高薪女教師，會揀低薪男職員嗎？
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高薪女教師，會揀低薪男職員嗎？<br /><br />我有一個朋友（唔係同事），係岩岩教書，我估佢應該都有 20k<br />而我只係一個普通低薪職員，只有 10k<br />而佢個條件都OK，但我條件就麻麻<br /><br />咁佢會唔會考慮我呢個低薪男職員呢？
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搵10K一個月仲想學人溝女!?
<br>白痴.
<br>好似你呢D咁既垃圾港男唔死都無用,
<br>仲要留係度獻世!?
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多謝港女意見！
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係岩岩教書，我估佢應該都有 20k
<br>That means she is around 23-25 years old.. How o r u then?
<br>If you were around the same age as her.. I think that is not a problem at this moment!! If you think that 10K salary differece was a issue..Why don't u find a way to solve this problem..e.g "part-time" Improve urself inorder to get a better job?
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100%唔會.
<br>呢度好多女士都係咁諗,
<br>只不過無人夠膽入黎講出事實.
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你朋友人望高處都係好正常，但可能由相處而了解對方再一起都唔出奇
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<br>要睇你自己積唔積極咯
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salary is not the determining factor to be together with a guy or not. Besides, 20K is nothing, and you can definitely catch up if you want.
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CaymanS
<br>我比佢大幾年
<br>雖然我本身學歷唔太差，不過基於多方面（例如工作經驗等），我上極有限
<br>但佢就可以一路咁上
<br>始終覺得到時分歧仲更大
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<br>依家日日都好夜放工，仲邊有機會pt
<br>而且唔想做到死咁囉，人生唔應該係咁嘛
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my situation is exactly like the girl you like. I'm a teacher who's around 23-25, earn about 20k a month and that's absolutely nothing. I hook up with a guy who earn 13k and i am crazy for him. Money is nothing, if you treat her well, she'll be moved. and pls don't generalise HK girls. I grew up in hk and i never put money as an issue to choose boyfriend as long as he's good and works hard to climb up the ladder.
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TO the thread owner: "he's good and works hard to climb up the ladder."
<br>That is ur KEY stone man!!!and that is the answer to ur thread!!
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What is the purpose of "climbing up the ladder"?
<br>To earn more money for women!
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<br>How come the ladies always emphasize "never put money as an issue to choose boyfriend"!?
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<br>Full of contradiction.
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雖然我本身學歷唔太差，不過基於多方面（例如工作經驗等），我上極有限
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<br>how is ur 學歷?
<br>不過基於多方面（例如工作經驗等)? u mean u lack of 經驗?
<br>我上極有限!! what kind of job is it?
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sorry for any miscomunication folks. What i meant by "climbing up the ladder" is being competent and strive for better state..and that does't neccessary link to terms of money. to me, i accept my future bf to earn less than I do as long as he's positive and willing to try hard.
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are there any miss teacher here?
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不要灰心啦!我十年前出來工作時人工要比我的男朋友多一倍,當時仲試過要借錢俾佢,可能你覺得我老土啦,但我同得佢拍拖就視佢為結婚對像。之後佢轉過工,找到自己喜歡,能發揮的工作,到五年前我同佢結婚時,係因為佢有一筆花紅,先結得成婚,當時佢人工已經係我一倍,我反而因為讀大學借落一筆grand loan兼一些屋企問題,一個仙都儲唔到。依家佢年薪100萬+,係我三、四倍...層樓首期,全部都係佢攪掂,將來事,話唔定�赯嚏C
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<br>我覺得好既女仔唔怕同你捱,但最少要俾人見到你係一個有大志,上進既人囉,老實講,現在有幾多人工不代表一切,但對將來無計劃,就好有問題。
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<br>唔好以為老師呢行好易做,我都識得有�齯k仔教書既,讀書時已經好叻,好能幹,畢業啦,走去做老師,以為佢會好快升主任,點知做�髐Q幾年,都未上到主任位,唔係佢唔得,只係過去十年,教師個市都唔好,想轉工都唔易,如果做�髐Q年先轉,就更唔駛旨意上主任位啦!佢�囍P事同佢差不多年輕能幹,人�]又做多你幾年,又冇理由你個新仔。你話呢����,邊個會計到?跟住下一年,08-09年度,係沙士�鶡~出生既小朋友會入小一,你話��,當時邊有人敢生?跟住恐怕要大殺校,教書既隨時無得撈。
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<br>你最好望佢捱得過,因為佢唔轉工,你都仲有希望,因為仲有一個好真既事實,就係教育呢行,好多人嫁唔去��,唔係話佢�]條件差,係因為接觸到既單身男士好少,男同事本來就係小數民族,其餘見到既來來去去都係家長,份工好彩既就朝七晚七,仲要帶埋返屋企做,唔好彩就九點都未放得工,除非佢好活躍外向積極,如果唔係想識到男仔都幾難。大把靚女一樣要做老姑婆...
