好快就37歲,尋尋覓覓都仲係一個人
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<p>雖然身邊仲有好多姊妹都係一樣,但當一個人靜落黎,都會諗下係咪自己會孤單一世呢?<br /><br />早幾日同公司既男同事傾偈,問佢地如果揀女朋友,<br />會揀個跟自己age差唔多,還是........<br />佢諗都唔洗諗,就話有得揀梗係揀個後生d、廿零歲架啦...<br /><br />so....我有時覺得自己就算keep得幾唔似實際age都好,<br />當對方知你已經咁大age都仲係單身,都會覺得你係有問題...@@<br /></p>
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如果妳唔諗,就唔會係問題
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<br>另妳現在都37歲,都過左37年人,好多野唔應該現在先問,而係接受現實
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好有同感 同我�黿〞p一樣
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我已30歲 ���琱S分手 可能要孤單一世
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答案,
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<br>我都知要接受現實,只係有點唏噓o者...
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<br>一直以黎我既感情生活都未算話空白既,
<br>只係都遇唔到自己既 Mr. Right,
<br>我都知身邊既人無俾過壓力我,
<br>即使佢地成日都話唔明點解我仲未搵到真命天子,
<br>但我知佢地其實心入面都替我著急
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question,咁你自己急唔急?
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小�S ,
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<br>30歲其實仲好後生,唔洗太擔心!^^
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所以女人有時無可奈何,我覺得都要搵細過佢既男人
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batman,
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<br>我諗唔係因為急呢樣野而覺得唔開心又或者唏噓既,
<br>始終我都明白急也急不來,一陣揀左個唔岩咪仲衰,
<br>只係無可否認,覺得age大左好似手頭上既籌碼愈黎愈少咁,
<br>同埋有少少擔心人地覺得自己老囉!
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question:
<br>明白
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allan,
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<br>我以前個ex都係細我4年,不過我地分手又唔係因為age既原因既
<br>我亦都預左會搵一個細過自己既人,只係...你唔介意人地細o者,
<br>或者人地覺得你姐姐好大喎!哈哈....
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<br>我有d朋友講左仲"腰",佢話你都係預左搵d離左婚既男人啦!
<br>我又唔係介意男人離過婚,有邊個人無過去?
<br>不過聽到o個下覺得........唉!唔識講....
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30唔後生ga la 個個朋友結哂婚有仔女 一係就有男友就快結個隻
<br>今年要做好多次姊妹伴娘啊 你明個種感受嗎
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question,
<br>其實一切都在於你自己嘅心態問題!!!
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小�S ,
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<br>我當然明白你o個種感受啦,有邊個女人唔想有人錫有人care?
<br>但坦白講,緣份既野有時好講命水,唔好同身邊d姊妹比較太多,
<br>否則只會製造壓力俾自己!有姊妹伴娘時不妨留意下身邊有無好男仔啦!
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<br>真架,30歲唔係一個咩野關口,唔好因為急而上錯車
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其實有好多野都好概歎架
就算比你搵到, 又要擔憂生活,,,除非你搵到個有d 錢啦~
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muchacha,
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<br>我都明白!其實我都唔係成日撩起呢d問題黎諗既,
<br>只係最近我知道一位我心儀既男士原來已經有女朋友,
<br>又幻滅左一個希望....唉!有d moody o者!
<br>同埋好似對愛情已經無咩信心,亦都唔敢諗會有人鍾意自己
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就算自己唔急 睇住自己身邊好姊妹一個個嫁出 身邊人仲擔憂過你
<br>加上身邊三姑六婆同事唔熟朋友不停咁問你 真係好難受
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rosie,
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<br>所以我身邊有d姊妹直頭唔想去諗拍拖結婚呢樣野,
<br>佢地既心態就係...遇到一個岩feel既男人,
<br>就當有個伴係身邊,唔好捉得太緊去想得太遠、太快去講將來,
<br>有無將來唔到自己一個人去諗,到你同個男人拍得咁上下,
<br>你自然會知道呢個男人有無誠意去同你講將來
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if you are a 30 years old guy, would u mind to marry a 35+ 中女 who look like 30 only
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小�S ,
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<br>咁你係咪擺出黎既姿態係等人追你?
<br>其實就算有人追你,你都有權去揀架喎,
<br>唔好攪到自己好似等人接收咁啦,咁咪仲唔開心.
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<br>我自己...我諗無人會覺得我似36,
<br>因為我有少少心態係唔認老 XDDDD
<br>但係咁我都唔會覺得再唔嫁就係好有問題,
<br>只係有時覺得好似少左樣野...咁o者!
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但有時離過婚,無仔女好d,有仲煩........咁妳都算接受能力高,好多女人覺得自己唔錯....細過自己就唔揀....但日子一日復一日
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I am 29 years old but I would like to meet a gf elder than me, 我係咪算少數?
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屋企人成日覺得係我有問題 同佢地講係個男人要走 又話我捉唔住�
<br>我其實已用最大努力啦 搞到自己好大壓力啊
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做人其實真係好痛苦架~~
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allan,
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<br>離過婚唔係問題,有仔女都未必係一個大問題,
<br>只係自己又係咪ready做人地step mother,
<br>個小朋友又接唔接受到自己呢?呢個問題未必係2個大人都承受到既問題囉
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<br>細過自己我又真係無咩所謂,不過當然唔好太離譜,
<br>同埋2個人個mind係接近d,溝通到啦...
<br>但男人又真係唔介意自己既女朋友大過自己咩?
