好唔開心，結左婚又點?!
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<p>其實結婚之前已經知佢性格唔好，但係已經一齊住，所以都照結婚。佢平時對我一般，每一次有時有節要慶祝，佢咩都唔會做，如果我唔開心，佢會更加心情唔好，令我更加難受...星期六、日你唔好旨意佢會陪我出去，佢只會在家，同平時放工一樣，上網睇新聞同埋睇女人!佢會睇其他人既相，其他人既blog，但係自己老婆既就睇都唔睇，佢連結婚既相都冇睇過...佢覺得我身材唔夠好，所以成日上網睇大波女，我真係好唔開心，又唔可以同其他人講，佢認為宜家係佢養我，我宜家只係返part time，佢已經覺得養起我已經對我勁好，其他咩唔好對佢有要求...</p>
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I understand how you feel. But now that you are married, it is hard to change anything. I supposed, you have to either learn to live with it or have more communications to let him understand. But from what you have written, I think you have to live with it and try to be happy instead. Sorry to hear your story.
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佢唔會同我溝通架，因為佢講唔夠兩句就令我好難受，佢不會理人感受...
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男人都係咁既咩...?定係我已經嫁錯左..?
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你老公...聽落真係麻麻地
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佢覺得自己搵到少少錢就可以養起我，咩都要我慳...仲慘過未嫁時
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take things easy and think positively. Afterall, you are married to him now. Better to spend a happy day with him than to be unhappy.
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只是結左婚幾個月就已經係咁...
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一係你搵返full time
<br>自己又做好d令佢更愛你
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not only已經嫁錯左..
<br>is, u should not coupe with me at begin
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baby，我都覺得你講得好岩，我之前已經出去搵工，佢見我in得成，又唔想我做，又話間公司呃人又呢樣個樣，其實人地係正常公司
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我同我老公好好ga
<br>我覺得其實要令個男人更愛自己
<br>先係解決問題既方法
<br>如果係相愛既
<br>先會肯為對方付出同一齊解決問題
<br>你想想一開始一齊既時候
<br>佢愛你d咩,你又愛佢d咩
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我好羨慕你呀baby，我其實都唔叫愛過佢...而佢一開始就瘋狂咁鍾意我，所以一追我已經想同我結婚，而我見佢對我咁好，咩都好緊張我，再加上之前失左幾次戀好唔開心，所以好快都嫁左俾佢...但係好多野都唔同曬，我地一齊住左幾個月就結婚，我知道佢已經冇咁愛我啦...因為佢好多野都唔理我感受...
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女人要為自己著想下, 你搵份工 la< 唔好聽佢講, 起碼唔使為佢而咩都要慳, 佢對你唔好, 你咪對你自己好d law
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我同佢一齊住之後就只係同朋友出過一次街，買左兩三次野俾自己ja，其他都係好普通既家庭開支，同埋買野俾佢，但係佢都仲係想我慳...我唔通要慳到好似人地拎綜緩咁咩...
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「我其實都唔叫愛過佢.」心兒都心是這樣想, 難怪男人對你這樣衰, 究由自取, 等天收
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try to find and chat with more fds....
<br>or find part time jobs to do....
<br>dun spend all time in yr husband ....maybe better u
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搵full time喇, 錢又唔係俾得多, 愛又唔係俾得多, 限制就多多多. 把鬼!
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<br>女人嫁咗都要有"自己"架~
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咁...客觀d講, 版主結婚真係結得好求其, 是但有個人對自己好d就務求早早嫁鬼咗自己咁...
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其實佢開始覺得我靚，同埋係好女仔，會係好老婆囉...
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<br>不過到左一齊住，就相處得唔好，因為佢日日都只係閉關咁上網，返到家都唔點理我，佢又要我唔好返工，我日日都好辛苦咁過，都唔知做咩好，但係又唔係好似人地d闊太咁可以行街shopping，我都唔知我讀咁多書為乜...我那陣好唔開心，但係佢就好憎我唔開心，所以那時開始我地就關係唔好啦
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我都知我嫁得求其...
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<br>我都有同佢講過唔愛佢，但係佢都堅持想我嫁俾佢...而且之後對佢越來越好了，亦好多野都就佢..
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心兒, 為你自己著想下, 做一d你自己開心的事, 如果2個人一齊係唔開心, 咁不如一個人仲好
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做得「金絲雀」梗要困在籠裹面。
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<br>簡單d講又咪係怪 husband 吾夠金比你花費做濶太。
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<br>味懶清高話悶悶悶, 讀左咁多書為セ....超
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今日是妳的報應
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唔掂...
