4. 繼續下去嗎？

繼續下去嗎？

  • V

    鍾意熟男，識左個大我十年既男友到目前一齊左兩個月，係有時會有小嗌交，但感情算穩定
    我係香港人，佢係台灣人，而家身在台灣讀書，
    佢真係對我好好，但其實我又有矛盾，
    之前係香港有個大我七年既，同佢一齊兩年幾，佢好大男人，
    同呢個唔同，而家呢個雖然會好尊重我，但偏偏人係犯賤..

    但我已經放低左之前果個，只係想知道應唔應該繼續尋找我既 Mr. Right ？
    始終我仲細 .. 但..真係好鍾意佢（雖然細個，但唔係時下小妹妹所謂既「好鍾意」）
    我真係明白 .. 但應該點算？
    我怕我廿八歲果陣會同佢成日因為年齡，大家見既野唔同左而爭執
    年齡差太遠真係好多野都會出現問題，佢家人唔介意，
    但我媽咪應該唔會比我嫁黎台灣加上佢大我十年...我會堅持..
    我地有提過將來計劃結婚，雖然以我而家年紀實在係遙不可及 .. 

    點算好？求高人比下意見＞＜

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  • B

    hk girls, like most here, look for older age like 35 to 45..

    they look for tall, rich handsome.. etc



    in fact, if u check out the real world.. most ppl have affairs and second or third wives, secret lovers belong to this bracket.



    but yes, hk girls, they don't mind, as long as he loves me..



    but what constitute love ? give u flowers, spoil you on holiday shopping.. is that love ? or just good company..



    anyways.. when u look for a person, don't judge by the cover..

    know the person bit longer..



    otherwise, u look like ppl like that uni lecturer who yes, found a guy, good looking, 5 '10 but infact a convicted criminal and a liar..



    best wishes

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  • D

    大十年都唔係好過份



    可以接受



    同埋而家既人外表都keep得幾好

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  • P

    vicky,



    how old are u?



    actually what are u looking for in this relationship?

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  • V

    你誤會我啦＠＠佢冇做野已經有差唔多半年，

    佢之前開鋪頭賣鞋，佢話等一月等市道好左先搵野做，

    其實同佢一齊，佢都有搵野做，但因為讀書唔多，

    搵既都係比較低下工作，佢唔滿意於此

    情人眼裡出西施，佢係我心目中，外表當然好好，

    佢會浪漫，但唔係用金錢堆砌出黎既，我亦唔喜歡呢一套

    邊個話女仔一定貪錢貪靚仔貪高職位？

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  • V

    densir ,,

    講真我真係唔介意外表，佢對我好已經足夠，

    擔心既係屋企人既反對同埋將來係咪真係可以終老呢..

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  • B

    how old are you?

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  • V

    pandee ,,

    小妹今年十八，講出黎或者真係太遠，

    但我真係有仔細諗過同佢一世

    加上我唔係個貪玩既人

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  • B

    哦~~~ 十八~~



    過多幾年先再講呢個問題喇.

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  • P

    agree with bowie,



    你而家先18, 又未出黎做事, 見多D事, 接觸多D人先諗 lee d 都台聵

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  • D

    咁你咪照樣拍下拖先，樣樣諗到咁完美先去做，呢個世界邊有冇咁好彩



    有時候，我地就係要碰下釘，失敗下，個人先會成長，但回頭望番，會係人生既一個磨練



    都係果句，十年都係可以接受既差佢，我個人認為。







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  • P

    你而家先18, 又未出黎做事, 見多D事, 接觸多D人先諗 lee d 都台聵

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  • V

    bowie & pandee ,,

    其實我都有咁諗過既，但問題係 Keep Going？



    Densir ,,

    十八同廿八好似冇問題，

    但廿八同三十八 .. 真係另一個層次啦喎..



    好啦咁，聽你地意見，繼續 !

    到出現問題先再諗啦可 .. ？

    希望冇問題啦＠＠

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  • B

    其實我覺得你依家根本唔需要諗得咁長遠先0羅.



    一來你仲細, 你有好多野都未見識過, 就已經諗住同呢個人一生一世, 唔係話你想法唔好, 而係我怕你到最後未未可以如願以償.

    二來, 喂, 你拍拖就已經咁煩, 其實我都唔知你煩乜. 好好地享受下仲好啦.

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  • P

    我諗你結婚都唔會係lee 兩年內的事, 會唔會諗得太多....?



    28 同38... 唔好話我口臭.... 你同佢拍唔拍得到你28都唔知啦...

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  • V

    bowie ,,

    我都唔想諗咁多,但本身性格成日都過份地未雨綢繆

    我知道諗太遠都係得個煩字 因為將來真係肯定唔到

    佢都同我講過 但我控制唔到又走去諗諗諗 好煩!



    pandee,,

    其實我知我咁問法會比人鬧

    不過都想比人鬧醒下 因為真係好煩

    連我自己都覺得煩 好有問題

    我真係有信心 .. 希望信心大得過現實吧

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