他是否依然鐘意我?
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半年前我有個男朋友
初初我們一齊好開心~佢大我成10年o架~<br />初時1個月都唔夠佢就帶我比佢屋企人識，佢家人都ok鐘意我o架~<br />而我地拍拖就一直冇咩o野，會去溝通同了解對方。<br />不過時間耐左之後，我們冇再成日講電話，都唔太鐘意溝通。佢其實好大男人，好想我咩都聽佢講，<br />但我又唔係咁樣o既人o麻~我一向都有自己的想法同見解，唔想咩都就曬一個人囉。<br />之後3月某日，我們因為吵架而分左手，當中沒有第3者的東西。<br /><br />佢一直因為錢問題而無法同我好好相處。其實我唔洗人係咁買o野比我，不過at least~~~~~~<br /><br />好煩<br /><br />心急人上<br /><br /><br />出去食o野係佢比囉，<br />aa都得，其實真係唔鐘意請食飯，一二次冇問題，但佢成日叫我請佢我知佢冇錢，因為佢有好多card數，不過唔可能咁樣囉。所以我有時都唔理佢，不過我有請的~間唔中。<br /><br />之後1,2個月佢都有叫我去同佢家人食飯~不過就冇話比佢家人知我們已經分開左。<br />初初第一次我有出現，不過之後第2次就冇了。而佢都冇做過咩o野。冇打比我，冇約我出去之類。<br />直到有一次，我自己的事唔開心，我就約佢出去。佢冇講咩就出左來，做朋友做的事，<br />行街食飯咁樣。不過佢唔知講開咩，無啦啦抱緊我。令我覺得唔知點好，而家同佢又唔係男女朋友。<br /><br />那日又冇再搵大家了。<br /><br /> - 佢講過唔會同ex 女朋友出街，其實佢鐘唔鐘意我?<br /> - 佢當日無啦啦攬我，佢又一定唔係隨便的人，咁又代表左咩o野?<br /> - 我們會再一起嗎
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It doesnt matter if he still love you or not... you have to decide if you can still love him....
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唔想再煩~~
想佢鐘意我先keep~
<br>其實我到左而家都唔知咩事分手~
<br>叫佢講佢都唔肯
<br>不過我知道佢一直唔會有第2個
<br>如果有，feel到o架ma~
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<br>唔知點好/.........\
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佢大你咁多都冇經濟基礎 ... 要黎都冇咩用
<br>不過你咁問得, 你又好似好鐘意佢咁
<br>你都係問左你自己先啦
<br>佢咁大男人又冇錢 ... 你會唔會仲鐘意佢先 ?
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你咧﹖你仲有無中意佢﹖this is the point..
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唔想再煩~~
想佢鐘意我先keep~
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<br>That is very worng concept.... you should only keep a relationship base on your own feelings... not his...
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bounce
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<br>That is very worng concept.... you should only keep a relationship base on your own feelings... not his...
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<br>非常認同。
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我覺得, 就算比你地再係返埋一齊, 你地都唔會開心, 又或者都唔會長官, 問題真係唔係佢仲愛唔愛妳. 就算佢愛妳咁又點?
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<br>妳要明白, 一個男人, 如果佢仲要係大男人性格, 欠人地好多card數, 佢就要plan下點去還. 拍拖出街, 唔一定要用好多錢, 要平既, 食茶餐廳到可以, aa制, 自己比自己都可以啦掛......從妳既desciption, 我唔覺得佢係一個好有責任既男人.
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不過就算你真係好鐘意�
<br>佢都冇搵你, 即係都唔太著緊你
<br>就算真係係番埋一齊, 我諗都好易分開
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<br>都係收拾心情, 搵過個啦
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我覺得, 就算比你地再係返埋一齊, 你地都唔會開心, 又或者都唔會長官, 問題真係唔係佢仲愛唔愛妳. 就算佢愛妳咁又點?
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<br>妳要明白, 一個男人, 如果佢仲要係大男人性格, 欠人地好多card數, 佢就要plan下點去還. 拍拖出街, 唔一定要用好多錢, 要平既, 食茶餐廳到可以, aa制, 自己比自己都可以啦掛......從妳既desciption, 我唔覺得佢係一個好有責任既男人.
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<br>Bravo Janice!!!!! very welll said.... i maybe old-cake and old fashion.... men should always pay for dinner.... ALWAYS......
