男友29,儲蓄1萬也沒有,因正努力想開始自己的生意,還借了銀行十多萬........我細他幾年,有15萬saving,但他不肯用我的錢,還願意繼續花錢請我去旅行....我們已經幾年了,他說過想跟我結婚...但說可能不是這幾年的事,近年亦少了談結婚...因他說暫時真的未做到..不過相信有一天會可以給我幸福....大家覺得怎樣?我們的感情是真的很好的......





  • 既然感情好, 又何妨等?
    <br>默默支持......



  • 我都0甘同自己講...不過眼見身邊一個一個結婚...同佢...以佢既$,婚紗都租唔到.....有時會好似無咩未來甘........好似佢為自己的未來努力,自己就只有等.......不過,如果一起共患難的感覺也是真的很幸福的...只是女人大了...就會多想了未來......



  • 佢幾好丫..



  • 做人要現實一點﹐感覺幸福和真正的幸福﹐絕不相同。找過另外一個吧!



  • 其實結唔結婚,係咪真係咁重要呢?



  • 到妳男友有錢的時候﹐再來結婚不遲﹐但是生仔的時候﹐妳就是高零產婦。



  • 男人唔結婚系無問題的。女人才會想結婚有個名份。但是生仔會和女人的年齡有關系。



  • 好一個不為將來打算的男人.



  • so he said perhaps when we can marry,we will have children immediately(try to)



  • 我同我男友拍左拖8年, 係, 我都想結婚, 不過佢連自己都未攪得掂, 莫講話結婚. 我又唔駛佢養我, 不過我只係覺得我對我地既將來好似無乜信心. 我而家都唔知可以點....



  • 儲蓄1萬也沒有,因正努力想開始自己的生意,還借了銀行十多萬
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    <br>男友對你可能不錯. 但儲蓄一萬也沒有, 竟問銀行借十多萬做生意? 萬一, 生意上有乜問題怎麼算? 沒有充足的經驗, 又沒有充足儲備, 做生意的真不是談何容易.
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    <br>男友思想有待成熟了. 幸福不是這樣的.



  • 或者可以調轉諗:
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    <br>我男朋友32歲本身有錢,做生意,但舊年生意好差,清曬袋。我又覺得冇錢都唔緊要,因為佢對我好好,一個人對妳好,幾多錢都換唔到



  • 版主
    <br>我同你差不多
    <br>我男友都係欠銀行十萬, 每個月佢份糧剛剛夠洗, 但銀行冇積蓄
    <br>我自己養得掂自己, 所以唔介意同佢一齊捱
    <br>我地拍左4年拖, 佢對我從未孤寒過, 好既野永遠留返比我, 亦都答應過我還哂錢之後就會結婚
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    <br>我都期待緊....我相信自己冇選擇錯



  • i dont think 但儲蓄一萬也沒有, 竟問銀行借十多萬做生意? is related to maturity,for me,he is a very mature guy,comparing to many same age guys,he is very mature.so staying with him always give me a sense of security.
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    <br>and he really loves me very much,even no money,also use most of his money to spend on me,gives me what i want and i remember,even just on a meal,i love the steak he is eating,he likes it too,he will also leaves the last one for me.just a little thing,i can also know he will try to give what he has for me...
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    <br>he is that brave to lend that much money is because he wants to earn more money as fast as possible.....
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    <br>once,when we talk about future,he said he is very useless.....and cant give me a good future....and he cries............and promise he will work hard
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    <br>at that moment,i think.....he is really a good guy.......


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