返到屋企好唔開心,阿爸阿媽成日嘈,,同男友一齊又唔開心,,返工更加唔開心,,無錢,人工低,,除左死,仲有咩方法?





  • 乜甘灰吖......小姐



  • 做人, 根本就係苦多過樂.



    個人意見. 所以我做人都係唔開心的.





  • 做人, 根本就係苦多過樂.

    個人意見. 所以我做人都係唔開心的.

    生活本身就係"苦"既
    快樂只可以去尋找俾自己


  • 我最憎就係我個肚,唔係因為個肚,我哋做人駛嘜咁辛苦...

    日日辛苦搵錢黎醫肚,如果唔會餓,唔駛食嘢都唔會死嘅,駛鬼做咩...

    做人都係為個肚而活...



  • 如果人生只係為左個肚, 咁就唔會有咁多0既苦啦~



    人生0既苦唔只係為左食飽咁簡單.



  • 我從來都唔覺得人生係苦,我只當係磨練,如果經得起磨練,咁我做人又進步一啲...吃得苦中苦,方為人上人...

    版主你人工低都好過我負資產,你有父母總好過我從小自力更生,我都唔知咩叫家庭溫暖,依家35歲人仲係單身,工作唔定時,想識朋友都難,照咁睇我埋死咗好耐,但我永遠同自己講:個天要考驗我,我唔會衰俾你睇,我仲後生,有氣有力,只要我旔旔康康,無嘢難到我,我會好樂觀咁去面對每一日.

    只要你唔好將所有嘢睇得咁灰,將佢當成好嘅人生體驗,咁你嘅日子會好過啲...反正好又要過,唔好都要過,點解成日要諗埋啲唔開心想死嘅嘢呢???

    震作啲啦...朋友!!!



  • 有時真係好唔開心,覺得好攰嘅時候,反而會睇啲悲情電影大哭一場或睇啲好慘嘅書黎鼓勵自己,話俾自己知呢個世界上有好多人比我更慘更可憐更孤獨,但人哋一樣咁去面對,因為呢樣係作為對自己亦係對人類生存基本嘅尊重...

    連自己都面對唔到自己,又點面對死嘅勇氣呢???



  • 我寫咁多都係希望大家振作,唔好太灰,一定會好架...唔開心上黎傾吓,大家互相開解吓...識得上黎講已經係好叻女叻仔架啦...



  • 唔好死住啦.

    我屋企都有好多問題,去年同男友分左手而家單身,現時仲失緊業.

    不過我都未有想去死住架,估唔到自己仲可以鼓勵到其他失意既人添.

    新一年新希望架! don't give up!



  • 多謝大家,,我向度寫出來就係唔想自己諗得咁差,,我唔知做咩出來,到時你地真係會向報紙見到我囉...老實講,,咁耐以來我都未有好景過,,都唔知有無一日會有好日子過,,咩總有曙光好似向度自己呃自己咁,,,

    我朋友唔多,,想搵個人傾訴都無..好辛苦



  • 都岩0既,,死又唔死得住,,唯有自己睇開啦



  • 天將降大任於此人,必定勞共筋骨,傷其髮膚嗎...呢啲就係上天俾你嘅考驗,你能夠通過考驗,必定就會有個美好嘅將來,起碼你仲後生,經得起所有失敗,跌倒再黎過,唔通你想老咗呢啲考驗先黎咩???

    信自己嘅能力,你今日仲係度同大家分享你嘅唔開心,證明你仲可經得起風浪,辛苦嘅日子好快會過去,我都等緊呢日嘅來臨,大家一齊加油啦!!!

    無再諗埋啲弱者先諗嘅嘢啦!!!



  • 我都苦咗35年,但我從來只覺得呢啲係個天俾我嘅磨練,我好信人定勝天,起碼我仲係度接收緊佢俾我嘅考驗呀,個天遲早都放棄唔玩我啦,怕咗我,俾條生路我行嘅...我相信我會好俾個天睇,因為我珍惜生命,珍惜每一日...



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-05 12:49 am



    我最憎就係我個肚,唔係因為個肚,我哋做人駛嘜咁辛苦...

    日日辛苦搵錢黎醫肚,如果唔會餓,唔駛食嘢都唔會死嘅,駛鬼做咩...

    做人都係為個肚而活...

    ==================================



    俾妳笑屎......^^



  • 有父母健在,又有工作, 又有男朋友, 你已經好過大把人啦! 有人真係乜都無架!