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其實我仲鐘意佢~~~
不過我覺得自己好努力keep過好都好似冇用/
<br>所以我先希望佢鐘意我先keep
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sorry if i am too forward.... but...
<br>佢一直因為錢問題而無法同我好好相處。其實我唔洗人係咁買o野比我，不過at least出去食o野係佢比囉，aa都得，其實真係唔鐘意請食飯，一二次冇問題，但佢成日叫我請佢what kind of a man is this????
<br>Ok he owe money to credit card... but that is not an excuse.. his attitude is wrong....
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我都覺得佢係應該成日比食o野錢o架~~~~~
<br>所以我先唔開心~~~~
<br>講真~佢而家冇card數問題的了~~~~
<br>所以我更想知佢仲係唔係鐘意我~
<br>如果係~佢會做咩o野~
<br>如果佢而家有番錢都唔搵番我，我冇o野好講-_-'其實佢好叻o架
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<br>bounce~~係唔old~我同你想法一樣的•
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tt sky= =
<br>你都有一樣的問題嗎
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心急人,
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<br>無人唔比妳鍾意佢, 只係, 我覺得如果一開始既時候佢都咁對妳, 有d危~ 同埋, 佢既衰野, 妳就唔可以令到佢改. 你地可以一開始唔係拍左好耐, 吵一吵架, 佢就唔找妳....(當然我唔知你地抉咩事吵)
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<br>不過, 如果我係妳, 我就死都唔會比佢抱緊. 因為無名無份既野, 我唔做既.
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<br>如果妳真係好想同佢一齊, 妳真係要好好諗下, 妳點樣同佢相處. 我比個advice妳: 妳今次點都要佢追返妳, 日後妳都可以多d "say".
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TT_Sky,
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<br>如果妳想share, 就講多少少啦.
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從你既 description 我會覺得呢個男人好唔成熟
<br>唔識洗錢
<br>唔識溝通
<br>唔識尊重同理你既感受
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<br>你要呢個男人黎做乜 .... 唉 .....
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<br>女 ... 你鐘意佢d乜呀 ??
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意見,
<br>我好鍾意妳講既野~哈哈!!!
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<br>板主,
<br>睇下大家幾關心妳~
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janice~
我明白
<br>講真我都唔知佢無啦啦會攬我~唔知攪咩~~~~~
<br>我都要佢追番我一定!~係因為佢個人好自私
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<br>如果唔追就算~
<br>其實一開始我地都有講過算唔知佢想點成日唔同我溝通唔知係唔係大10年就一定係咁~~~~
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<br>唉~~~~~~
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<br>如果佢唔追我都唔會追番啦~唔洗恨
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<br>不過而家仲未失望完~
<br>一開始覺得佢大過我，應該會對我好好先係，點知都唔係咁o既~
<br>不過初時一起，真係好幸福。佢而家係冇咭數問題啦好似。。如果佢真係學tt sky咁講，都唔搵番我，但又口口聲聲話覺得我好~對佢好~我都唔知幾時先可以放下~
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<br>有時我真希望佢係有新女朋友唔好再比希望我~~~~~~
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<br>tt sky你的case你會點樣做?
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janice
<br>我都係比下意見咋
<br>始終我地唔係當事人
<br>有好多野唔知
<br>版主又未必可以用文字講到出黎
<br>只係想幫佢諗多d 咁囉
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to: 意見~
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<br>多謝你~~~~~~~^^同埋janice~~~~^^
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<br>我鐘意佢因為初初佢真係比到好大的安全感我，帶我回家食飯，知自己冇錢~會去gamble而搵多o的錢，雖然個point係錯，仲有如果我出去同朋友玩，佢真係等我等到5點幾天光，send message比佢佢仲未訓咁等我，直到分手~佢都有等我天光~~~~~~
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<br>我覺得我地之間有希望~~~~
<br>我都唔知~~~~~~~
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心急人上...
<br>I think you are being too passive... always think what he will do then how you will react.... you should your own stand point and be firm about what you want
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心急人上
<br>你同佢開唔開心先？
<br>電話有message會響,嘈醒左未覆你,都未必係等天光架.
