未 ready?
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<p>有一個男仔... 佢追左一排, 我地之後開始左...<br /><br />開始左唔係好耐, 佢同我佢未 ready 有 新既 relationship...<br /><br />佢基本上係一個好人, 都幾好仔... 佢上一個女朋友 hurt 得佢好深... 向我地一齊既時候, 佢個 ex 有打過俾佢, 佢之後同我講, 原來佢未 ready... 佢以為自己 ready, 可以開始新既 relationship... 佢話佢好驚, 唔敢住...<br /><br />佢話佢唔會同返佢個 ex 一齊... 佢叫我信佢真係未 ready. 大家可唔可以做返朋友. <br /><br />我好想知佢有冇呃我.... </p>
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好難知道 wor..
<br>um.. do u know how long he has been with his ex?
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幾個月啦. 佢個 ex 算係佢真真正正第一個女朋友...
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又係咁嘅借口,佢根本未忘記佢ex,所以先唔可以接受另一個開始.
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我好掛住佢...
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能夠咁樣同你講..我相信佢唔係花心既人...我覺得可信
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佢仲有同我講, 佢唔想叫我等佢, 因為佢話對我唔 fair...
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<br>我未同佢一齊既時候, 我有問過佢, 佢對佢既 ex 冇曬野啦? 佢就答我, 依家獅一個更重要既人... which 佢既意思係我... 但係一齊左又話未 read...
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未 ready 可能係真既, 但同時亦都表示左, 你唔夠 power 將佢拉返出黎
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樓主，我都遇過你這種情形，但我覺得他真的沒有欺騙你...
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carol,
<br>你既故事係點? 最後合定分?
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luke，他的前度是死於cancer...雖然隔了數年..他還沒放得下...他說不是不愛我，只是最愛的還是她...這一年半對我很內疚...最近分開了，形於陌路一樣...
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luke replied @ 2009-01-18 10:34 am
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<br>未 ready 可能係真既, 但同時亦都表示左, 你唔夠 power 將佢拉返出黎
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<br>正如你所說的，我未夠power
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carol,
<br>噢, 過身又確實非一般痛楚, 我估真係無咁容易出得返黎, 就算你幾索幾正都冇用, 要等佢醒返, 返黎現實先得, 如果, 到時佢搵返你, 你又未有男友, 你會唔會...?
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luke replied @ 2009-01-18 10:59 am
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<br>carol,
<br>噢, 過身又確實非一般痛楚, 我估真係無咁容易出得返黎, 就算你幾索幾正都冇用, 要等佢醒返, 返黎現實先得, 如果, 到時佢搵返你, 你又未有男友, 你會唔會？
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<br>其實他正式和我說的時候，是除夕那一天...我其實識他的時候是知道，前度在他心中是非常重要的...
<br>未開始前我也問過社工朋友如何幫他的，但社工朋友也說只有依靠他自己...
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<br>我相信我會等他的...
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有點感動, 看到你對他的愛, 他對故人的愛, 希望, 你的等待可以帶給你幸福
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luke replied @ 2009-01-18 11:13 am
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<br>有點感動, 看到你對他的愛, 他對故人的愛, 希望, 你的等待可以帶給你幸福
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<br>我也不知道...心裡面很想放手，尊重他的決定，實際上我做不到...很矛盾
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假若勉強一齊令雙方增添痛楚和壓力, 乾脆退一步回復好朋友關係其實都值得嘗試, 之少可以保持接觸, 多一點機會關心他.
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luke replied @ 2009-01-18 11:34 am
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<br>假若勉強一齊令雙方增添痛楚和壓力, 乾脆退一步回復好朋友關係其實都值得嘗試, 至少可以保持接觸, 多一點機會關心他.
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<br>謝謝你，我會的
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我想問, 點為止係夠power呢?
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my ex sl's nick name was greentea also..kinda miss him sometimes
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your story is so touching lei...add oil ar~
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<br>relationship needs time to build up and i think he needs more time to forget about the past...
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thank you all.
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<br>I am hoping that one day he's ready... but he doesn't know that I am still waiting...
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<br>I don't know what to do.
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<br>Carol, add oil!