  • 返到屋企好唔開心,阿爸阿媽成日嘈,,同男友一齊又唔開心,,返工更加唔開心,,無錢,人工低,,除左死,仲有咩方法?<---我都覺得你好好0家啦窩,父母身體健康,又有男朋友,又有工做有飯食。

    如果都唔滿足,你可以選擇一個方法----->變



    同男朋友一齊唔開心咪分手囉,返工唔開心人工少咪轉工囉,再唔係嫁左佢搬出黎住囉...大把野可以做,洗唔洗死呀。



  • 無錯,窮則變,變則通...

    我嘜都無都唔駛死,吹咩....



  • Just4U

    你咁勁,邊個吹得你漲呀﹖呵呵!

    好似你咁樂觀都幾好呀^^



  • 樂觀唔好過悲觀咩????

    呢度埋俾你感受到樂觀同悲觀兩種人攞....

    樂觀嘅人睇所有嘅問題都唔成問題....

    悲觀嘅人將所有事都當成人生中嘅大問題...

    我係一種遇強越強嘅人...

    但一啲係遇強變弱嘅人,永遠俾個社會食住佢...

    我寧願食住個社會總好過社會食住我啦....



  • Just4U,



    講得好. ;)



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-06 2:51 pm



    樂觀唔好過悲觀咩????

    呢度埋俾你感受到樂觀同悲觀兩種人攞....

    樂觀嘅人睇所有嘅問題都唔成問題....

    悲觀嘅人將所有事都當成人生中嘅大問題...

    我係一種遇強越強嘅人...

    但一啲係遇強變弱嘅人,永遠俾個社會食住佢...

    我寧願食住個社會總好過社會食住我啦....



    -----



    好偑服你有無比的毅力



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-06 2:39 am



    無錯,窮則變,變則通...

    我嘜都無都唔駛死,吹咩....

    ====================================



    拿........呢d就叫"硬正"啦

    妳好野~~~~~~^^



  • 弊在硬過頭呢...啲男朋友會覺得我無咗女性嘅溫柔...有時都覺得自己太剛烈...

    依家先學人做個溫柔啲嘅人...哈哈



  • 啲男朋友.....



    哈哈, 好艷福



  • 艷鬼艷馬咩....硬淨過頭,吓走曬啦...



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-07 12:05 am



    艷鬼艷馬咩....硬淨過頭,吓走曬啦...



    慢慢黎啦,實有伯樂既......^^



  • 啲仔當我兄弟或心理醫生多過當我係女人...頂...無引...



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-07 2:23 am



    啲仔當我兄弟或心理醫生多過當我係女人...頂...無引...



    妳外形好差咩???



  • 係超級靚女果隻,就係咁先唔敢追我,唔信我無男友...

    信嘅就覺得我一定要求高,好難追...

    所以我都同自己講隨緣啦...無得強求嘅...我又唔係咁care愛情,我要事業多啲...



  • 雖然有啲自大...不過又係真架....因為周時行街都聽到其他女性偷偷係度話:你睇個女仔幾靚,又有氣質,應該唔係香港人...

    不過我緊係唔會係其他人面前話自己靚女啦,係度大家唔識又講笑性質無所謂啫...係出面做人要兼啲....



  • Just4U: "係超級靚女果隻....

    雖然有啲自大...不過又係真架....因為周時行街都聽到其他女性偷偷係度話:你睇個女仔幾靚,又有氣質,應該唔係香港人... "

    _________________________________



    靚女, 仲要係 "超級靚女", 你好掂者!

    下次稱叫你"超女", ok?

    hehehe



  • 傷/ justforu



    正所謂家家有本難唸的經,每個人都有傷心既事同過去,有時唔好只係向上望,向下望下有好多人比你慘,咁會開心d.



    我都曾經好唔開心,不過比起上黎可能好你少少,我有二個大學學位,但可能因為性格關係一直浮浮沉沉,前年係感情同工作上好唔開心,上年年頭決定離開個變態老世,但好奇怪,我係同一行搵到份人工唔錯既工,由於某一d理由所以我今年先返工,多謝上天比我抖左成年,我同意上邊有人講,人根本係要受苦,咪當係磨練囉,唔係點啫?都要做人架,不如將精神集中係點樣令自己快樂個度,我最近先明白人生短暫,我唔會再迫自己對住d唔鍾意既人同事,所以連個幾個朋友都疏遠佢,我而家無乜朋友,但覺得咁都幾好丫,開始去做義工識翻d新朋友,如果唔mind既,大家做個朋友



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  • 你識咁諗埋好攞,做人開朗好多架...



