同個男同事識咗年幾, 近排開始覺得好似對佢有D好感. 我o地同team好熟, 間唔中都會同埋幾個比較熟o既同事去玩. 我初時都想遲D至算, 不過同我o地兩個都好熟o既一個同事話覺得我o地之間好似有D嘢.唔知點先可以知道多D佢o既想法呢?
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我都想知可以點做??
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我有同過佢睇戲, o個次原本我同幾個同事一齊, 但最後夾唔岩時間,得返我同佢去睇.
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直接問佢囉
唔問佢佢唔會無啦啦講架
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快d解決左佢啦~
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咁直接?
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佢有約我出街, 不過好似好 casual 咁問我
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會唔會係同事, 會更加難發展呢?
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hhi
my bf also is my 同事
how old are you and him?
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I am 23 and he is 25.
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i am 26, my bf is 29
we are very hapy now
do he know u love him?
and he has gf?
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我梗係知道佢無女朋友啦.
我唔知佢感唔感覺到我鍾意佢呢, 不過o個個同我地好熟既同事話覺得我對佢好好.
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do u want to test him?
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how?
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do u hv msn?
talk in msn,ok?
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近來我屋企部電腦壞咗, 我對電腦既一竅不通, 佢幫我睇新電腦, 又幫我裝. 我個同事話佢已經好熱心.
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we talk in msn,ok?
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talk here la
may be other people have similar situation with me
so your advice may also be helpful to them
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俾d暗示佢law~~~~
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我個同事話我已經對佢好好, 不過要多D把握機會
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佢同我講話遲D上史力加3, 但我無睇1同2, 我個同事就叫我快D買碟睇返
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佢今日提我記住o係無線睇返史力加1同2, 佢係咁話好想睇3. 我個同事話佢已經講到出口想同我睇, 但我又唔係咁睇.如果係佢又唔直接D約我?
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ggll﹕你個性格係點架?我覺得辦公室戀愛好難發生!一)因為會被其他同事覺得在辦公室搞關係﹔二)好多人已有固定女或男朋友!我個個案就係有個男同事經過我個位成日偷望我,我同自己講人地或者有女朋友(不竟大家都差唔多三十歲),費時自己諗得太多!但當同一部門個女同事同佢打招呼,只係打招呼,我都唔開心!我比較被動,同唔鍾意笑,所以想進一步,都好難囉!所以你chance向左近,你要珍惜!
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我都係比較被動, 不過同佢算係幾熟.
其實我地做埋呢幾個月就會走(唔再係同事), 都唔知之後會點.同埋又唔知佢有無意思.
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hi, ggll,
I am a boy, I think this guy loves you as well, otherwise, he won't think that much about you.
Don't worry, just hold his hand!
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佢鍾意我佢都應該會主動啦
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some boys are very passive, my ex holds my hand first, I like it.
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同事先比較 easy 發展吧
日日都見
得閒又可以行街睇film 食飯~~
就算唔係拍拖呢d活動都唔叫奇怪...因為同事ma
呢d chance 都可以幫你了解到佢唔少野了~~
我諗真係想知佢諗乜唔難掛...
最leung 又直接的方法
叫你另一個同事幫手係咁e...問下~~haha
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不過佢成日同另一個女同事msn, 我次次見到都有D唔開心. 個女同事有男朋友, 佢都知o既.
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that's a good way, too.
or you can have a drink with him to have a casual talk.
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咁..佢都未拍拖...
都可以叫~~仲有自由ma....
你真係覺得佢咁岩你
咁你就真係要主動直接少少 la~
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我覺得同佢D生活習慣都幾夾架
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你叫幸福ga la
叫做一個人你覺得岩ma~
至於結果係點~~
就睇你地造化啦~
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you guys have known each other for a while la, I think this is the best chance.
But you have to also consider the situation if things go wrong, you still have to work with him everyday.
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都係做多幾個月
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I see, then you really should do it now la.
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就算佢真係約我睇戲,都唔代表佢係鍾意我jei
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aiya, ggll,
if a boy doesn't like a girl, he won't even spend time & money with her to go to movie..and he reminded you to watch Shrek 1 & 2 on TV, that's very nice.
I wouldn't remind my normal friend about this.
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我個同事都係咁講, 可能都仲係估估下, 都唔敢咁肯定
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講真
佢做乜都可以係真心or 扮出來ggll
咁呢d 就要你自己去feel 啦
無人可以幫你decide 到ga
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like I said, from a boy's point of view, I think you should go for it.
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近排佢都多咗提議出去玩既
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one question:
do you like him?
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yes
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then go for it la. why not?
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I am a very passive person.
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I see, maybe you can ask him indirectly and let him answer indirectly.
such as, you can give him a present with a note like:
"I hope you like this present, I buy this for you because _______, I wish I can spend more time with you always, and I hope you understand the meaning of this present..."
Something like this is pretty obvious, if he doesn't do anything, he is a dumb.
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wa...so obvious
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but he always msn with another girl, so I don't know what he thinks.
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yes, it is obvious but in a nice way, even if he rejects you, you can still be good friends with him.
Personally, I don't think he will reject you, and you are giving him a chance to "take action".