未來o既升值潛力,咁真係會走寶都唔知


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