Can anyone tell me if a man claim he is serious to find a stable SL, will he still keep search'g SL?
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can share with me ma?
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he won't
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are u sure?
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he will, men are like that, u will find out sooner or later, trust a man is big mistaken.
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hi, i m 29 old, 180cm height general guy, live alone in ma wan, can we chat in msn [email protected]
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? lady,
Why do u have such question nei? It's really difficult to prove whether he will or not ga bor.
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haha, u boy or gal?
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i bet 99% will.I found my ex-sp always come here .He said he only liked me.
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coz i am curious as there are many guys state that they are serious to find a long term sl, so are they serious to promise their gfs/wives that they only love them in their whole life;
what do "serious" and "long term" mean
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lily. thx for your reply, he only likes u, but can still sex with other gals that he doesnt like
hehe
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according your question is not so clear,
i think the answer is yes, becuase i think he still not et find a stable sl, that is why he keeps searching
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so lady 419, do we need to trust every thing what the guys tell us?
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sp/sl跟本就係冇責任的名詞啦,stable同long term都冇意思架. 根本己經係越軌的行為.
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fire, so if the guys already found a stable sl, will they keep searching for other SLSSSSSS
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i only believe in fact in stead of facts.I dont think he only liked me.that's why he's my ex-sp now...haha
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so, there is no serious and stable and long term concepts in SP/ SL relationship
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beleive in fact instead of word
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of course!!!同人老公/男友搞野,就算你係long term/stable/the only one, 咁又點!
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why ask?
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if so, dump him
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? lady
if they are serious and stable and long term in any relationship..they would not look for sp/sl at first place.
they can even cheated their love/life partner so easy, who are u?
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the fact is that the one who find sl/sp is not trustful, coz they already cheated their another halves.......................
so sad
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why cheat the other half? from good will? or bad faith?
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yes, rite, so i should not believe in what he tell me sin.....
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? lady, correct, you want to be sp/sl?
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AI, i just be someone 's sl, but he always said he want me to be his stable and long term sl and treat me seriously, but i dun understand
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enjoy the process, that is the hardcore of the business
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u too have 100% freedom in choosing sp/sl...so u dont need to feel confused.From his heart,he(or men) wont treats sp/sl seriously,they just look for xxx fun.If u r his sp/sl,u can also be other's men sp/sl.
If u do understand the game theory of sp/sl,u woont get disappoined.
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sp/sl maybe stable or long term, but點都唔會係光彩.
別名'情婦'.
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yes, no need to think
no expectation, no disappointment
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Lily,
I am very very impressed. You are the first who I believe ever mentioned game theory in she.com. smile
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I agree. No expectations, no disappointments. If you enjoy the process, please go wholeheartedly to enjoy it. Once you focus on equality and end goals, you may end up disappointing and hurt.
SL/SP/ONS/committed love = are various forms of relationship.
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情婦...what a name. In good old days, men needed to feeds their 情婦, support their living, now we go to bed with men free, and keep changing the men like we changing our tback. ha!
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agree with ww,
情婦=second wife in old days; but for the relationship here, just a kind of mutually agreed casual relationship, so two parties are equal (the guys always said so); no need to FEED the gals
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yes guys always wants what... free lunch LOL