好愛好愛又如何...睇到冇將來又唔捨得放,..只換來更多眼淚..

有冇人有嘢share 吓??

如果係d比較理智既女性,應該會搵過第二個la wor.

Hi K man,
 我好重感情, 但知要理智,只不過要放手,真係好傷心.
 Just went in that 飲酒 thread 見到你,有D想happy hour tim..

i break out with him one week ago, i dont know what happen even now, we still hv lunch and talked over the phone but at night time he suddendly sent me one sms said cant call me anymore, i hurt so much too. i know he got a fd early and he knew me too, but we just fall in hot love special these two mths, so i really understand what ur feeling

離離合合太平常，緣起緣滅夢一場
 昨日承諾今變樣，展望將來當自強

cc,
 ?? but why can't you 2 be together?
 
 男同學
 '離離合合太平常，緣起緣滅夢一場
 昨日承諾今變樣，展望將來當自強'
 
 這個是目標同態度...啱嘅, but not easy lor.

好愛好愛又如何...睇到冇將來又唔捨得放,..只換來更多眼淚..
 
 
 放手又係眼淚 keep住又係眼�
 放手可以復原 keep住不能復原
 
 明顯都見到係有分別, 祝你早日康復 ^^

我曾經同個TB一齊~好開心~好甜蜜~以前拍拖無既感覺佢全部俾到我~
 細心關懷呵護備至~
 咁又點~無將來~好愛又點~? 話過一生一世咪又係分手~
 佢番轉頭~結果又係分手~
 為佢等左半年~可以話最愛果個係佢~傷我最深既都係佢~
 佢最終都係有第三者...
 大個女喇~終於識清醒~ 我知道自己始終有日會嫁人~
 結果...咪又係要放手... 唔捨得~又可以點~?
 "無將來"... 第一次分手~因為佢講呢三個字~
 今次, 連我自己都睇得清楚呢三個字...
 
 "將來"...呢兩個字...真係害死人... 嘿

將來係重要，但現在更重要
 活在當下，珍惜生存時既每一個 moment

我都唔細, 所以絕對唔係天真同傻! 我而家一齊嗰個男仔係因屋企問題所以唔可能有將來,大家都知..只不過大家都好鐘意,好難分,之前分左一次,但自自然又一齊噃...好無奈.

我而家一齊嗰個男仔係因屋企問題所以唔可能有將來,大家都知..只不過大家都好鐘意,好難分,之前分左一次,但自自然又一齊噃...好無奈.
 
 by 愛人 - 04/29/08 14:32
 
 
 唔係又係第三者呀?

男同學,
 我覺得女仔係要think 多Ｄ將來囉

愛人 replied @ 2008-04-29 2:35 pm
 
 男同學,
 我覺得女仔係要think 多Ｄ將來囉
 
 
 
 ^~~~~同意, 女仔青春有限...

男同學 replied @ 2008-04-29 2:27 pm
 
 將來係重要，但現在更重要
 活在當下，珍惜生存時既每一個 moment
 
 
 ^~~~~開心既回憶, 有過就夠喇~

都岩架！始終生活多左好多野要考慮
 愛情唔係大曬

bowie728728,
 唔係第三者...係..大家嘅屋企background 太大分別,如果我同這個人結婚, 我怕我屋企人會暈左! haha

乜依家都仲有0的咁"文塞"0既屋企人架咩?
 
 如果你唔係咩野富家弟子的話, 都應該好少會有呢種情況架喎~

咁果份"愛"都未大到可以排除萬難~

愛人,
 婚姻係兩個人既事...其實屋企background... 我覺得, 除非你屋企好保守啦~
 如果唔係都唔算一個好大問題~
 仲有一個情況係~一係你好有錢~佢好窮~ 一係你好窮~佢好有錢~

18, 22 咪戀愛大過天囉..大大吓, 另一個stage, 好難咩都唔think.

其實, 依家0的呀爸呀媽通常都好開通架喇~
 
 佢地多數都本住一個心態: 只要個仔 / 女鐘意, 個仔 / 女開心, 咁就得架喇.

18, 22 咪戀愛大過天囉..大大吓, 另一個stage, 好難咩都唔think.
 
 by 愛人 - 04/29/08 14:44
 
 唔太同意, 最主要睇下你諗咩0者.
 
 不如你講下0既家庭背景黎聽下先啦.

芷,
 婚姻係兩個人既事...但屋企人好錫我,佢地會好擔心我嘅事, 當然始終係我choose,我嘅life, 不過佢地講的,都係有道理,2 個人background 太大分別, 將來可能好多問題.

愛人,
 其實, 係你地有無信心, 用你地既愛去化解你所謂既"背景問題"...

講左咁耐, 都唔知你地0既背景有咩問題.

當你/妳與別人有了經歷，其他的人很難再給予你/妳安全感呢

bowie,
 我唔係話完全因為屋企, 我自已都覺好多問題同壓力.
 My family bkground 好有規舉, 自己都叫做讀胞書,自細唔擾柴擾米, 富家弟子就唔係啦, 但佢係完全相反

0者係佢學識無你咁廣, 而且佢唔係小康之家?

我唔係嗰Ｄ傻傻地温室�堛漱p花!! 但確實算係温室長大, 反而佢就乜都經歷過那種...有時大家思想目標好唔同,不過因為鐘意,永遠唔同都好專重大家

你自己都無信心令自己幸福起黎, 無怪你家人會擔心...
 
