同男友突然嘈交, 你地覺得點?
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琴晚, 突然同男友嘈交, 佢send sms 話比我知佢份工唔係可以成日好快咁reply到我sms (我都知佢返工, 冇要求即時回), 重話佢好重視份工, 好啦, 到11點幾, 佢send sms比我, 話佢攰, 想早點訓, 唔打比我了, 但我都同佢講想傾一陣.<br /><br />到佢放工打比我, 語氣好冷淡, 佢好燥, 嘈左幾句, 收線後sms, 到點幾, 佢話我咁大個人唔識諗, 唔識分輕重, 原本我同佢話不如今日食lunch, 佢話要返parttime, 所以冇陪我, 今早我突然心血來朝打去佢屋企, 佢聽電話, 我心都碎埋, 佢又呃我, 我sms佢唔覆, 電話唔聽, 最後都有聽喇, 佢又發脾氣, 講多幾句就cut我線, 仲要之後到而家都搵唔到佢...<br /><br />大家覺得, 佢想分手嗎?
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妳首先要查吓佢有冇第三者, 或妳是第三者.
<br>佢以往有冇試過呃妳,
<br>佢是否真是工作好煩和好攰.
<br>妳了解完再, 決定
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八雲:
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<br>我同佢一齊半年, 沒有第三者.
<br>他曾呃過我一次, 明明不用返工, 但和我說要返工, 最後是和朋友去踏單車.
<br>他的工作常常要企, 都幾攰, 面對不同的客人.
<br>但最近對我, 我暴燥了許多.
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我覺得佢心理唔係太正常, 照你咁講
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<br>你有被虐狂既咪繼續同佢一齊啦
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其實我也覺得他有點控制不到自己的情緒, 但又未到虐待狂
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搵定第個啦, 完全唔可以接受, 佢應該唔係讀太多書吧
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佢真係唔係讀太多書. 但你覺得佢想分手嗎?
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ladymarmalade
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<br>你呢幅係咪男插男? 好核突
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佢做邊行架, 係咪真係太忙所以心情唔好？
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你太睇低你自己, 當你你大個左,有智慧,有自信,多左女人味,識得打扮, 你就會覺得同呢d垃圾一齊係侮辱你自己
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<br>而家放唔低係好正常, 但睇野要睇遠d
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<br>你咁care佢想唔想分手做乜啫, 問題所在佢係一件未受過教育既垃圾呀
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核突?名畫黎架, 歷史同藝術唔駛送檢架
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ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 5:48 pm
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<br>搵定第個啦, 完全唔可以接受, 佢應該唔係讀太多書吧
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<br>同讀幾多書有咩關係呢? 咁你整張咁既相出黎又讀幾多書呢? 你從事藝術的嗎?
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原來唔止我一個話你核突
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ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 5:55 pm
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<br>你太睇低你自己, 當你你大個左,有智慧,有自信,多左女人味,識得打扮, 你就會覺得同呢d垃圾一齊係侮辱你自己
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<br>而家放唔低係好正常, 但睇野要睇遠d
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<br>你咁care佢想唔想分手做乜啫, 問題所在佢係一件未受過教育既垃圾呀
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<br>我都覺得重點不在佢想唔想, 是妳想唔想囉
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有得選當然選個學歷高d, 雖然讀得書多都可以係一個賤人
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我唔想分手, 我好愛佢, 我26歲, 不是小朋友了,
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如果妳同妳男友相處唔開心, 妳用盡方法後都不能令妳自己覺得開心, 咁咪分手囉. 做人要開心, 拍拖都是要開心, 何必要自己令自己唔開心.
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根本佢就唔想對住你, 覺得你煩過西....
<br>分手啦, 佢已經唔鐘意你
<br>鐘意一個人, 表現唔係咁
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讀幾多書,都有權利去愛人, 他做 Customer Service, 所以好忙
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佢有冇試過兜巴星你呀?
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ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:01 pm
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<br>有得選當然選個學歷高d, 雖然讀得書多都可以係一個賤人
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<br>同意, 所以名畫亦唔一定代表有品味
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cc, 我諗佢真係覺得我煩.
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<br>八雲, 我地常吵架, 但過往一個月, 我們真心相待, 果一個月入面真係冇嘈過交, 仲好sweet.
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casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:01 pm
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<br>我唔想分手, 我好愛佢, 我26歲, 不是小朋友了,
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<br>妳肉體就不是小朋友, 但思想就唔知.
<br>我會覺得如果妳真是好愛佢, 妳就會包容佢的缺點, 由內心發出來的, 不會介意他所做的不是, 如果妳介意, 又令妳唔開心, 我不覺妳是好愛佢囉.
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佢唔會打我.
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岩呀, 好多名畫變左黎保值同炒
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容忍已超愈限度, 你得閒下張小閑既再見野鼬鼠啦, 你應該有共鳴
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八雲, 我只是想他不要太大男人, 太暴燥, 其他, 我一直在忍受, 我很愛他,
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可能工作心情唔好呢
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你首先要建立自信
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yyn, 我也想這樣, 我也想自己想多了. 謝謝你.