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greentea ，謝謝你
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佢有無呃你
<br>好視乎你地去到咩關係
<br>e.g.上左床未
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未知 replied @ 2009-01-19 2:22 am
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<br>佢有無呃你
<br>好視乎你地去到咩關係
<br>e.g.上左床未
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<br>your questions is so fxxking stupid, is it all you care about? gosh
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ex sl replied @ 2009-01-18 12:31 pm
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<br>my ex sl's nick name was greentea also..kinda miss him sometimes
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<br>want a replacement?
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未知...講得無錯喎....
<br>佢未食你而講話未ready,咁個男仔都好老實,證明佢根本唔想扼你感情.
<br>但係如果你同佢上咗床而佢咁講,即係擺明玩完你就走啦,上完床先話未ready,咁你既然未ready就無食人啦,擺明扼食.
<br>所以上咗同未上分別好大架.
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咁妳咪搵過另一個囉
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At least he put the relationship on hold, better than him leading you along while he has another person in his heart.
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<br>But be careful not to get involved in draggy relationships.
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他倆一齊經歷既野比你倆既多
<br>俾啲時間大家，慢慢黎，但唔好等
<br>亦無需要懷疑自己既魅力
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小嗡嗡, are you a guy or a girl?
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現階段, 分開一下係好0既.
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Myra，
<br>如果你係女仔，我願意變成一個大男人；如果你係男仔，我願意變成一個小女孩.
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well thank you ;) but i'm not looking for a partner.
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<br>I just thought your reply below is very well said, very insightful. so i wonder if you're a girl or a guy.
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<br>小嗡嗡 replied @ 2009-01-19 10:16 am
<br>他倆一齊經歷既野比你倆既多
<br>俾啲時間大家，慢慢黎，但唔好等
<br>亦無需要懷疑自己既魅力
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我同佢冇上過床...
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<br>我真係好掛住佢. 等之外我可以做 d 咩?
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greentea replied @ 2009-01-19 2:21 pm
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<br>我同佢冇上過床...
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<br>我真係好掛住佢. 等之外我可以做 d 咩?
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<br>其實佢都已經開到口, 咁我相信你都無乜野可以再做.
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<br>你不如努力面對現實, 積極生活, 多0的擴大自己0既社交圈子仲好啦~
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其實拍拖都好靠feel
<br>過一段時間
<br>你對佢/佢對你既feel都可能會唔同
<br>你要有心理準備
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stupid replied @ 2009-01-19 3:54 am
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<br>your questions is so fxxking stupid, is it all you care about? gosh
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<br>但事實有唔少都係外表西裝友，實則搵食男
<br>佢present 得好好仔唔代表佢唔係搵食
<br>有人會食完之後先飛你，仲用個好好既藉口贏埋最尾一個好印像
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<br>你覺得stupid只係你人如其名諗唔到
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佢應該係冇呃你! 仲都叫肯負責任 ! 放開 d 啦 !
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不過, 就唔好諗做返朋友啦.......
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曾經
<br>我都試過有個男仔追左我一排
<br>同你情況差唔多一樣
<br>佢都同我講佢一定唔會同返ex一齊
<br>但個結果係佢都係放棄左我然後同返ex一齊
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Myra,
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<br>同一句鼓勵既說話，一個由男性說出，一個由女性說出，那一句容易入耳？
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Welcome to add with me!
<br>i am 32 and 180cm tall!
<br>msn :
<br>[email protected]
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He told me his ex cheated on him. and he does not want to see his ex again. but then... who knows...
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<br>I sent him a message yesterday, told him that how I feel... told him I cannot be friends with him at this moment, cuz I am still thinking about him, and miss him alot...
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<br>I told him that 未 ready is not a valid reason for me... so I would prefer end whatever relationship we have right now. even being friends... I will keep on think about him if we keep in contact...
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<br>but guess what... I still missing him a lot...
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<br>what else can I say? what else can I do? there's nothing I can say and nothing do...
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小嗡嗡, my guess is you're a girl. ;)
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<br>greentea, focus on other parts of your life i guess?
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如果佢無呃完你上床先分手，咁都可以assume佢唔係呃你
<br>咁佢依家同你講左都好，好過一路keep住你但個心有第二個
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<br>我覺得你唔好等佢，因為唔知等到幾時
<br>如果第日佢有心搵返你，先再考慮佢
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