4. 我喜歡的男同事要離開公司了,怎麼辦?

我喜歡的男同事要離開公司了,怎麼辦?

  • K

    如果他係內向形的男仔﹐
    <br>你當他係女仔甘測試啦。

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  • G

    但係係佢 teammate 主動約我 wor, 我一來唔想同佢 teammate 單獨食飯, 二來我想見佢, 先叫埋佢. 咁都會以為我對人有意思? 如果係我都唔會叫佢出來做電燈膽啦.

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  • G

    佢成個星期無叫過我了, 可能佢忙啦, 我想叫佢架, 但又唔知 hi 完之後講乜好

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  • S

    ggll,
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    <br>hey, did the guy ask u out during halloween? just for fun lei?
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    <br>佢成個星期無叫過我了, 可能佢忙啦, 我想叫佢架, 但又唔知 hi 完之後講乜好
    <br>by ggll - 10/27/06 22:35
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    <br>I am so much like you too, I always want to say hi to him and talk to him more, but I dunno what to say after a 'hi'.....sigh!
    <br>
    <br>hope u two work out....
    <br>
    <br>

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  • G

    佢無叫我出去呀, 不過佢 teammate 就成日問我放假有咩做, 我次次都話約咗人......
    <br>其實我唔介意主動叫佢既, 因為我覺得佢唔會唔應我, 不過真係唔知講乜好.

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  • N

    你指MSN 嗎? 你可以同佢講, 好悶呀, 有咩做? 之後就問下佢有咩戲睇, 睇佢有咩反應. 有咪可以一齊出來睇戲LAW

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  • G

    係呀,係 msn.
    <br>但我覺得佢實唔會主動約我囉

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  • G

    剛剛同佢 msn 完, 今次我主動叫佢呀, 佢有問我平時行街多數行邊, 不過佢始終無行動

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  • 小

    同佢講多d野先, msn都ok,
    <br>熟左就自然會出黎, 唔使咁刻意話邊個約邊個!!~ 而且講多d野亦可以令你了解佢多d, 知道佢0岩唔0岩你!!~

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  • G

    我成日覺得識咗一排都仲係朋友(無發展成情侣), 咁應該以後都係朋友喇

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  • 過

    其實我覺得慢慢了解下先, 唔係壞事, 可能你依傢覺得好鍾意佢, 佢好岩你, 但其實事實唔係咁...
    <br>
    <br>我之前提過既男同事, 佢都走左, 依傢我地都keep 住聯絡, 我仲約左佢慶祝生日tim, 不過我好多朋友都話, 唔好俾佢覺得我好鍾意佢先, 如果唔係就輸左個陣~^^~ 同埋慢慢了解下先, 有發展就自然會有~ 但你唔好放過每一個了解佢, 同俾佢了解你既機會

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  • S

    灰爆......我同佢好似隔左萬幾公裡0甘遠既距離.........
    <br>佢心�堶悼穧陴臚G個人，好想好想快d忘記佢，好想忘記嗮以前同佢發生過既種種.....
    <br>好辛苦呀.......
    <br>離開左，以爲成全左對方，但原來大家都可能係錯摸......
    <br>
    <br>好希望天下有情人能夠終誠眷屬!!!!

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  • S

    佢係我既催淚劑，每當諗起以前，個心就好唔舒服，好多時仲會喊........
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    <br>ggll,
    <br>看到你的故事，真係好似我個個，當然我同佢既關係種複雜d.....真係好希望你有個好結果，至少可以話比我知呢個世界，真心真意既感情係有希望既......
    <br>
    <br>今晚訓唔着，所以諗多左，有咩消息記得第一時間update係度，share比我地聽。
    <br>

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  • G

    有時我係度想, 如果我鐘意既係佢 teammate 咁就好啦, 起碼佢日日都會係 msn 叫我, 同我講嘢. 我話唔舒服佢即刻問我點, 係咁叫我返屋企休息.

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  • 小

    to: ggll
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    <br> 咁你對佢teamate 印像係點? 有冇可能呢?
    <br>
    <br>你要keep住同""佢" 聯絡喎, 唔keep contact 唔得架, out of sight, out of mind ar!!
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    <br>to: shandy
    <br>
    <br>唔好喊呀!! 如果個男仔心裡面有另一個人, 咁但係佢心裡面有冇你呢? 可唔可以俾d時間佢?