 當然, 背景不同真係會有好大問題, 呢個係要你兩個克服, 唔得, 唯有分開, 因為路不同!

bowie
 小康之家都無...不過一家都好nice ga!

@@
 可能係我自己都無信心....
 佢會成日飲醉灑話多嘢唸(工作上),唔開心,我唔明,有一次佢話 "你唔會明,因為你捱過"

咁, 版主你自己諗你自己喇~~ 幸福要自己去掌握.

typing error 係"未捱過" 先啱

太難啦....理智Ｄ囉, 好似睇戲嗰Ｄ男女主角咁..

我都係亞媽反對下嫁個學歷經歷都唔及我既人(我無睇低過佢), 我亞媽反對到好照顧佢. 有時仲會一個人買杯嘢飲拎去佢做嘢既地方俾佢探班
 到頭黎, 呢個人話同我唔可以一齊生活. 離婚. 我知我媽好傷心, 但佢見我重新生活, 都好好好支持我.
 
 所以我話你哋, 唔夠愛去排除萬難. 但亦要小心真實情況... bless you!

If u still love him/her but cannot go further, will it just keep the relation as friends? Will that be feeling much better?

版主我都係同個bf冇將來。
 因為我家人接受唔到佢。
 咁我最多咪唔結婚囉。唔鬼理佢地囉

其實我唔係話好睇低佢,其中愛佢嘅原因都因為佢個人好勤力,小聰明...係欠耐性,多小小文職嘅事,就好似叫佢去死咁. 要生活安定佢一定得, 只係我同佢嘅指標 not the same. 佢買到樓就開心, 但我要某個價位嘅樓因我覺得我有機會向事業上做多Ｄ成績....we think so different

愛人,
 
 相同遭遇, 同路人.....
 佢可以好堅強, 我實在太脆弱

經過,
 '咁我最多咪唔結婚囉。唔鬼理佢地囉'
 我有唸過呀! haha,但this bf 可能唔想,he like to 結婚.
 
 其實我屋企擔心人地係貪錢先同我一齊,比人呃, 將來比人飛嗜,我明佢地好錫我.

都要忍痛去放開
 
 我離左婚10年，需然現在有個好好好愛錫我的男友
 
 不過過左咁耐我仲有發夢見到�
 
 但係如果我當日冇離婚的話一定冇現在咁幸福

我bf都好想結婚0家~~我唔肯之麻。
 
 其實我搵錢都多過我男友，不過我唔care啦~因為佢對我都好好0家^^。

May,
 When we first met, we already said "we r different, no future'
 But we both knew we have feel, so we both kept quiet and be friends, but end up together, we thought '死就死啦,愛一次囉!'
 then later, we broke up..not seeing each other for abt a 1yr, only sms when b'day..then 2months ago, we contact back, and said'friends la'....then no EQ, we sort of together again..now very worry, because the last time we broke up, ho hurt...
 
 QQ,
 相同遭遇, 同路人.....
 佢可以好堅強, 我實在太脆弱
 
 點解你話佢好堅強你太脆弱呀?
 佢同你分手,第2日冇曬事嗰Ｄ呀?

經過
 我搵錢多過我男友都ok, 但我覺得if too big difference 好似唔得 eg. maybe double 佢呢? 我而家27歲,開始讀 master,外國返,都唔算好stupid...我覺我仲有好多事業上嘅opportunity,將來如果我有機會上,只會同佢更遠,唔知會點..

我曾經好愛好愛我男友朋, 亦睇唔到將來
 佢做生意, 但欠好多債, 我唔介意辛苦
 佢為左搵生意, 好忙, 我唔介意佢無時間陪我
 佢離過婚, 所以唔想再婚, 我唔介意
 
 但到最後佢為左錢, 同個有錢女一齊
 一齊左唔夠一年, 仲結埋婚
 反而分開之後, 成個人輕鬆好多
 起碼已經唔會擔心佢而喊

你重後生有好多機會，你要考慮清楚
 我都搵多過佢好多。學歷亦高過佢。我最初都唔開心，後來睇化左我又唔駛佢養，我自己養自己都ok呀。如果我想過好d既生活咪靠自己囉。佢真係好鍾意我，我又鍾意佢咪得囉。講真邊個唔會變。嫁個有錢都可能離婚啦。我「括」左出去囉~人生係我既我試咩野都係對自己負責就好囉~我撐得住就算囉~~哈

好愛好愛又如何...睇到冇將來又唔捨得放,..只換來更多眼淚.. >>>>>>>>> 完全同你一樣,只好大家不提將來...he said...."be happy" at the moment we together, 同意?
 
 
 
 將來係重要，但現在更重要
 活在當下，珍惜生存時既每一個 moment >>>>>>> 經過多次離合,be heppy this moment 是最好的方法,..明天...可能有意外死了...不去想太多.
 
 你也可試試....

過來人
 '起碼已經唔會擔心佢而喊'
 that's good la. 為佢喊都唔值得!
 
 經過
 because i feel I have many things I want to do, so i already 看輕Ｄ
 , maybe need some time lor..
 我覺得你講得好啱,我都係好positive 嘅人嚟, 而家對this bf就15,16...later 應該會决定到Ｄ嘢呱, 就算有什麽唔心,都係會過...只係而家喊吓先嗜 :p
 
 我要去上wine course la....later back to chat!

放手啦,咪再害人啦