單身的煩惱......請給意見..... (非善意者勿進)
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檢討過自己咁多年冇拖拍既因素.............
外表、性格沒問題...
要求不高....
我覺得自己係唔識同異性相處.............(感情方面的....)
可以比d意見嗎????
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Perhaps I am also enduring a similar problem as you are having.
First of all, I think both of us are generally passive(I mean in terms of approaching girls/boys). I am in a learning process still, so how about you ?
And also what's your general attitude towards girls/boys ? What do you think about girls/boys ?
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係呀....一涉及感情的話...我會變得好遲頓...
曾幾何時...我都有爭取過...但都冇好結果...
對男仔.......我唔識同佢地social 啦....比人有種抗拒既感覺
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Why ?
I am also a stubborn and inert guy as well.
By the way, sorry, if you don't mind, please add my msn, then we can have a chat : [email protected]
Thank you.
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nothing to do at office now. do u mind chat now ?
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But there are no choices unless you try to be braver. The only way you should do is to impress those you may possibly be fancying, try to keep in touch with them, and incrementally there's a possibility that someone will be wondering how can such a masterpiece remains vacant, then this can be your first taste of your success probably.
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A.Wenger
thx a lot....but due to my working condition...i'm not always be free to use msn.. so i prefer chat at here and seek some advices from u all...
hope u dun mind~
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try to chat and date. u can recognize them more ?
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luvxsum,
never mind, just another way, if you are free then add me, or else then possibly later.
I don't know how to explain, but what's your preference, your age(that's the general information seems...haha), it doesn't mean you want or try to find a guy here, but just let us to have a general understanding of how difficult/easy to find and get along with your preferred mate.
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A.Wenger
重點係唔知點keep in touch 嘛.........
例如....即使我地有對方contact...又可以點?? 往往無疾而終....
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luvxsum, where are you ? In HK ? or elsewhere overseas ?
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28...
對著心儀的人...我會詞窮...
A.Wenger
我22了...其實都有人追...只係冇feel姐
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luvxsum,
there are a lot of communication tools, msn/e-mail/facebook/icq/sms/friendster............even you are just chatting about something meaningless, be confident, guys never refuse to chat with decent girls, or possibly if there are some common interests, then focus on it, eventually your effort/bravery will be paid off.
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i'm in hk right now...
jetlag...soon will go to sleep
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so try to date him more more more lor............
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So where have you been ?
I am in the UK right now, can't sleep.
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date him breakfast lunch dinner reading shopping ......
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不要给自已太大pressure. 與人相處是冇一條formula. 有的人好容易便吸引到人, 但有些人無論點都不知所惜.
你自已問自已是否很nervous? 有冇神經質? 了解自已優點&弱點. 與異性共處時盡量放大自已優點.
真正與人相處, 怎樣令人舒服, 如開郎點, 幽默感, 適當的跳皮; 談及認真topic時 又帶有點感性...這些個性特點, 係繼外表吸引人後將之散發出來. 將整個人立休起來.
這便是相處藝術.
總之漫漫來, 不要give yourself too much pressure. 否则反而越急越忙.
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都喺嗰句......單身有單身嘅好處........
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對著心儀的人...我會詞窮
then smile law, and show him that you care, that's enough
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GOOD MORNING ~ ~ ~ ~ 單身都幾好呀 ~ ~
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Without bravery, you are doomed to failure.
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或者妳問下接觸妳多 D 既朋友
佢地可能幫到妳
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CheerfulSweetie
thanks for support~
其實我都唔想急...但一年又一年..."隨緣"有陣時真係用泥安慰自己...
我又唔係驚驚青青果隻既...只係唔識點improve relationship 囉...
所以好多時冇進展...
carpediem, pinocchio1027
我enjoy單身既好處既...但有時大時大節冇人陪..病左想人睇下都冇..幾sad le~
ic
呢個都係好方法...但如果不能想想見到呢?
A.Wenger
我都覺得自己幾失敗.........往往有好多機會都唔識把握
阿龍
朋友唔係好幫到我...同佢地傾過n次.. 佢地覺得我冇拖拍係一個迷...
其實我好少上forum的..今次想問多d人意見先開呢個thread..
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ic
呢個都係好方法...但如果不能常常見到呢?
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呢個都係好方法...但如果不能常常見到呢?
Try to obtain his contact, that's the first step, and possibly if you know the activity he usually does, then try your best to invite him to join.
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我都覺得自己幾失敗.........往往有好多機會都唔識把握
It is not about recognising your failure, but to improve your techniques especially about converting chances into harvests.
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A.Wenger
其實我地有對方contact...不過見過一兩次..唔太熟
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Do you have a brief personal particulars of him ?
(e.g age, interest, job, favourite type of girl.....etc).
You have to be tactical, draw a plan first.
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慢慢黎啦
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A.Wenger
咁我又冇當佢係target既...
btw...你指既野除左問當事人外...
how to know that if i dunno his fds?
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咁夜仲有無人呢
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hi sandra
我未走呀
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我都係度
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點解
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Advice
咩點解呀?
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Wow... wenger is actually here giving other ppl advises...
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Hello Sandra,
I am here
Nayio, you can also be giving advices as well
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無野喇 出到相喇 我頭先打左好多字 可惜post 5到
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係呀 nayio 歡迎俾d意見
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luvxsum replied @ 2008-03-03 5:34 am
係呀....一涉及感情的話...我會變得好遲頓...
曾幾何時...我都有爭取過...但都冇好結果...
對男仔.......我唔識同佢地social 啦....比人有種抗拒既感覺 <-- Then smile more
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You do not have to be talkative, coz talking always reveal your true self, so just smile more and let them know they are welcome :)
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luvxsum
you said you have his contact, nowadays, you can sms him as well.
Just find an icebreaking point, e.g, request his assistance, then you can start to plan.
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wenger
u are here.
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我想講 你仲咁細 總會遇到合得來既男仔
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yes
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BTW, luvxsum, do you guys have any common friends?
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A.Wenger
見過一兩次...唔會好唐突咩?
nayio
不過我冇對像呢~
Advice
17.18 果陣都仲覺得自己細個既...
我唔想到30時先面對呢個問題呢~
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有陣時遇到自己鐘意既 不妨主動一下去爭取
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有陣時遇到自己鐘意既 不妨主動一下去爭取