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casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:08 pm
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<br>八雲, 我只是想他不要太大男人, 太暴燥, 其他, 我一直在忍受, 我很愛他,
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<br>通常, 都不要諗妳可以改變一個人, 江山易改, 本性難移, 妳接受就一齊, 唔接受, 就要考慮走.
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連去踏單車都要呃你, 同佢溝通都好辛苦
<br>呢度大把好男仔, 至少八雲一定好過佢
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我接受的, 我很遷就他, 也過份地擔心 / 關心他.
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可能你右腦太強, 有時都要用下左腦平衡返
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highlighted two alleged facts here..
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<br>到11點幾, 佢send sms比我, 話佢攰, 想早點訓, 唔打比我了...
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<br>11pm ? how late does he normally sleep when u guys are sweet together ?
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<br>could you use to call him when times are good ?
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<br>understood work is not easy these days.. but not too difficult to call or text for a few mins ?
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<br>tell him that in relationship, can share good and BAD.. maybe he had a bad day or tough time from boss or bad time with parents.... can still share with you..
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<br>今早我突然心血來朝打去佢屋企, 佢聽電話, 我心都碎埋, 佢又呃我...
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<br>what did he lie to you about ?
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<br>if you guys want to continue.. need to find time together to communicate your position..
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<br>if there is love.. then should really come out, talk about how to compromise.. how u can make him feel better..
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<br>if this nothing to talk about attitude persist, and you cannot reach him.. then he may have someone else in mind..
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<br>you are 26, even if you are 36, still lots of time..
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<br>best wishes..
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男人有時做野做得辛苦或者唔如意
<br>可能會暴燥D
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<br>呢D時候最好俾佢一個人靜下,唔好send sms或者 call佢,如果唔係佢會覺得你好煩
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<br>佢個人心情平復左自然會搵你
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ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:12 pm
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<br>連去踏單車都要呃你, 同佢溝通都好辛苦
<br>呢度大把好男仔, 至少八雲一定好過�
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<br>謝謝, 我已經有女友, 妳也很好, 幾博學
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八雲 replied @ 2008-12-13 6:15 pm
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<br>ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:12 pm
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<br>連去踏單車都要呃你, 同佢溝通都好辛苦
<br>呢度大把好男仔, 至少八雲一定好過?
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<br>謝謝, 我已經有女友, 妳也很好, 幾博學
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<br>嘩!! 你地係咪做"枚"��, wakakakaka,講笑者,無惡意
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我也知道該讓他靜一下, 但平日吵架, 他也會reply 我sms的.
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好似我亞哥同亞嫂咁, 我亞哥勁蝦我亞嫂 (細節唔講)
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<br>蝦左十幾年, 我亞嫂人格已經俾佢蝦到唔係一個正常人咁(完全冇自尊, 叫佢坐唔敢企), 最後我亞哥蝦佢蝦到覺得冇得再蝦 (一個人俾你精神虐待到變左精神有問題, 仲可以同佢玩到d乜), 咪返大陸蝦其他女人囉, 最後離婚收場一毫子謄養費都冇俾到, 一個三十幾歲女人得中三學歷拖住個女周圍寄人籬下
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<br>脾氣只會愈黎愈大, 佢只會對你愈黎愈差
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casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:20 pm
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<br>我也知道該讓他靜一下, 但平日吵架, 他也會reply 我sms的.
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<br>佢應該好大壓力
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有壓力可以同女朋友share嘛, 但不是不理女友
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但平日吵架, 他也會reply 我sms的..
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<br>yes.. he has pressure.. but not sure from what.. and for what reason why he switch off mob.. and was he at work when he switch off mob..
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ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:20 pm
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<br>好似我亞哥同亞嫂咁, 我亞哥勁蝦我亞嫂 (細節唔講)
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<br>蝦左十幾年, 我亞嫂人格已經俾佢蝦到唔係一個正常人咁(完全冇自尊, 叫佢坐唔敢企), 最後我亞哥蝦佢蝦到覺得冇得再蝦 (一個人俾你精神虐待到變左精神有問題, 仲可以同佢玩到d乜), 咪返大陸蝦其他女人囉, 最後離婚收場一毫子謄養費都冇俾到, 一個三十幾歲女人得中三學歷拖住個女周圍寄人籬下
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<br>脾氣只會愈黎愈大, 佢只會對你愈黎愈差
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<br>個女人前世做錯d咩
<br>個女人而家点吖
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casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:24 pm
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<br>有壓力可以同女朋友share嘛, 但不是不理女友
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<br>有時男人唔想將自己工作上�黈z點,暴露係GF面前
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i feel so ashamed of having such sibling
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<br>share with u later guys , got to take exam at 7pm now , see ya
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有時男人唔想將自己工作上鮋弱點,暴露係GF面前
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<br>is all speculation..
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<br>please arrange a nice meeting with to find out as soon as possible.. like tonight..
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<br>then u can clear your mind..
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係呀, 好多男人都係收埋收埋, 你一管佢就發出黎架啦~
<br>雖然好似好無品, 但有時都係個人性格黎的
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佢唔會收埋的, 咩都暴出黎.
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核突?名畫黎架, 歷史同藝術唔駛送檢架
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<br>你呢d係性交圖片喎, 乜可以光明正大咁展示既咩? 等我8pm考完試番黎, 摷下d春宮圖比大家