Mature man looking for Secret Relationship. Please come in and have a chat.
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Yes! You're right! And I think moral can be linked up with mental to some extent. What do you think? :P
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man,
communication, respect and appreciation i think
love and care of course
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Knew it, that's why I said if you are simply looking for sex, wouldnt spend time here..
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gplus02, exactly! we are attracted by physical appearance, like face, body measurements. but what keep people together is their personalities. both are important indeed.
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eliot, remember those are two-ways.
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Hello mature-man. Bed time, it's a nice experience to get into this 'chatroom'. Bye.
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ne, as my topic mentioned, i'm looking for secret relationship. ons/pure sex is not suitable to me.
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man,
of course
u think i dont know abt that?
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gplus02, sleep tight. hope you get back soon.
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eliot, :). you know, some people just take, but not give.
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man
oh, i c wat u mean
but i think i m not that kind of person
i like to love, and b loved
passion is wat i need
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eliot, right. that's what relationship is for. do you have secret relationship before?
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True, if 1 side only taking & another side nonstop giving, then it's unfair and relation wouldnt last long.
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man,
once
everything was great @ de beginning but...
u know, some people just dont know how to treasure what he/she got in hand, and didnt appreciate wat u did for him/her, so...
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ne, "unfair" is a serious term. if both like each other, i think give and take just happens naturally.
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eliot, maybe they have their difficulties, right?
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ne,
life is always unfair, how to define u are taking a fair treat in a relationship?
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I'm not saying must be 50/50, I'm saying, 10/90.
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man,
dont think so, thats de problem of "are u mature enough to handle SL relastionship" i think
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ne, don't measure that. if you start to think about fairness, the relationship is going to end.
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ne,
who will take such an offer?
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eliot, i'm thinking what're the appropriate ways to handle SL relationship.
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Love is blind, sometimes we just love the guy crazily, then 10/90 will be happened without control.
Mature-man, totally agreed that love shouldnt compare nor calculate,
but, you are here looking for secret relation, arent you?
I think, secret relation got different criterias compare with a true love or a real proper relationship, rite?
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man,
thats hard to say, depends on u and yr partners situation i think
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ne, yes, i am. but still don't have concrete expectations on "her". the criteria, i think it's quite different from a real love relationship. at least those in secret ones are care, love, imtimacy, etc. but for real love relationship, there are too much to think about.
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eilot, that true. esp. when both are engaged, it's not easy to work out a schedule.
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man
rite
sometimes u cant even call or send a message to her if she got someone next to her....
thats heart breaking
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I think, the very 1st thing you must let your partner knows VERY CLEARLY that, her position is -secret.
Those things an open relation would do, you guys would NOT.
And, never ask for more, nor request this or that.
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eliot, secret relationship happens that way, isn't it? we can never treat that as normal relationship.
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ne, or alternatively, both should sit down and have a clear understanding that. this is to avoid confusion at later stage. possible?
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man
yes, its underground, its not faithful
but it really make me feel alive
agree with ne, never expect much, no ask for more
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Yes, must set the rules VERY VERY clearly.
If both got the consensus, go ahead :)
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eilot, just let it happens naturally. that's my rule of thumb.
pillow time. thanks for coming,ne and eilot. stay in touch.
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man
i think something untold is told, u can tell from ones personality, if u really can communicate with her
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ne, and don't forget the consensus later.
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eilot, we tell by communication and observation.
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Always think that it's impossible to keep in touch here..
Although nothing is impossible :))
Happy weekend Mature-man!
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ne, everything is possible if you're willing to. if you drop some lines here, i'll reply.
or alternative you can write to my email: [email protected]
happy holidays
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It's interesting to chat with you here..
Will drop you email in a minute for future contact.
:)
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Just done.
:)
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morning
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hi
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hi
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cant believe i am here again....
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can't believe i can meet u again too. how are you tonite?
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man
great, just dine with whole big family , for fathers day, how abt u :)
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i'll dine for father's day tmr. you have big family?
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man,
not very big i think, just 20-25 ppl for dinner tonite, some of them were busy, cant come
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wow.. to me, that's already huge rather than big.. hahaa
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reali?
my grand ma hv 5 children , all married and hv kids, and kids have kids too, haha
its glad too see 4 generation of people sit together and share ^^