我喜歡的男同事要離開公司了,怎麼辦?

問題係我同佢都無共同同事, 所以約親都係得我同佢.

我同佢識左三個幾月..一見面我覺得佢好親切...
 一日我排隊坐小巴返家途中見到佢,(因為我地大家都坐同一家車),我無諗住叫佢,因為佢係前面...即使見到佢,我都諗住只係向佢微笑...點知佢走埋黎叫我,仲坐在我旁...我地一路坐車一邊傾計,都係d無聊野,講下大家平時中意做d乜咁...

有時都係係我唔為意既時候, 佢又會走過黎同我講嘢.

昨晚同佢傾咗成兩個鐘 msn, 好滿足.
 佢問我佢 last day 個日我會唔會放假
 講講下我話早幾日去整咗負離子, 但我以前其實一路都係短頭髮. 佢就話好想睇下我短頭髮係咩樣

我都對一個男同事有好感,我上個月先主動add佢(但唔係直接問佢,係問我以前ex)..我地雖然做左２年同事，但都係呢個零月先開始在ｍｓｎ多ｄ野傾，但佢一時時啦，一時會主動傾，一時都係我主動ｈｉ先，但又可以傾到2-3個鐘... 唔知呀,我唔敢約佢.好想佢約我.但又唔知人地點諗呢...

可以試下暗示﹐
 例如話有套戲自己想看﹐不過就得自己一個人﹐想有人陪。。
 如果他醒的話﹐應該會約你。。。

昨晚同佢傾咗成兩個鐘 msn, 好滿足.
 佢問我佢 last day 個日我會唔會放假
 講講下我話早幾日去整咗負離子, 但我以前其實一路都係短頭髮. 佢就話好想睇下我短頭髮係咩樣
 
 by ggll - 10/01/06 12:28
 
 聽落個男仔有點怕醜(拍被你拒絕)﹐試探你對他的反應。
 你係味好靚架﹐他甘小心既﹖
 
 (問你會唔會放假﹐即係打探你得唔得閒。
 話想見你短頭髮個樣﹐咪即係話想見你。。)

我唔係好靚架, 長頭髮, 瘦瘦, 細細粒咁
 
 不過近排好搞笑, 有次返工係地鐡見到佢 team 一個同事, 我同佢介乎識同唔識之間, 咁就打咗招呼就算. 返到公司佢竟然 send email 俾我話唔好意思, 因為佢無同我講嘢. 後來呢位同事仲問佢攞我 msn (佢地同 team 好熟).

hi do u want go to see firework at tst ? 8:45pm
 pls go to other thread

佢個 team member add 咗我之後就係咁同我講嘢, 問我平時得閒會做乜, 又講下公司D嘢

佢個 team member 咁主動, 搞到我有D驚

因為你對他的TEAMMATE 無興趣﹐所以見人主動反以驚﹐還是因為你唔知人想做乜所以驚﹖
 
 乜然見自己甘HOT﹐唔知點反應﹖^_^

我唔知佢 TEAMMATE 想做乜所以驚

我唔係好靚架, 長頭髮, 瘦瘦, 細細粒咁
 by ggll - 10/01/06 18:00
 佢個 team member add 咗我之後就係咁同我講嘢, 問我平時得閒會做乜, 又講下公司D嘢
 by ggll - 10/01/06 22:04
 
 唔使太驚既﹐我諗他無乜惡意的。
 可能你太吸引了。^_^
 他如果對你有任何企圖﹐應該會有進一步行動。

離開了公司啫，又唔係離開了香港。

今日係佢既 last day, 雖然我無神不守舍, 但就成日都想住"今日係佢既 last day". 後來佢上咗黎派餅, 同佢影咗張相. 但我唔知點解唔係好敢望佢.

咁又係, 佢只係離開公司
 就算佢唔走, 我都唔同佢一層樓, 都好少見到

佢終於都走��, 原來真係幾唔捨得

so did he ask you to go out?

好慘, 無呀
 我係咪應該死心呢?