<br>你就唔到一世
<br>出去做野喇, 佢亦都唔係堅恃叫你唔好返
<br>只係唔太想你去
<br>坦白講句, 你而家同社會脫節左你就慘...
<br>到時想唔跟佢都唔得
<br>咁就一世喇
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一個人無所事事喺屋企, 不事生產, 使錢使得仲多.
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kk,
<br>我都想一個人...但係都已經結左婚，好多野都唔可以唔理佢...只係知道佢又唔俾呢樣唔俾個樣
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咁離婚 la, 無問題 ga, 唔好為左一紙婚書, 同一個唔開心的人一齊, 時代進步, 唔好咁守舊
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多謝你地呀，我都覺得應該要爭取下出去做野，至少個圈子大返..
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痴線....
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<br>出去做返野啦, 點解要為左個男人攪到無曬自己呢?
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<br>既然你當初已經知道佢係個咁0既人, 我唔明白點解你仲肯結婚0羅.
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心兒
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<br>你好呀~你老公同我以前一個男朋好似..所以我好明白你既痛苦,有時同朋友或者家人出去都想老公一齊囉,你去搵full time啦!!!不過講真..我唔知你幾大啦,但係咁真係好難捱落去,2個人唔溝通,咪即係同一屋簷下,咁一齊為咩?
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因為已經一齊住，而且好多結婚既野都搞左...唉...
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咁你都同佢結婚？？
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好多野都唔可以唔理佢...只係知道佢又唔俾呢樣唔俾個樣
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<br>by 心兒 - 03/19/08 12:42
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<br>真係痴線....
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<br>家陣養狗咩, 鐘意就摸下, 唔鐘意就SO都唔SO下咁呀?
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<br>我覺得版主你未為你自己爭取過.
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<br>無錯, 結婚的確同單身唔同, 好多野都要顧對方感受, 但我覺得, 版主老公呢0的限制跟本就係無理.
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記住, 女人除咗個老公, 錢同朋友一定要keep住儲!
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唔係爭取, 而係你應該去搵工 , 起碼自己使自己$$, 都開心d
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因為已經一齊住，而且好多結婚既野都搞左...唉...
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<br>by 心兒 - 03/19/08 12:47
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<br>你自己都唔識諗啦~
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<br>你連自己都唔維護自己, 仲有邊個會維護你呀?
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venus，thx 呀...我已經試過好多次，想同佢溝通下，但係每次佢一聽我講唔開心，佢就好不滿...之後一定會講d好hurt既野...依家同佢已經冇再鬧交啦，但係真係好唔開心，唔係好明點解佢覺得我身材唔夠好又要娶我，我話唔想結婚，佢又唔想我走...
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快d搵份工...女人要有錢係手嫁,唔係比人蝦死!!同埋講真,結左婚又點喎,未有bb前你好想清楚啦,唔係一世嫁~
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我諗, 佢認為, 佢肯娶你, 肯比錢你洗, 呢個就係你幾生修到0既福份.
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<br>0的男人永遠都係咁自以為是架啦~
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同你地傾下，都冇咁唔開心啦...
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<br>如果我出去做野，佢就會緊張我囉，因為怕有其他男人o者...
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其實我好想知，點解自己有老婆，都成日上網睇女人，佢尋晚仲迫我去睡，因為佢想睇女人卦...但係個個男人都係咁既咩?
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我覺得佢跟本唔當你係老婆.
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<br>衰0的講, 你老公變態.
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我都幾肯定佢係咁想...
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bowie728728 replied @ 2008-03-19 12:53 pm
<br>我諗, 佢認為, 佢肯娶你, 肯比錢你洗, 呢個就係你幾生修到0既福份.
<br>0的男人永遠都係咁自以為是架啦~
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<br>哩句又真~
<br>我都見識過唔小
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你真係西利, 對住呢種男人對咁耐都仲未顛.
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變態?有咁誇張咩?
<br>我都唔知呀，只係想佢放工會陪我多d，星期六日搵一日同我出下去...
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小尼
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<br>我身邊都有個啦~
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心兒 replied @ 2008-03-19 12:54 pm
<br>其實我好想知，點解自己有老婆，都成日上網睇女人，佢尋晚仲迫我去睡，因為佢想睇女人卦...但係個個男人都係咁既咩?
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<br>睇下女人好正常
<br>佢去睇男人你就驚喇
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"因為佢想睇女人卦...但係個個男人都係咁既咩?", why you like to ask this kind of stupid question.