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  • G

    而家我同佢既聯絡只係得 msn, 我想遲D佢生日我約佢出黎食飯, 點知佢 teammate 話同我一齊約佢. 我估我同佢都無乜機會單獨約會喇.
    <br>佢 teammate 唔係唔好, 但唔知點解同佢一齊既時候好拘謹, 唔似得同佢一齊咁舒服.

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  • 小

    係咪同佢teammate唔熟? 定係你其實有少少拒抗佢, 所以覺得拘謹?
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    <br>Anyway, 未有機會單獨約會唔代表冇發展空間喎, 有機會見面即係仲有機, 唔好放棄呀!
    <br>
    <br>佢teammate知你想同佢個friend慶祝生日, 會唔會都估到你鍾意佢個friend呀??

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  • G

    可能同佢 teammate 真係唔太熟, 同埋識無耐就約我食飯同送生日禮物, 令我有D驚.
    <br>佢teammate應該唔知既, 主動話佢生日個時就一齊同佢慶祝

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  • S

    小醜魚,
    <br>
    <br>我唔知佢個心有幾多有我，我同佢好耐無見喇，差唔多一年。但係佢係呢段時間間唔中都會係msn問候下我。半年前有問過出唔出黎，不過無左下聞，其實當時我因爲以前發生過既事，仲未完全放開，所以我有猶豫見唔見......
    <br>
    <br>我知佢心�堶惜@直有另一個人，亦都知我係佢心�堶惇J份量一d都唔重。我而家對佢唔敢再有咩期望（因爲每次對佢有期望既時候，都會失望，可能係自己傻），只係有時諗返以前d野仲會唔開心。我無諗過所有野會係自己心�堶扈d甘耐，佢.....可能已經唔記得喇。
    <br>
    <br>我睇唔到如果我心�堶悼穧傘\，我既出路會係邊，所以呢半年我好辛苦逼自己去忘記佢，去重新生活。但係都好似唔係好成功，有時會好憎自己甘無用.....
    <br>
    <br>唔好意思，太長氣.....
    <br>

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  • G

    我有時都想, 好唔好就咁算呢? 趁而家我都仲未對佢泥足深陷既時候抽身而退, 無咁傷.

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  • 小

    to Shandy:
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    <br>咁你地係由頭到尾都係好普通既朋友關係? 佢知道你對佢有意思嗎? 如果一年冇見, 真係應該放得低咯喎, can't u?
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    <br>to: ggll
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    <br>我覺得你對佢係依賴, 如果遲d有個ok既男仔出現, 你就可能會忘記佢! 不過如果而家冇, 你都可以搵多d佢, 做朋友係雙方面, 真係唔好介意邊個搵邊個, 佢如果對你有意思會遲早感受到!!

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  • G

    佢 teammate 就黎生日, 禮尚往來我都要請返佢食飯, 但其實我好怕佢 teammate 誤會. 同埋我會約埋佢出黎.

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  • S

    小醜魚,
    <br>
    <br>我而家好努力甘去放低，我知係應該“要”放低，亦唔想再白白浪費時間係呢個人身上。其實係以前發生左d事，我覺得佢係成件事上，淨係睇到自己，好似從來都無係我個角度諗過，其實我係好傷既。所以，可能係甘，呢個傷口雖然埋左，但好多時都會隱隱作痛，呢個可能係我仲未完全忘記佢既原因。
    <br>
    <br>我同佢既關係？離開個陣，我都有問過自己.....朋友嘛？好似又未到；同事嘛？好似又多d。個陣時如果佢見我唔出聲嬲佢個陣，佢會自自然然做d野tum返我.......但佢係我上司。我個陣感覺到，如果我嬲佢，佢會好緊張。
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    <br>而家，我同佢，係好耐無見既“舊同事”，呢個我好清楚。一年無見，咩都唔同嗮！
    <br>有陣時，真係好希望人既記憶同電腦既記憶體一樣，一按'delete'，咩都無嗮。
    <br>