佢問我今晚中秋節去邊度玩, 我話係屋企做節, 佢話佢都係

唉。。
 望見你們﹐ 真係有點失望。
 兩個人都怕走出第一步。。
 
 你係女仔都重可以接受﹐
 他淨係識問長問短又唔行動。。。
 
 呢種性格的男仔﹐似乎唔多岩你。
 (因為分分鐘可以等三年都唔表態﹐好似我朋友甘。)

個男仔好內向的﹖
 
 幾時會見面﹖﹖

或者佢根本對我無意思呢, 唉...

ggll,
 
 don't think too much, go ahead !!
 
 but need planning

how to plan and what plan?

u of course need to have his contact at least, ask ask him what is his new job...same field...etc....to keep the relationship even outside the office...
 
 but remember don't directly tell u like him

for my case, but past already
 
 same with u, i like that gal, but she will leave the company...and i know that at her last 2 days...
 
 so...i can't control.. ...she discovered i like her la...
 
 of course ...the story ..u know...not successful la...
 
 so...u need to reach him step bu step

你講個D我全部都做過喇

平時返工佢通常日日都開 msn, 不過我都唔敢叫佢, 驚阻住佢做嘢

今日佢又o係 msn 叫我喇, 不過反而佢好似怕阻住我咁, 講左兩句佢就話驚阻我, 我話唔怕先繼續講咋

ggll
 
 Wish you have a happy ending with him. My case is same as you, but I think I have no hope with him......he doesn't seem like to develop a relationship more than ex-co-workers/hi-bye msn friends with me.
 Keep hinting him and encouraging him, if he likes you, he will date you out one day.

今日佢又o係 msn 叫我喇, 不過反而佢好似怕阻住我咁, 講左兩句佢就話驚阻我, 我話唔怕先繼續講咋
 
 by ggll - 10/13/06 22:57
 
 聽落他是對你有興趣。。不過唔知他(顧忌)/怕乜﹐ 總係唔行多一步。。
 他有無拍過拖﹖無理由甘大個人﹐重鐘意玩暗戀。。

我都唔知佢有無拍過拖呀, 好似對佢既了解都係好少咁

今日我生日,佢 send 咗張 e-card 俾我. 但竟然佢個 teammate 話買咗份生日禮物俾我, 仲約我食飯. 我就話不如約埋佢啦. 咁最後我地就會三個人食飯.

ggll,
 
 so how's the meal going? Did the guy u like take further actions after that?

唉...好傷心
 個日食完飯之後佢提議去食糖水, 點知行行下佢突然話要走先, 我既感覺就係佢製造緊機會俾佢 teammate.........好傷心

佢咁樣做......我估我都無機會

你好! 只係想俾少少意見,
 真係好大可能係佢個frd 鍾意左你喎!

咁我可以點?

其實一個男仔對自己有冇意思, 唔多唔少都會表現少少蛛絲馬跡, 或者你諗下有冇方法主動地被動囉

佢...真係一時時...有時好主動...但佢"製造機會" 呢件事真係令我覺得咩希望都無

咁佢既主動是否就只係為佢同事製造機會呢? 如果真係既, 你咪借機問佢, 然後話佢知你對佢同事冇feel囉, 一黎表明你自己心跡, 二黎睇下佢有冇其他既表示

如果佢真係冇咩表示, 咁可能你要接受現實喇

我第二日正想問佢點解咁突然要早走, 佢竟然同我 say sorry 先, 都唔知係真定假

咁佢嗰個同事是否對你好殷勤呢? 如果佢地再有呢d行動, 你會點做呢?

佢日日o係 msn 都會叫我囉
 我最苦惱既係如果佢地生日, 我都唔知點做

我唔想同佢 teammate 單獨食飯, 送禮物又驚有誤會

今日我生日,佢 send 咗張 e-card 俾我. 但竟然佢個 teammate 話買咗份生日禮物俾我, 仲約我食飯. 我就話不如約埋佢啦. 咁最後我地就會三個人食飯.
 
 by ggll - 10/17/06 22:08
 
 你甘樣﹐我係個男仔會想﹕您是否對男同事有意思想我當你係朋友。當然會早走。

內向的男仔﹐好麻煩架。
 小小事就會以為人拒絕他﹐自動走開。
 因為自我形像底﹐怕自尊受傷。