不小心動了真情

I have a SL
NO, actually I should say…….I am someone’s SL
I knew he has GF in the beginning
And I also knew that he won’t break up with his GF
I thought I can control myself as well……..
I thought I won’t give the real feeling, the real love
But unfortunately………..
I think I love him. I really LOVE him!
I want to keep our relationship
But I can’t lie to myself………
I want him to be MINE
I am so worry about myself……….
Is there anybody can tell me how to do?
Thanks a lot!

brabus

although it's hard to do so... but leave him asap

I know i should leave him
 but........
 HOW?

find another one and leave...

brabus

真係好難架...我都試過...
 但過左去就OK啦...會唔開心一段時間lor...
 
 搵朋友傾下計啦..

Is that really impossible to let him become MINE?

forget it la.
 don't spend too much

brabus

it's difficult to say wor...coz I duno your relationship...
 
 also duno their relationship

.... love is not a .. toy.. can buy and take away.. u should know it, right?

I spent a lot already.........

then put your effort to forget he...

Then spend the rest of your love and time to the other one who can finally match with u

brabus

sptownchen,
 
 frankly speaking, you should know that's SL rule... cant ask for anything... right?

he says he loves me........
 but he doesn't want to hurt his GF
 he said he want to keep our relationship forever
 then i will become a real secret forever......

brabus

ai...forget it la.. if he really loves you.. how come he doesnt leave his gf? ask you be his sl forever... then he can keep two gals lor...
 
 then is it worth to stay with him?

I really need all you guys' advising
 go home first
 talk to all of you later
 thanks a lot

you can add me in msn to chat and share:
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brabus

add my msn to chat la...
 
 [email protected]

等!
 一有虛位,乘虛而入

tell him that if he does not want to hurt his gf, he will hurt u.
 
 There are 3 options.
 
 1) Terminate the relationship with him and start a new one. I guess u won't.
 
 2) Go to ask him to make a choice between u and his gf. I guess u won't too.
 
 3) You can also choose to trust him and toremain the present situation. It is you who feel sad and he doen't feel any sorry for it. Let him happy and let him have 2 women at the same time. You are well prepared for that.

its easy, u just make more different friends in ur social life that will change ur mind.

You must be talking about me. Dear, I should have paid you and begging you go away, kakakakakakaka.

if they are not married with kid.. ,and if really loves u..then.. try to get him,,,or push him to make a decision
 
 not exacting wrong to be a SL with a guy with just gf..

possible
 
 the first 2 things for u to do:
 
 1) be true.. ,only be true.. then relationship last long
 2) make him love u more..
 
 can u do those 2 things now ?

i am a guy..who have experienced to damage 2 not so matured marriage..,
 
 if it is only bf/gf relationship.., then..it is difficult... , gotta be one get hurt
 
 make a decision, be a nice but sad person
 
 or try to make him love u more.., if he loves u more..they he be yours...

"男未婚,女未嫁" 你真係好愛佢,就去爭取自己既幸福 :)

Dear strong man and mgmmgm
 really appreciate your advisement
 I think I really love him
 and I really want him to be mine
 so i will try my best to make him love me more
 thanks

chen : Agree with mgmmgm, He still loves his gf, he won't leave her at least for now.
 
 I cannot say your SL doesn't love you as much as loving his gf, he can love you very much too. Just that he cannot leave her gf because she doesn't deserve to be abandoned.
 
 There is still a chance your SL would leave his gf. You still have chance to be the official one because he hasn't married yet and it's more easier for a person to leave his/her gf/bf instead of leaving his/her wife/husband. But the thing is, are you sure he is the right guy?
 
 To solve your current emotional problem, you are suggested to remind yourself, he is never yours from Day One, you might feel better if you think in this way. Take it easy, don't give too much stress to yourself.
 
 Good Luck.

fortunately u have found someone you really love him
 not everyone in his/her life can find real love
 --------
 But unfortunately………..
 
 I think I love him. I really LOVE him!

haha, you should try to fight the real love althrough we still not yet married...haha,

Dear passerby
 thank you very much
 I think I really need to relax more
 Don't give him too much pressure
 then he might love me more and more
 I am not sure if he just the right guy
 but i am pretty sure that i really don't want to lose him
 so i will try my best to get what i want
 
 really appreciate!

chen : are you giving him a lot of pressure now?

妳要知道呢個世界有報應o架
 
 搵個另一個啦, 到時妳自自然然就會忘記佢o架喇!

dear passerby
 unfortunately i think..........yes
 when he disappeared
 when he didn't call me
 when he didn't answer my call
 i became a psycho
 poor i.........
 i really need to relax more and more

妳之前對 bf 係唔係都係咁ｏ架？
 我覺得只係妳佔有慾太強

chen : how long have you been in love with him?
 
 Ask yourself :
 Why is he sometimes disappeared?
 Why didn't he answer your call? What's his explanation?
 Would you mind telling me how psychosis you are?

Bozz : the less chance you can get the person the more you want him!

passerby
 我知，但咁係唔正確ｏ架嘛
 每個人都係一個個體，就算拍拖都唔可能佔有對方
 
 "喜歡的不代表佔有，替彼方想多一想，世情易接受"
 歌都有得唱

dear passerby
 i will call him until his cell phone out of battery
 crazy me
 right?

我剩係可以講一句老土說話...
 分開也是一種美麗,識得捉緊,識得放手都係一門學問..勉強去追,只會越追越攰,個人越o黎越冇方向感,好快就迷失自我...
 好似某d人,只係o下o下spspspsp...最後都只會係...自己辛苦

sptownchen replied @ 2008-03-10 9:57 pm
 
 dear passerby
 i will call him until his cell phone out of battery
 crazy me
 right?
 
 咁會令佢覺得好煩,你反而應該唔打比佢,等佢打比你...佢如果心入面有你,佢自然會打番比你...呢招叫以退為進,唔係o下o下都要死衝..適當o既"戰術"對自己更有利

chen : yes, crazy! He is your SL, but you see yourself as his normal girlfriend, he cannot take your call while his gf is next to him, or he cannot take your call anytime during work. He has thousand things to attend to. You must be a very possessive person, am I right?
 
 For your own good in a long run, please stop this crazy action, he will only think you are a crazy woman and to be honest, every man would be scared away by this kind of action.

i know i am really psycho.........
 terrible woman

chen : ask yourself, if there is one day when you cannot stand anymore, will you go ruin his relationship with his gf? Are you really suitable for having secret relationship? Secret Relationship is not easy to handle especially you are a single with no bf. Are you
 mature enough to control your own emotions?
 
 My kind advice to you, don't act silly and be too sticky, if I were your SL, I would have already gone far far away!
 
 Sometimes, woman needs to be smart, it makes man love you more! Pardon me if I would hurt you.

Dear passerby
 i am always far far away from smart.......

chen : you can be by learning from experience. Is it the first time you have secret relationship?

yes
 very first time
 it's really too hard for me