  • CS_She...haha...

    又幾串喎個名...不過都係帶有攪笑成份啫,攪吓氣氛啦嗎....

    靚又邊有標準架,你話自己,亦有人靚過你...無絕嘅...



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-07 4:30 am



    雖然有啲自大...不過又係真架....因為周時行街都聽到其他女性偷偷係度話:你睇個女仔幾靚,又有氣質,應該唔係香港人...

    不過我緊係唔會係其他人面前話自己靚女啦,係度大家唔識又講笑性質無所謂啫...係出面做人要兼啲....

    =====================================



    甘真係要認識下妳啦.......有氣質wo....^^



    我就同妳相返.......

    d朋友話我個"衰樣"無乜野吖

    但對眼呢就好惡,想食人甘.....哈哈哈



  • 板主:

    你既唔快樂就係因為困在一個死胡洞, 進不得, 退不可.



    看看自已可唔可以break free... 如果往在家不開心, 覺得可以出去住會happy d, 但又無多錢.... 看看自己能否找幾個roomate share 一個單位. 這可以出來住, 但有其他人分担expenses. (當然, 都係要計過條數先)



    同男友not happy, 試下可唔可以自己pleasant d? 如果你成日都好愁咁既樣, 男 友又點會有與志tum 你呢? 諗諗自己positive d 先啦.



    半杯水係 半空 or 半滿都係自己點睇ga 者.



    set 一個short term goal, 例如, 計劃半年後搬出去...or keep 住揾工轉, etc.... 為自己set 個goal 向前.



  • CS_She 妳好掂呀^^



  • 吓...我好驚啲咁惡嘅眼神喎....你會唔會食鬼咗我架...好驚....



  • 你依家先知CS_She掂呀???佢同C叔兩個一齊就好好玩好風趣架...

    呢幾日都唔見佢兩個,即刻少咗好多娛樂...



  • gal...

    it is not a big deal..

    My dear aunt died a week ago..she loves me & l love her so much...l looked she died in the hospital.



    l have my business but now..nearly close..

    & l need to pay to bank & staffs.l am sure,it is negative balance after paying.



    & my girlfriend left me,she had been with me for few years already but she doesn't want to support me.



    & my Uni professor (he is my best fd & he taught me much)..he gets cancer in last stage.l can't do nothing.



    & l am not a young guy anymore.l think u are not same age as me..but l don't think it is the worst...as l still alive.

    gal,NEVER GIVE UP~!!



  • skysky...

    U will be find...don't dont give up yourself!!!

    We have all experienced days when everything goes wrong,but I believe we will be good as soon as.We should not lose self-confidence.

    Be strong!!!



  • l will be fine..but not find ..

    self-confidence..l lost it for long long time.

    although l am not young,l'm still strong.



  • anyway,thanks,gal.

    just one thing in my mind:Never give up.



  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-08 1:35 am



    吓...我好驚啲咁惡嘅眼神喎....你會唔會食鬼咗我架...好驚....

    ==================================

    妳边有甘細胆吖.......吱喳妹....haha







  • Just4U replied @ 2009-01-08 1:58 am



    skysky...

    U will be find...don't dont give up yourself!!!

    We have all experienced days when everything goes wrong,but I believe we will be good as soon as.We should not lose self-confidence.

    Be strong!!!



    咦........有料黎wo....



    妳讀U架.....



    我F.1都未讀完吖......真失禮....



  • 唉...想扮純情啲都俾你睇串,真係做人有咩意思呀????



  • 唔係架...係有個美國friend寫黎鼓勵我架,所以借用黎鼓勵人攞!!!

    我啲文法邊有咁叻呀!!!我寫頭尾咋...

    第啲嘢就認屎認屁啫,呢啲無得認架...咁當然明白句嘢講咩先post上黎啦...我以為skysky唔識中文呀嗎...



  • 啱啱第條thread俾人串我唔識英文黎,咁我埋post英文上去攞...哈哈

    咁埋識英文攞...識抄呀嗎...hehe



  • l am 100% Chinese.

    l can read & speak Chinese.

    我識中文,gal.


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