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<br>所以,有機喎,努力啦!
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低薪男職員,
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<br>我覺得我應該要指出現實情況俾你聽.
<br>唔好俾樓上既人沖昏你既頭腦.
<br>佢地剩係識得話你人工唔夠人地高唔緊要,
<br>最緊要上進,諸如此類.
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<br>車!呢D好聽既野係人都識得講啦,
<br>你要留心,個重點係個男人之後搵到年薪百萬,
<br>有能力自己買到樓.
<br>你得唔得?你估個個都可以搵到咁多?邊有可能?
<br>上進大哂呀?上進極都搵唔到年薪百萬就自動收皮吧啦.
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<br>教育界多老姑婆又點呀?
<br>你係唔掂既,人地真係寧願一世做老姑婆都唔理你!
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<br>我講野係好直,
<br>但忠言永遠都係逆耳既.
<br>信樓上既人講既野,盞害死你.
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I am a girl and of cos know clearly about what girl wanted and think, its not one or two wordings can tell...
<br>pls send a email to [email protected] for details disussion.
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i earn 25k qa month, still no gf....don't worry be happy
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我既重點一定唔係我老公現在有多少收入。正如我所說,我和他開始時他什麼也沒有,我也沒想過他之後的日子會有什麼,他有今天的成績,是他努力的成果,當然各人的際遇亦不同。沒有人可以保證一分耕耘會有一分收穫,但如果你不努力付出,難道個天會自動掉下來給你嗎?
<br>雖然我唔係好認同明燈既講法,但係不得不承認,一個男人如果唔掂,女人寧願做老姑婆都唔會揀你,但係咩�洏s做唔掂呢?淨係覺得自己一定唔得,自怨自艾,冇努力過而放棄就最唔掂!後生仔,邊個敢睇死你?與其在這裡講自己點唔OK,不如想想怎麼可以令到自己OK�灠�!做�鱄n做既事,唔得又唔會死既,至少俾自己死得眼閉...
<br>正面��,積極��,如果唔係,就不如唔好再想...
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低薪男職員,
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<br>你一定要明白,
<br>重點唔係努力既過程,
<br>而係之後既成果.
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<br>有成果的話(例如年薪百萬,獨力買到靚屋),
<br>邊個得閒理你個過程既點?
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<br>如果剩係得過程,
<br>最後無成果,
<br>咁點呀?「過程」唔可以當飯食,
<br>可以當飯食既係「成果」!
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<br>女人只係會強調「上進」,
<br>「上進」固然應該,
<br>但係迷信「努力既過程」可以幫你奪得芳心,
<br>簡直係天大既傻瓜,
<br>比女人玩死左都唔知點死.
<br>到時你就會相信,
<br>當你努力於「過程」既時候,
<br>女人揀唔揀一個男人係取決於「成果」.
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<br>有D野,女人係唔會老老實實指出黎俾你聽,
<br>咁就由我話俾你知.
<br>切記我所講既說話.
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低薪男職員:
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<br>之前既討論我有略睇
<br>都同意部份人想法,女方只會重視最後你上到乜野位和有幾多收入
<br>教師既可塑性實在太大啦,始終有一定學歷仲咁後生
<br>即使唔做教師做其他行業收入少.
<br>我唔清楚你做邊行,未來有什麼前途,so冇得預計
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<br>單從收入黎睇,個高薪教師和你既成功機會好微
<br>除非係工作之外,你有另一方面長處使佢欣賞你啦,否則冇可能.
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<br>而且一萬蚊收入,比上不足,比下有餘,話曬養到自己
<br>唔使靠女仔養我諗接受到既
<br>男人怕入錯行,唔係你自己想既
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<br>有D野,女人係唔會老老實實指出黎俾你聽,
<br>咁就由我話俾你知.