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  • 黑

    有冇新進展

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  • G

    我?
    <br>無, 好灰

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  • 黑

    唔洗咁心急
    <br>
    <br>佢轉左新工，　都會忙ｄ架

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  • G

    同埋我有D怕佢 teammate

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  • 黑

    你大可同佢講你對佢ｔｅａｍａｔｅ冇意思

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  • G

    但佢唔知知唔知佢 teammate 既事, 因為純粹係我覺得佢 teammate 對我有意思

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  • 小

    to: ggll
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    <br>衰d講句, 我認為佢teammate係你地既橋樑, 你唔使怕佢, 應好好加以利用, 唔係要玩佢或欺騙佢感情, 但可以趁機見佢多d!!
    <br>
    <br>始終你地而家唔係一齊做野, 有個共通朋友點都好d, 你試下可唔可以同佢teammate做到普通朋友啦!!! 然後再同佢發展!!~

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  • 小

    to: shandy
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    <br>佢係你上司? 咁上司對女下屬好多時都唔錯架喎, 你要搞清楚佢係咪對你有意思先..
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    <br>一年可以發生太多野, 如果你真係忘記唔到佢, 試下搵下佢睇下佢而家點囉, 或者佢都等緊你呢?
    <br>
    <br>就萛佢而家真係拍緊拖, 至少可以令自己對佢死心丫嘛!!
    <br>
    <br>人同電腦梗係唔同啦, 呢個就係人既可貴, 人係有感情架嘛!!!~~

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  • G

    佢 teammate 就o黎生日, 我叫埋佢一齊食晚飯, 但佢話今個星期都好忙, 叫我同佢 teammate 食 lunch 先, 下星期至同我地食晚飯. 但我話等佢得閒先一齊食啦, 佢又話要佢 teammate 等咁耐唔係幾好, 但都隨我喜歡. 我最後都係等埋佢先一齊食, 因為唔想同佢 teammate 單獨食飯.

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  • 小

    咁都ok呀, 總好過你地之間冇contact, 我feel到你真係好唔想同佢個teammate做friend喎......定係你真係對佢個teammate一d好感都冇, 仲要好驚佢係鍾意你? 佢個teammate個樣好嚇人? 性格好乞人憎??

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  • 靚

    ggll,
    <br>好心你啦, 唔鐘意佢teammate, 就唔好理佢生日啦.搞到人地以為有機.
    <br>你鐘意果個咪星座?

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  • G

    我唔係唔想同佢 teammate 做朋友, 不過可能之前唔係好熟, 已經又約食飯又送禮物, 畀佢嚇怕咗
    <br>咁佢 teammate 之前請過我食飯, 我唔請返佢, 好似唔係幾好.
    <br>我係天秤座, 我鐘意o個個係水瓶.

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  • G

    佢今日同我講話我地咁遲先同佢 teammate 食飯, 佢覺得佢 teammate 唔開心, 又再叫我同佢 teammate 食 lunch 先. 佢又咁講, 搞到好似我仲話唔約佢 teammate 好衰咁, 我唯有話好.

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  • G

    同咗佢 teammate 食 lunch, 我好快咁食完, 跟住好快咁返公司, 仲以為無人見到. 點知返到去有同事問我係咪同佢 teammate 單獨食 lunch. 死啦, 實畀人唱.

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  • G

    近排同佢又多返 email 既聯絡(我以前同佢都係因為 email 溝通至開始熟), 但 msn 就少咗. 佢仲問我有無 photo album.

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  • G

    唔知佢呢排係咪好忙呢, 好想問下佢, 但又怕阻住佢, 同埋驚佢嫌我煩

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  • G

    都成幾個星期無同佢講過嘢, 唔通真係就咁就算?

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  • G

    呢排成日都好掛住佢, 好辛苦

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  • S

    me too......sigh, i m hopeless...
    <br>
    <br>so, did he date you out during christmas? for a tea or a meal?

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  • G

    無呀, 雖然我都預咗, 但都有D唔開心
    <br>佢 teammate 有送禮物畀我....點解我鐘意o既就唔理我, 我唔鐘意o既就對我咁好?

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  • G

    佢聖誕 send 咗個 sms 畀我, 我已經好開心喇

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  • G

    佢連今日都有 send sms 畀我祝我新年快樂, 有D喜出望外

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  • G

    佢就黎生日喇, 我估我都會約佢食飯, 希望佢 teammate 唔好話一齊啦

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  • G

    唔知有咩好地方同佢去食飯呢?

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  • G

    我今日約咗佢去食飯, 到最後佢都話不如叫埋佢 teammate 一齊去. 雖然我都預咗, 但又唔開心囉

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  • G

    最後都係三人行咁去食飯, 唔知點解我同佢 teammate 一齊既時候硬係覺得唔係好舒服

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  • G

    我係咪應該放棄?

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