A mature, educated and decent looking guy looking for a decent and pretty lady as gf

30+ sportive, good appearance with nice personality... looking for a pretty, charm and kind hearted lady for long term relationship.

besides the stated requirements, what else?

how come u have to look for a gf here given u have quite good requirements?

Hi Jane
 Thanks for stopping by.
 um.. I hope she is also educated with positive mindset, 5'4 or above.

Hi Janice
 I think it is just a channel to make friends here as it is hard to meet someone with the right feeling in daily life.

kent,
 got it. but i just think that it's easier for guys to look for gfs nowadays, as u may know that there are lots of single girls out there.
 u have more choices than girls do.

oh~ then i'm afraid i'm not suitable for u then~ i'm just 5'2"! :D haha

Janice
 Maybe you are right in certain angle. But just not happen to me. As I wish I can meet someone right.... before starting a relationship. You know, it is a mix and match situation. It's fate to meet the right person

Jane
 That's ok. Welcome to chat here.
 So you are also looking for a bf?

well, i understand what u mean! it's always difficult to find the right one.
 so is it fate to meet me and jane here tonite? :)

Janice
 yes, exactly.
 I haven't chat here for long... just wanna try my luck here tonight.
 nice to meet you gals

well.. i'm just looking around.
 anyway.. i'm always looking for a bf.. haha! but it's not easy! as u know~ and a janice mentioned... girls r more than guys now

jane,
 yes, the point is it's difficult for girls to find bfs when they become older and older. But this is the opposite for guys, when guys reach 30+, they still have lots of chances.

Jane
 Actually I don't see the difference even though the ratio of male and female is not favourable to gals. It's all about communication and chemical reaction... you don't need to meet more, just a suitable one

kent,
 btw, sorry that i've started a conversation which is totally irrelevant to your topic.

Janice,
 yea.. exactly!! i'm getting older and older now... i really want to share my "best time" with a guy that i like.. not just being alone. after 30.. another story...

btw, have anyone of u joined those matching parties b4?
 somehow i want to find a channel to get to know more new friends, and of course see if there is any chance to meet the right guy! ha ha

Janice
 Doesn't matter. It's good to share your thoughts here freely.
 I agree with your point

Kent,
 haha.. u r right though! but i'm just feeling frustrated... i don't know when will the "suitable" one comes out... i'm always trying to be more possitive.

Jane
 To be honest, I always try to balance myself. Not to rush to meet a nice lady but on the other hand.... don't want to be always alone.. haha
 
 Janice
 that may be a good way to make new friends. I also participated before but just can't work out any...

jane,
 come on, i think u are still at your 20+, but i am already 30+, still...waiting for my 'luck'

Hi Kent. I share your feeling. So do u have msn or any email contact which you feel comfortable to leave here? Thank you!

Janice,
 yea, i've attended those matching parties twice, but i wasn't joining them purposely. the first time, i was "cheated" by my friend... i'm just being her companion.. n another party was held by my friend.. i'm just there to support him.. haha
 anyway, i'm quite interested to join a matching party seriously.. but just feel it's a bit strange.. whatt do u think?

Kent,
 i'm trying to as well.. but i'm just so worry that i'm gonna spend the rest of my life alone.. tat's quite scary!
 
 Janice,
 yea, i'm still 20s.. but not long to 30... n lots of my friends got a very stable bf.. they are always discussing marriage already... and me.. sigh...also pressure from surroundings...

i've never been to those matching parties, always want to go and have a try.
 do u guys have any recommendations?
 ha ha...maybe we can go together!!! :)

Jane
 I understood your feeling as I always wanna settle down, although my friend always admire me that I am single... can still enjoy single life... but most of my friends are building up their family already.
 
 Mod
 welcome.... and u may add me at [email protected]

Janice,
 did u ever ask your friends to go to those parties with you??
 i don't have any recommendations .. may be you can look around the net.
 how abt kent.. do u have any recommendations?
 
 Kent,
 poor you.. same here! i can imagine howz my life will be after they all got married...
 do u mind telling how old exactly you are?

Jane
 I have no recommendation here as I just attend a few.
 And is just so so.
 I am going to be 33 this year.

kent,
 oh...so i am the eldest among the 3 of us. ha ha!! i am already 33 la...
 poor..

kent,
 actually i'm always wanna try to know more people, but just don't know where and how to make more friends...
 what activities u normally do?

Janice
 no worries.. wish us luck :D

Kent,
 Yea.. good luck to all of us..and Janice.. you too!
 i'm gonna sleep soon! see you guys again next time.
 nice chat! :D

yes, as what jane said, i always want to know where and how i can make more friends

Jane
 good night
 
 Janice
 I think you can search those matching agent thru internet. They organize function all the times

good nite jane.

kent,
 will try to search thr' the net, just dunno which is a better one since there are so many

Janice
 Agreed
 I dun know either.... may try to attend a few later too
 do u have any requirement for ur bf?

requirements? able to communicate, mature, nice personality. i used to like handsome guys in the past, but gradually i found that they were very 'flower heart', so i tend to look for normal look guys

Janice
 I think handsome guy may not be flower heart.... it is not direct related! And I can say that many ugly or normal looking guy are much more flower heart...
 
 If you like handsome guy, u may hardly have feel to the normal one... aren't u?

yes, i used to fall in love with handsome guys, but always bad luck, i always meet the flower heart type.
 you are right, i hardly have feel for the ugly type, normal one...i think can work

Janice
 It's just bad luck to you.
 Hope u may find a handsome one who really loves u :>

u too! so any luck in getting to know any nice girl here?

Janice
 Not yet... and you?
 You always stay up late?

咁樣搵女，得唔得架？

nope.
 tmw is a holiday, so can stay up that late, but i am getting sleepy already, so need to offline.
 i hope that u'll still keep this thread on and we'll come and chat again

Janice
 nice to chatting with you tonight.
 good night and sleep tight

Kent,
 I think I have the same case here that I have difficulty meeting any nice and decent-looking guys too. people just can't believe I have no bf, not even admirers! And I'm like Janice too, can hardly have feelings for "not handsome" guys. I know it sounds shallow to say so, but I do want a decent-looking bf besides the nice personality and positive mindset!
 
 Hope we will meet at the same time online and chat! Have a nice holiday!

hi ashlee
 mind to chat more in MSN ma?
 me also single for sometimes......
 me 5'11 158lbs
 work as architect
 MSN:[email protected]

hi Kent!
 I'm 20 Am I too young for you? hehe
 I love chatting with mature guy
 guys around me are kind of childish
 Maybe I'm too demanding? I dont know
 Anyway not sure if you're still here
 Hope there's a chance to chat with you real soon!

hi Pris ^^