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<br>this is not true.
<br>it is not true not because 女人係唔會老老實實
<br>it is because 女人 will lie to themselves as well.
<br>such that they can have a higher moral.
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<br>they might stay and marry with you if you 努力,
<br>however, if you cannot make it in 5-10 years.
<br>do not blame them that they change their hearts.
<br>cos by then , u will be blame of not 上進.
<br>the definition of 上進 is that u need to get 成果 in 5- 10 years
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the best for you would be to concentrate in your career.
<br>work hard and think hard on how to improve your career.
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<br>otherwise all effort are in vain.
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<br>when u succeed, chasing girls are much easier.
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<br>world is tough!
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多謝各位意見！
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<br>可能聽得太多人講其他女仔
<br>其實我都幾認同「明燈」所講
<br>我唔會認為全部女仔都係咁，但大部份係囉（我知有部份唔係咁）
<br>大多女仔都係好現實
<br>就算唔係要你搵好多，但都至少要你多佢少少或者差唔多
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<br>我亦認同上面位人兄
<br>你有上進心，佢會覺得你OK
<br>但如果等左幾年都無成果，就會覺得自己投資錯左
<br>結果都係一樣
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<br>我真係相信有女仔係完全唔睇錢
<br>但，又有幾多呢？
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我係U grad，做Clerical，英文超唔掂，年紀唔係細
<br>我話我上唔到幾多，我有少少覺得係能力問題（英文唔得，又無技能）
<br>我自己都睇唔到會有咩前途
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<br>好似pp個男朋友咁
<br>唔係無可能，但會有幾多個？
<br>我相信我唔會好似佢咁囉
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<br>仲有，我見好似有人講到我已經同佢一齊
<br>其實我同佢唔熟，就會先有咁既顧慮
<br>如果佢已經同我一齊，我反而無咁驚，因為我相信有女仔唔係睇錢睇得咁重
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Add Oil guy
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低薪男職員,
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<br>Post this thread, You want to look down yourself and also find some others like 明燈 to tell you that you are deserved to be look down.
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<br>So that's it?
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唔試下又點知自己追唔追倒人呢？
<br>我男友都低薪過我，咁我承認我都覺得佢上進係好重要。不過如果佢上進o左都係搵唔倒錢，我唔會介意。我要佢上進唔係為睇$$，而係睇倒佢會為我而好好努力。我覺得一個男人如果真係鍾意一個女人，就自自然然會俾心機做o野，令佢有更好o既生活，呢o的係男人o既擔戴。
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CAPEL
<br>我唔係 look down myself
<br>只係我自己本身對此有一套見解，想再聽下其他人意見
<br>睇下會唔會有好多人同我一樣見解，定只係好少人咁諗
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<br>我知唔係所有女仔都現實，但現實唔係罪，亦有佢既理由
<br>而且就算我認為女仔唔係現賁都無用
<br>理論同實際係有出入的
<br>活在理論世界中，唔理實際情況係唔得既
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<br>補充一句：我唔係一個好上進既人
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低薪男職員:
<br>常聽你用薪金和個女仔比較,硬要用弱項去比一定冇機會
<br>除左工作上,還未聽到你有什麼強項
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<br>香港唔係只要上進就會發達,平凡是福,
<br>如果你份工安安定定養到自己,工餘有另一方面發展,向個女仔展示魅力相信會更易入手喎
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Agree with edenangela.
