Breaking up => become friends or never see again
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If a pair of lovers break up
Should they choose to be friends
or should they choose never to see each other again
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Feels easier initially for the girls if choose to become friends
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When should a woman break up with her bf ?
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You do not need to pre-set how the relationship remain. Your heart will lead you in the right direction.
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I actually dont know how much I love my bf now
and
I don't know how much he loves me
I just feel that he does not 'needs' me , like hug, kiss or ML
But when I said 'break up' , he just avoid it and said 'take a good sleep, you will feel better tmr'
what does he want ?
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I think when the so call "love" feeling is gone or you do not feel comfornatable with him being around all the time is the moment that you should terminate this relationship
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I do not know what he wants, I think the more important issue is what you want. Try to figure out what you need is better off.
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It is not that I 'do not feel comfornatable with him being around all the time'
I wish to be with him, hug him and kiss him and i wish he demanded to ML with me
but these just didn't happened
and then
I found out that he often chat with other girls in MSN but not phone me up and chat with me
I am confused
as he didn't 'needs' me anymore
why he didn't break up with me
is that coz he is so used to me , to didn't want to loose me, like a family member
I actually felt broken hearted after the MSN thing, and so other suspected but not confirmed thing, .. I don't know
why he didnt just leave me and go for other girls ?
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I don't know what i want neither
Sometimes i hate him so much
sometimes I felt so desparate when I can't reach him by phone or when I felt I loose him
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I alway wish someone could tell me when I should terminate a relationship
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It take two to tango. All I can tell from your words is he is not the one you want.
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you already said you need a boy friend that can provide tender loving care at all times. i think you are still quite young to understand that all love feeling eventually transform. Noone can tell you when and what to do in any relationship. Donot waste your time trying to figure out what he want, just focus on what make you happier.
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may be you are right
... we've been together for 3 years already ..
may be we've both tried ...
i always wish he could hold my hand to the clinics when we get old ...
every time when i think about that
my tears drop
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May I ask: how old are you?
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may be the truth have deviated so much .. i just dont realized ..
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28
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I felt that my heart has dried up
I wont be able to love someone else
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I really think you are old enough to understand and know all those things i said, but sometime it just so easy to lose your focus when you are the player in the game.
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Dont worry, your heart is dried up only with him. You will find another lover soon.
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He is my first love
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However, you just have to wake up and understand the true " Love Story" is only created by Erich Segal. In fact, in our everday life: people change.
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He is your first love! Well too bad he is not your Oliver barrett III. keep in mind you are not Jenny either.
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Fisrt love is nothing important at all. All you should look for is a health and lasting love.
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may be i am just not 'the one'
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Stay away from each others life, block & delete all IM contacts. Clear the facebook and blog. Empty the photobucket files you share with her...
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Mina: i might not able to chat with you for too much longer as my notebaook is getting low in power. I am chatting with you in the living room (watching TV at the same time). if you do not see my reply, it is because I am out of power
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Mina, are you too emotional just because he did not go out with you on X'mas eve?
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Creamy:
Thank you
You fell like one of my friend
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I am you friend. A new friend met on X'mas eve 2008
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No
we just had a 'fight' a week ago, i even talked about ' break up', whick I never said before in the past 3 years
and
I need to work tonight, so we didn't went out
i felt so bad early this evening
but after I had a silly chat with him, i felt better
but sometimes when I look back, i am confused
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creamy:
may i ask , you have a lovely family ?
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Since you mention the word " friend " I pull out my power cord to charge the computer to stay chat with you. haha
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well I am single and I am still very happy with my present situation
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may i also ask
are you > or < than 28 ?
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you are a witty person
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So lucky that you can chat here along with you work. may I know in what line of duty you are in that can enjoy such fun and get pay.haha
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Ofcourse I am a much older person on age (not in look or spirit) I am not a witty person. Those are very simple truth, you are only confused because you are not a side watcher
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It's a kind of public service
only needed when something bad happened
X'mas eve is a dangerous time
and i m trying to finish some work left from the day time, so i am still in the office, will probably done in 30 mins
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May i suggest that if you still want to chat we should go somewhere else than in this public( not that we are chating anything secret)
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ya
any suggestion
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I was here just to check out how many people cry about lonelyness on X'mas eve with no intention to chat. I just do not enjoy that I need to refresh the page all the times
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up to you: ym, msm( new to me, just install), gmail,phone?
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but you are getting off soon, may be we can just stay here
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you can add my msn:
sonnet(1989-1)@hotmail.com
please omit the bracket and do the calculation : P
thanks
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if u still love him...better never see him again cos he dont love u anymore la...why to see him le
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'he dont love u anymore la'
you are so sure ..
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Mina:I am new to msm and I cannot add [email protected], I dont know why?
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My msm is also [email protected] can you try to add me?
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let me try
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i add your name but it show u are off line