Can anyone help me to get off the game of sl relationship !
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anyone have same experience?
<br>I thought I can enjoy with my sl, how come I feel sad and suffer all the time
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sometimes i thought i may not suitable for this game and i do want to get off from it, but is hard.....just like taking drugs....
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That means you are not enjoying
<br>Is not easy to play that game.........
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of course, when the other person treats you well, you will be drawn in and when the other person treat you badly, you will feel pain, so either way, will suffer....you can choose
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yup..i understand
<br>my friend always told me not too serious on it, but i can't control myself...I just want to do my best to treat my sl as good as I can, make my sl feel happy and comfortable...
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when we together, i feel happy and sweet! and I do tell myself .....just enjoy every moment with my sl, no need to think too much !
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if u don't feel gd, quit!!
<br>r u m/f??
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<br>Sometime, there is something in the reality cannot be forced
<br>Let it goes when it's time to let it goes
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when you put your heart to it and it gets recipricated, then it feels like heaven. you have to learn to have distance with your SL and treat it as a game only, at the back of your mind, remember it will end one day....sad but true
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cc,
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<br>I try to quit and i talked with him too, but he won't ! and I'm so "soft heart"
<br>I'm f
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you will suffer if you dont take charge, take action, if you are not happy then go away, make the choice
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druglord & wei_ar,
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<br>I know there is no future in this relationship ! Sometimes i think is time to end it up, but he suddently come back and show how much he care me.....it really make me confuse and dun know what to do
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maybe I can say that u r not suitable to play this game!!
<br>u get too much involved in this game
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maybe I'm lack of confident
<br>I only know how to treat me good, make him happy, but at the same time, i do give me certain pressure !
<br>I shouldn't treat him too good ma?
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no problem with treat him good, but just can you handle it, looks like you are out of your depth
<br>does he treat you equally good?
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cc,
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<br>yup...i think so !
<br>becoz i care too much
<br>thats why i want to get off
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druglord,
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<br>I can say he is not bad, he respect me !
<br>just ...seems not willing to tell me something about himself
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understandable as he wants to keep distance and not let you into his life totally, just in case everything goes bad, so he has no recrimination from you, he can walk away clean and not get any hassle
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suffer : i have same situation as u
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u are suffering,
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<br>but u r not suffering for the secret relationship.
<br>u r suffering for the emptyness in the heart..
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Pain,
<br>你都有同樣經歷?可以傾下嗎?
<br>有時我真係唔知點做好,對佢太好ヌ怕佢覺得有壓力,好似驚我哋要同佢講將來咁!唉!我哋只係想一齊嘅時候盡能力對你哋好,想一齊開心啫!
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suffer :
<br>近排同佢走在一起.....
<br>大家都承認有戀愛的感覺...
<br>但無奈大家各有一半, 根本唔會有將來...
<br>或者有人challenge 我可能只係佢d 甜言蜜語打動倒我, 但我曾經有好多sl, 邊個對我好同唔好, 我都仲分倒既...
<br>我都有叫自己唔好咁痴痴迷迷,我好怕
<br>有日分手我會跳樓....
<br>有時我都諗我真係玩唔起.....但開始了又唔想放手...
<br>如你想share 多d, 可以add 我架..
<br>[email protected]
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Let me help you this way, OK?
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Pain,
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<br>I add you already la
<br>but you didn't online wor
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SL--->pure friendship ,
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<br>How ?
<br>u have some suggestions?
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suffer,
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<br>could u add me and talk too
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<br>[email protected]
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Terry,
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<br>add you already la !
<br>Hope we can chat on msn soon
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suffer.
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<br>do u want to talk on msn?
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can we talk here first ar?
<br>you ahve same experience ?
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I really want to find a way out !
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not exactly.
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<br>but i am interested to find out
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JosephT,
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<br>Do you have sl now?
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maybe you can drop your msn to me and we can chat together
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sorry ! am I make you feel uncomfortable ?
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suffer
<br>enjoy the process while you can. No one knows the future. If it is meant to be, it will be. :-)
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romance,
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<br>I feel confuse, sometimes really don't want to get involve of this kind of relationship again, but sometimes I can't control, still looking for a better one !
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suffer
<br>sorry that i missed ur message. I did not know u had replied. How abt casual chat in msn? My msn is [email protected]
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sorry i have to away from my pc a while, may add you later tonite....maybe half hour later
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sure. take your time.
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by suffer - 05/26/07 11:40
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<br>sure
<br>take me, and I will do the job
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i want to get off too, but i really like him.......i know i m playing the fire, hope i will cool down a bit later.....
<br>suffer, mind to share with us about ur story more?
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can i help you, too?
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honeybaby,
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<br>you have same situation as me , right?
<br>I'm trying not think about him too much, but sometimes is hard and suffer !
<br>He always made me confuse, I don't know should I continue or not
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can i join too?
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我都有sl
<br>每一次見到佢我都好開心,當佢真係男朋友咁ga
<br>不過佢成日提醒我唔好咁愛�
<br>因為佢有女朋友,而我係單身
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<br>每次見完面都會唔開心既
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jessica,
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<br>can he always stay with you ma? coz you are single, you must have more time alone !
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Jessica,
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<br>I understand ! and I have same feeling too, when I go out with my sl, I feel comfortable and happy, but after that, I will feel down, coz I dun know when I can meet him again
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冇呀
<br>佢做野又忙
<br>加上佢除左有女朋友之外,仲有另一個sl