因為一個男人....咁就放棄10多年友情!
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我的好朋友最近因為要同男朋友分手,由於真係我朋友唔相信佢自己的男朋友,而做左好多好過份的事,令男方頂唔順而向佢提出分手~~
但我個朋友仍然係咁打電話俾男方,男方唔聽的話就打俾男方的屋企人、同事同朋友。煩到好多好多人,而我亦因為咁,於昨晚收到男方的電話,傾左好耐。之後我就揾我的朋友,好好咁同佢傾,但佢話我幫住男方,冇野好同我講,cut 左我線。我再揾佢,佢就唔聽我電話,之後 send 左個 msg 俾我叫我以後都唔好煩佢。
係咪我多事呢? 搞到自己冇左個朋友呢?
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I think it's not your fault.
Just her problem.
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沉默是金
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但我仲好唔好揾佢呢?佢咁係咪就表示佢討厭我呢?
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唔通你覺得你朋友唔岩都要埋沒良心撐佢咩
所以我覺得你冇錯!
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我覺得呢種女人好恐怖.
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過一段時間就無事ga la~佢現在太衝動.
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唉~~
我 now 可以點好呢??
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順其自然啦~
你等佢冷靜下先啦, 佢依家發曬顛咁, 唔會聽得入耳.
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過了道氣再call她吧
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但佢男朋友昨晚通知我, 如果連我都幫唔到佢, 佢只好報警, 出咩禁制令喎
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嘩~~~~ 出到禁制令呀~?
咩事咁大獲呀?
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因為我朋友到現時為止都仲係咁不停 call 佢男朋友~~
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因為我朋友到現時為止都仲係咁不停 call 佢男朋友~~
by ruthxxlam - 07/24/07 11:19
叫佢改電話啦~
少少事就話要報警, 小心比警察告返轉頭, 話佢浪費警力.
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男方話佢好可怕, 怕自己同佢身邊的人受到要脅喎
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Honestly, none of your business. Let they solve their problem by themselves.
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但我個 fd 一揾唔到個男朋友就會係咁打電話:
1) 叫其他人幫佢打電話揾�
2) 打俾男方身邊的人, 包括朋友, 同事, 屋企人等等
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我都係唔想我好朋友到最後因為佢的行為而令所有人都討厭佢咋~~
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唉~~~ 粗0的講句呀: 關你屁事咩~~~
最怕做埋0的咁0既野, 分手就分手啦, 仲要攪到身邊0既人, 我覺得男同女都十分之有問題.
你都係呀, 唔關你事0既, 你就米鬼理咁多啦.
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其實佢係咪有情緒病?? 我有咩可以幫佢~~
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唉,你�]�鴾舠‘X其地脆弱.友情可價.
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男方話佢好可怕, 怕自己同佢身邊的人受到要脅喎
by ruthxxlam - 07/24/07 11:21
超~~~~~ 怕就走去報警, 我好肯定警察一定唔會受你0羅.
佢生命都未真正受到威脅,難道佢想差佬搵人廿四小時保護佢?
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其實佢係咪有情緒病?? 我有咩可以幫佢~~
by ruthxxlam - 07/24/07 11:29
帶佢去睇心理醫生.
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我想都應該好似 "無錯" 咁講...咩都唔好埋
起碼我冇咁煩先
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但呢個時候冇個人向身邊~~好似會唔會唔係咁好呢??
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我想都應該好似 "無錯" 咁講...咩都唔好埋
起碼我冇咁煩先
by ruthxxlam - 07/24/07 11:37
正所謂:一家唔知一家事,你又點幫到佢地呢?
感情,從來都係兩個人0既事,無理由要局外人去插手.
個女0既,相當有問題,佢唔得冷靜,一味好似顛婆咁,向周圍0既人發顛.
個男0既,都有問題啦,佢叫你去幫佢喎∼
幫乜0者?叫你去開解佢嗎?你又唔係心理醫生,更加唔係專業人士,你可以幫到佢0的咩?點解有問題自己唔去解決,要人幫?
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As real friends, you should give her a hand when she is in needed. What kind of a person she was before broke up?
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唉~~~真係幫又難,唔幫又難!!!
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無錯,
你真係講得冇錯~~但你做得出咩?!
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as a friend, you shall stand on your friend's side no matter what.
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I am also very upset and frustrated. I also want someone who can listen to me and give me comfort. But I don't have one. I can't tell anyone how upset and frustrated.
So if you really care about your friend, just stay with her to see if you can help or at least let her know she is not alone.
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You don't need to help her to further bother her ex-bf. Just let her know that she is doing something foolish without any added value. She can get back the heart from her ex-bf if she keeps like this. Try to persuade her to do something more wisely and value added. It may be easier for her to listen to you if you can give her some good advice.
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無錯,
你真係講得冇錯~~但你做得出咩?!
by ruthxxlam - 07/24/07 12:07
我做得出.
因為如果你以局外人身份去理埋一份,萬一有個乜野閃失,你唔止無左一個朋友,可能另一個都會無埋.
所以我從來都唔會做你呢個角色,既麻煩又唔討好.
比着我係你,我會好歡迎佢地黎搵我傾計,但你話幫乜幫物,唔好意思,我唔會做.
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第一時間, 抽身咩都唔理
佢男友同你講, 你就話朋友嬲左你, 你唔方便出聲
朋友同你講, 你就話男朋友無聯絡, 搵唔到.
佢地屙既屎, 要佢地自己清理. 唔好話好朋友, 就算家人都幫唔上忙. 盞愈幫愈忙
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do you guys treasure true friendship?
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treasure架
但唔好做吃力不討好之事. 做傳聲筒又不是, 做和事佬又不是.
仲有千其唔好幫佢地互數不是. 日後人地和好如初, 你就變成"想拆散鴛鴦既八婆"
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我覺得呢0的唔係珍唔珍惜0既問題.
個個都知係吃力不討好0既事,明知架喇,點解仲要做?
唔幫唔代表唔關心朋友,其實,朋友需要,你陪佢傾下計已經好好架喇,用不着要攪呢樣攪0個樣.
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唉~~ 我 now 咩都唔理喇~~
佢地打電話俾我的話咪講兩句囉~~
我唔會再主動打俾�
因為我唔想俾佢再 cut 我線
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be mute
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舒服左好多喇~~~