<br>係咪好似我d男同事話齋,有得揀點解唔揀個後生d?
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nice guy, what make u wanna have a gf older than u?
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小�S ,
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<br>個男人你留不住,即係証明呢個男人唔係屬於你,
<br>強求得到又如何?
<br>你屋企人係咪思想比較傳統既人?係既話你就陰公d,
<br>唔怪得你會咁大壓力!
<br>不過幸福係屬於自己架,唔係人地講2句你既幸福就會多d少d囉!
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中女,
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<br>咁你有無遇過d細個你既男仔追你?你接受到嗎?
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<br>其實如果男仔去到30而立,有stable gf真係好正常,
<br>結埋婚既亦都唔少,如果真係遇到個岩眼緣又single & available既,
<br>就不妨嘗試下啦!
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我反而唔介意wor,我32,覺得女人越成熟越好
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question replied @ 2008-08-16 12:11 pm
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<br>小�S ,
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<br>咁你係咪擺出黎既姿態係等人追你? <-唔係ga我鐘意�鴾H我都會主動ga
<br>其實就算有人追你,你都有權去揀架喎,
<br>唔好攪到自己好似等人接收咁啦,咁咪仲唔開心.
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<br>聽你講 你個樣應該會幾babyface個d, 我有女仔fd36之前幾次拍長拖都無結果
<br>到遇到而家老公 拍6個月就結�鰼B啦 而家仲有埋bb tim
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yes I did, however, lots of worries! As u know, guys are different from gals, 40 yrs old guy can still attract a 20 yrs old gal. When I reach 50, my guy only 40, hope u know what i am talk ing about
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我既觀點~~
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<br>當去如果妳37, 男30+1 or 2都唔大問題架~~
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<br>但如果 27 同一個 20+1 or 2 就好大問題啦~~
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中女
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<br>就要睇你同男人既經歷啦~~
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又時.....又唔驚得太多了....如果50歲而仲睇落係正,有二十幾歲既男人追都唔出奇
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我覺得她們成熟和比較易相處, 感覺比後生女好好多
<br>can u add my msn for further chat?
<br>[email protected]
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你個同事既諗法...
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<br>唔代表其他男仕都系咁....
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<br>唔好放棄AH
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小�S ,
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<br>我都算係babyface既,呢樣野我要多謝我父母 XDDDDD
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<br>拍6個月就結婚.....嗯.....我就覺得有d冒險囉
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我既觀點~~
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<br>當去如果妳37, 男30+1 or 2都唔大問題架~~
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<br>但如果 27 同一個 20+1 or 2 就好大問題啦~~
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<br>by rosie - 08/16/08 12:29
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<br>你又講得岩喎 ^^
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Redevil7,
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<br>多謝你既鼓勵!
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<br>不過我都覺得市場上over 30仲係single & available既男仔好似買少見少.
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yes that's true, but i am not a young gal anymore, will only go out with a guy with future, no interest for causal date at all, those 20+ guys may dating with u just for fun only
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question replied @ 2008-08-16 12:34 pm
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<br>小�S ,
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<br>我都算係babyface既,呢樣野我要多謝我父母 XDDDDD
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<br>拍6個月就結婚.....嗯.....我就覺得有d冒險囉
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<br>咁你個心境都要KEEP住YOUNG 喎
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<br>我同意妳既講法...六個月太快...
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叫我 VINCENT 可以 LA
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<br>冇辦法...女多男少....
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question , 其實 你的要求係乜?
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<br>老實講, 你仍獨身, 骨子裡, 你自己都知道一定有某些問題. 只是你未有各外人透露.
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<br>你向任何年齡的男人(20-60)選揀女朋友的條件, 他們都說廿零歲架喇...
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<br>你下次問, 應該是老婆的條件, 可能會有另一種答案.
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中女:
<br>Can you add me for further chat?
<br>[email protected]
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中女,
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<br>我又唔會limit左自己只跟有發展空間既男士hang out,有時識多d朋友真係無壞,或者個男仔身邊有d更合適既男仔介紹你識呢
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winson replied @ 2008-08-16 12:38 pm
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<br>question , 其實 你的要求係乜?
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<br>老實講, 你仍獨身, 骨子裡, 你自己都知道一定有某些問題. 只是你未有各外人透露.
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<br>你向任何年齡的男人(20-60)選揀女朋友的條件, 他們都說廿零歲架喇...
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<br>你下次問, 應該是老婆的條件, 可能會有另一種答案.
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<br>版主唔係搵男人, 只係嘆息一下咁o者~~
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咁你個心境都要KEEP住YOUNG 喎
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<br>我同意妳既講法...六個月太快...
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<br>by Redevil7 - 08/16/08 12:36
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<br>咁我心境都會keep住令自己開心既!
<br>只係間中好似今日咁發發地癲囉
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Redevil7 replied @ 2008-08-16 12:36 pm
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<br>我同意妳既講法...六個月太快...
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<br>我又覺得如果大家都想, 就無問題架~
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winson,
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<br>其實你問我有乜要求,
<br>我覺得最基本都要有眼緣囉,
<br>同埋識落真係要人品好同相處得到啦...
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<br>之旦係,d人一聽到你咁講,
<br>就會話.."又要人品好,又要over30,一早俾人mark左啦!"
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question replied @ 2008-08-16 12:39 pm
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<br>中女,
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<br>我又唔會limit左自己只跟有發展空間既男士hang out,有時識多d朋友真係無壞,或者個男仔身邊有d更合適既男仔介紹你識呢
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<br>呢個想法好正確...
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