<br>我bf都搵錢唔叻，不過佢好鍾意音樂，好俾心機去學。一個男人全心全意投入一件事係好有魅力，理得o個件事係咪搵錢。
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我又唔係一定硬用弱項去比
<br>只係聽得太多「女仔好現實」呢樣野（人工方面）
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低薪男職員 replied @ 2007-08-29 12:05 am
<br>我又唔係一定硬用弱項去比
<br>只係聽得太多「女仔好現實」呢樣野（人工方面）
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<br>好多女仔係咁,唔代表你對像個女仔都係咁喎
<br>有d女仔每個月買一個名牌袋,又唔見個個女仔都係咁
<br>我只知一個純粹貪錢既女仔,教書一定教唔長,
<br>除非轉做補習社啦就一定搵到快錢
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<br>既然硬要用人工比,就一定冇得比,
<br>少過10k人工既人很多,照生存到
<br>等於自己審左自己死刑,勸你不如放棄唔好再諗
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咁我又唔係審左自己死刑
<br>只係我個人唔做無把握既野
<br>如果一般女仔都係好現實，咁衰既機會就好大
<br>咁做乜要去送死呢？
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我係教書o既，我男朋友人工係我一半都無，不過，暫時，我同佢都相處得好好，我又無介意過人工呢樣野~其實你都唔洗諗咁多~
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我搵唔夠10K but
<br>之前一個幼稚園miss 依家又同一個nusre 一齊
<br>大家冇問題,一樣好開心
<br>佢地唔係睇你有冇$$ 係睇你對佢好唔好
<br>又或者係埋一齊開唔開心
<br>係張床又唔係我話曬事 XDDD
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因為港男命賤,
<br>就算係送死都無乜野值得可憐的.
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hk gal
<br>份工收入唔代表佢冇家底
<br>妳呢d叫眼淺
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一個好女人..同你一齊時..會同你去捱
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<br>但同時..你會唔會為左呢個女人而發奮
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會架,
<br>冇野係冇可能架麻,
<br>問題係你承受到旁人既指指點點嗎
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敏
<br>點解你會同你男朋友一齊？
<br>佢人工少你咁多，同你一齊支出咪好大囉
<br>咁佢點生活、點儲錢呀？
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「咁我又唔係審左自己死刑
<br>只係我個人唔做無把握既野
<br>如果一般女仔都係好現實，咁衰既機會就好大
<br>咁做乜要去送死呢？」
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<br>就算呢度個個女仔答你會介意你人工低，都唔代表你鍾意o個個一定會咁諗。
<br>鍾意人就要有勇氣去追人，就算衰o左都叫做試過嘛。
<br>總之你唔試就一定衰，試o既都仲有機會。
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nth replied @ 2007-08-31 12:59 am
<br>就算呢度個個女仔答你會介意你人工低，都唔代表你鍾意o個個一定會咁諗。
<br>鍾意人就要有勇氣去追人，就算衰o左都叫做試過嘛。
<br>總之你唔試就一定衰，試o既都仲有機會。
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<br>同樣既問題我有問過過�
<br>佢只係避開個問題話'一般女仔'係咁
<br>而冇提過中意個女仔既人品係點,欣賞佢乜野
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<br>既然係咁不如唔好追女仔啦
<br>反正係版主眼中,低薪高薪既女仔都好睇唔起人工低既男人
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我都有相同處境, 但係我同佢既人工只係差三幾千蚊,
<br>但係人要變, 心要變, 完全唔關o個一萬幾千既事,
<br>太多外在因素影響一段關係.........
<br>你發奮, 你上進, 係為你自己, 而唔係為左黎同人地比較
<br>你升職加人工, 只係增加表面既吸引力, 唔係增加你既內涵
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低薪高薪既女仔都好睇唔起人工低既男人.
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<br>呢個係事實.
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HK Gal replied @ 2007-08-31 2:14 am
<br>低薪高薪既女仔都好睇唔起人工低既男人.
<br>呢個係事實.
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<br>無論低薪高薪既女仔,我諗冇邊個會中意冇志氣又一無是處既男人
<br>連自己優點缺點都唔去了解,對方中意d乜又唔查清楚,點學人追女仔ar?
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「無論低薪高薪既女仔,我諗冇邊個會中意冇志氣又一無是處既男人
<br>連自己優點缺點都唔去了解,對方中意d乜又唔查清楚,點學人追女仔ar?」
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<br>無錯，男人窮唔緊要，但千祈唔可以一pat o野咁。
<br>錢無錯係可以解決好多現實問題，但如果個男人係我唔鍾意o既，佢有幾多錢都無用。
<br>你真係睇睇自己有咩優點可以追個女仔啦，淨係o係度諗自己低人工，你真係一世都追唔倒女仔。
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缺點＝無＄
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<br>優點＝有自知自明
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反正係版主眼中,低薪高薪既女仔都好睇唔起人工低既男人
<br>by edenangela
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<br>咁我又唔係認定所有人都係咁
<br>只係聞說一般女仔都係咁，想聽聽大家意見