真係唔明, why so many people are seeking for secret lover? why need secret lover? for more sex?

[threebo]

What are the reasons?

1. for more comfort?
2. for more frequent sex?
3. for excitment?
4. too much time, no where to kill it?


I never understand, coz I really got no more time for even one lover.
how come male or female got so much energy or time to deal with more than 
one relationship? and it's so complicated.  

my question is : (for those having SL or whatever you call it..)

do you feel geniue happiness in the 2 relationship?

[michilin]

即使係好愛一個人..

但有一d野果個人係俾唔到自己..



可能會係令一個人身上得到你想要既野

果樣野唔係話絕對既..



唔知大定有咩睇法

[threebo]

邊有咁perfect ?



你自己咪又一樣有D野比唔到對方,

唔通人地又出去搵另一個?



咁咪做成一個惡成循環?



如果果個missing part 係咁重要的話,

而對方又比唔到果一part 你, 咁就無謂開始段關係.





又要開始, 又要搵另一個去fill up 唔重要既missing part,

係浪費時間同對對方唔公平.

[threebo]

no one answer me then??

[Annie]

I agreed with you, if yr gf /bf cannot fullfill yr needs/requirment,

better don't start or break.

[刁]

sl/sp同避孕套一樣,可用完即棄.呢隻唔岩feel既,聽日換隻士多啤梨味,又唔岩既,後日換隻椰汁西米露味.



用完即棄既定義係,你都可以keep住用,但用到某一秒突然唔想要,黎手就則入垃圾桶,半句都唔洗多講,幾free?岩曬追求自由既廿一世紀新時尚都會集交群

[threebo]

如果你當人地係dom, 用完即棄.

你自己一樣會被當係dom, 用完即棄.



你覺OK, 佢覺OK.

就OK.



but 係咪真係OK先?



被利用完, 就係rubbish, 被發洩完, 就被"即棄".



嗯..nono, 人棄, 你取, or 你棄, 人取.



你唔知你用緊既, 係人地用完既, 定係點樣..



諗起都核突...

[regen]

threebo,

diff. ppl has its own valuation...

ppl having SL/SP, they know wht they want from the other, that is: sex only.

[threebo]

then just buy it.



wanna have sex, but don't wanna pay.

that's the value?

[threebo]

to be frank, i pity and depise those who always want to have sl / sp.



i pity them, coz they are really too lonely.

i depise them, coz they "used" people as tool, but not respect them as human being.

[xox]

係因為佢地個個都以為自己係小說主角﹐以為自己拍緊戲﹐要講 storyline

[watch_out]

I think they do it for excitment...which is lacking in a normal relationship.

[WELL...]

there are so many people on this world.... so there will be definitely all kinds of people around... dont be so surprised



watch_out is right ge.. in some way.. some people like the excitement of cheating on their partners.. of course i would dump her immediately if i know if my gf does this



to me.. personally.. i think guy looking for SL is just a cheaper and safer way to 包二奶 / 叫雞.. while girl look for SL because they need more love to feel special.. have that kind of "我有很多人要"feeling

[阿龍]

滿足唔到咪搵多個囉

可以為情可以為性

更何況愛情就最自由架喇

又冇咩管制同規則

佢地又點會唔用盡佢地既自由 ?

妳話佢地都一樣

佢地又點會諗到將心比心

如果佢地可以諗下自己諗下人地

就唔會搵 sl 啦

妳都知道世上有種人呢....搵到人著數就話自己醒

比人搵笨就話人地賤

針吉唔到肉又點會知痛

妳應該明白啦