對一個好 , 係未會變成有種壓迫感?
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susan,
無絕對答案哦。要睇provider既想給予的程度,同埋receiver既可接受能力
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睇下對方鍾意你有幾多?!
好鍾意你會好開心,吾太鍾意你會有百壓迫感,因為佢吾知可以行幾耐,怕分手時欠你更多。
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Agree. Sometimes you think you are treating him good but he thinks it is not enough or it is not the way he wants.
Any examples?
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For those who are afraid of commitments, it would seemed like great pressure to them.
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need to manage expectation...
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I would take a step back and find out what is "Good" to him first.
Sometimes, we try to treat others nice without understanding what he/she really wants. Sometimes, we do it to an extend of trying to change him/her for our own good. Sometimes, we tend to wishful think too....
This is all a learning process. :)
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Bravo, onlybs.
I am still learning it. It is always fun to read your message.
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Gal,
I am just saying what I cannot do.
Learning it very slowly, the hard way myself....
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actually, i think it is the same both for man n woman to understand better the other half before trying to treat her/him well.
though it is easier for saying than doing...
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無奈的係. 連自己都唔知道點好, 放手的又唔想, 因會miss, 唔放手的又唔知可以點好. 真無奈
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I think you are just too lonely and want someone to stay with you only. Try to go and learn something.
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no la
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I always tell my girl friends - Learn to live alone. Learn to appreciate being single.
I have seen too many girls getting a bf for the sake of having one. Worst is to have lovers/married guys just because they don't want to be alone. Sorrow is never not the final outcome.
A hobby or go back to school can help.
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wakaka~