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我等緊，不過我有比個時間自己，我會話佢聽，過左就算o刺~~
<br>其實如果你仲鐘意就等啦。
<br>鐘意一個人的感覺，唔係時時有。
<br>不過當然~女仔要比自己一個底線唔好咩都就佢~~~你仲慘過我-__-
<br>唔好咩都聽人講，要就自己的感覺行事。
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<br>不過其實講得好對的，如果冇信心可以溝通得好，2個人一齊好辛苦。
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<br>聽左你個story
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電話有message會響,嘈醒左 "就" 覆你,都未必係等天光架.
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<br>by blue - 05/15/07 15:14
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撞鬼
<br>gamble 去搵多d錢 ?! omg
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<br>我知佢做左好多野令你好 touching
<br>但我覺得佢好危險 !! hahaha
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<br>bless you .....
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<br>btw .. janice ... 我係佬黎 ...
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to ｂｌｕｅ：
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<br>佢係等ｏ架∼∼∼因為好多次，而且我知道係因為佢家人都有講∼佢係真係等∼唔想我玩天光∼可能佢ＷＯＲＲＹ我∼唔知
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<br>ＪＡＮＩＣＥ∼我係好PASSIVE呀∼都唔知點好∼其實我之前希想過要結婚Ｏ架∼佢都有講∼
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意見∼∼∼∼你幾大∼
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35 問黎做咩呀 ?
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Gals,
<br>其實愛一個人, 唔可以話只係愛, 都要同佢相處. 其實我男朋友都係大我十年, 佢既人工都唔係多我好多, 不過, 我地可能出去食野, 都會一餐我比一餐佢比, 可能我地出一日街, 每人大約拎max. $200出黎, 都已經ok啦. 起碼我地兩個都有付出.
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<br>一個男人太自私就會好小家. 真架~
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<br>佢對妳有好既地方, 有好多感動既回憶, 但係, 佢肯唔肯為妳改變一d唔好既野? 一d為大家相處好既野?
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因為佢同你差唔多大∼∼∼想知幾個年齡的男人心底想什麼∼∼
<br>其實你地心底係唔係搵到個好就會結婚
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btw .. janice ... 我係佬黎 ...
<br>by 意見 - 05/15/07 15:19
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<br>okok...咁你以後個名叫"意見佬"啦....哈哈哈哈....
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個個男人經歷, 性格都唔同
<br>好難講架喎
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咁又係喎∼∼∼∼意見男啦∼哈哈
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<br>ＪＡＮＩＣＥ你要支持我∼
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板主,
<br>妳想我點支持妳?
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<br>其實意見男講得啱, 不過, 其實男女都好, 如果有一個同自己好夾既人, 而年紀又唔細, 好正常, 都好想自己既感情生活可以穩定落黎. 不過, 有時d野, 急唔黎, 越急越令自己辛苦, 開心d生活唔係幾好咩?
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<br>板主, 妳好想快d結婚? 妳今年幾大呀?
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廿幾ｏ架ｊａ∼哈哈�嫟
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Jane,
<br>咁咪係囉, 好細個咋我地~ :) 可以找一個好男人先同考慮同佢一生一世架.
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<br>妳打算點? 佢最近有無找妳?上一次找妳係幾時?
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上次見都幾倨星期前了
之後冇再找大家
<br>覺得自己在浪費時間~在一個無情人身上
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睇完之後, 好覺心急人上同TT_Sky係同一個人,不過唔重要
<br>對事:
<br>1)大你十年又欠card數又賭錢, 你重信唔信得過佢??
<br>2)攬下你就代表想同你一齊, 有d那過朋友....
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<br>對人(心急人上 or TT_Sky):
<br>1)你愛一個人, 係出於無私之心, 唔係錢同佢請唔請你食飯,
<br>真係要攪清楚d點
<br>2)心急人上 replied last month :
<br>唔想再煩~~想佢鐘意我先keep~
<br>其實我到左而家都唔知咩事分手~
<br><<叫佢講佢都唔肯>>
<br>不過我知道佢一直唔會有第2個
<br>如果有，feel到o架ma~
<br>唔知點好/.........
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<br>睇你想推個問題落別人身上
<br>3)愛一個人係要包容, 幫佢, 之前以有財政問題,
<br>做女人我想就要幫佢save錢解決問題, 而唔係"同佢食飯係唔係佢請"
<br>你知佢賭, 就要包容佢, 說明賭是不好, 而且佢係有財政問題,
<br>而唔係重同佢講錢銀問題