平時我個男朋友對我好好,但一飲左酒佢就會鬧我,又會講好多野來hurt我,好似變左第二個人咁。我同佢講過,如果佢有第三次咁樣因為飲醉酒鬧我,我就會分手。 琴晚就發生左第三次。你覺得比三次機會佢合唔合理。我其實唔係好想分手但我變特好驚佢啦。夜DD都唔敢打比佢因為怕佢會係又飲醉左又鬧我。 你會點?
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唔飲得做乜學人飲?
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佢曾經飲到入醫院嫁啦。其實佢同朋友飲下野真係好OK,係佢成日都會飲到醉跟著來鬧我個樣真係定唔順。
我見到佢唔醉都只係諗到佢醉個個樣。唉~~
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咁即係佢平時忍左你好多野你唔知la.....
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酒後吐真言呀
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你想嫁佢嘛?結左婚會否打你?
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你受到咪受囉, 頂唔順咪走囉
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我飲醉酒只會伏倒女友懷中+手多多
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我都諗緊呢樣野。我可能對佢唔係特別好,但我諗都唔係好差jer,係佢好夜仲出街泡我會UM兩句。我唔洗佢買野比我食飯又肯AA,個樣又唔係好差嗟,係有時會懶左D唔想出街,或只係去屋企附近既Mall.....
我一諗到佢係平時忍我咁多,我就想放開,一了百了佢唔洗忍,我又唔洗驚。
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公子 ,
係呀,我就係完全幻想到,到時結左婚,佢返到來可能唔只係鬧,我就係怕到不得了。
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我而家就係衡量緊我可唔可以因為佢平時對我既好來忍左佢呢樣野。
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或者你地好好傾下lor.....
佢依家忍得唔代表佢將來都忍得
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PP - 03/17/07 18:46
When there's a problem, try to talk to him to solve it, which is better than dealing with the problem only after getting married.
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小黑
我問過嫁啦。佢又唔認不停話唔係忍我。....每次有問題佢會好快話去改或做到好內疚,但過一陣D問題又返來啦。
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I've talked to him about this problem so many times that I actually had to set the rule "if you do this to me 3 times I'll have to break up with you." He just seems to ignore it. Now that the only thing that keep me from really breaking is the feeling that's left behind... If the feeling's gone then I can definitely move on.
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男人平時對你好可以話係拍拖既基本手段,
女人千其咪委屈自己同d酒鬼賭鬼做人世
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no no that was me, I meant "to newsgroupd"
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咁唔掂ga wor.....
佢咁樣只會令佢自己越黎越討厭你
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公子
我Mommy話結婚前要張大對眼去睇清楚個男人。你講得岩而家拍拖佢都會咁 ,結左婚會更恐怖。
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小黑,
我自己sense到有問題時我真係會立即say sorry同努力去改。但我sense唔到,佢又唔話比我聽時我真係唔知可以點。
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但飲醉左之後既野....好難講ga wor....
又唔可以咁就將佢定左型既
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PP - 03/17/07 18:59
"但一飲左酒佢就會鬧我" is already a problem, no matter it is cause by you or his own problem.
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有時唔一定係你既問題
而係佢自己接受唔到
所以你唔一定要去改
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小黑
對了呢個就係一個原因令我好煩。平時佢對我真係好好嫁。我只係希望佢可以飲時有D控制jer.....唔醉就得嫁啦。
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假如佢真係愛你既
佢必定接受到.....
仲會諗一d理由去令自己接受tim
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個答案好似有D清楚左。佢既問題佢唔改,我改幾多都冇用。我又接受唔到佢繼續咁。
我放工先啦。OT左7個鐘.......唉,佢今晚好似又有節目,睇下點啦。
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講真.....去飲野有時真係希望會玩得開心
開心就一定飲得多.....
所以你不如叫佢唔好去好過
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PP - 03/17/07 19:04
You can solve the problem without knowing the cause of the problem, right? Or else you will doing something meaningless
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問咁多, 其實自己都係唔捨得
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感情既野始終要靠你們互相維持
等佢清醒既時候 話過佢知 當你酒後的說話令我很難過 我們如是相愛的話 應坦白講清楚 才可以開心咁發展 既然唔開心,一齊黎做咩 唔夾而分手係借口 . 佢唔識尊重你,唔緊要,起麻你尊重你自己尊重e段感情尊重佢. 當你醒既時候離開左佢 過後佢一定後悔
但其實你亦要問問自己點解佢要醉左先講?飲左酒大膽d?又話者佢想借飲酒後先講到想講既野比你聽?
學懂接受是一種快樂的事
想清楚自己想過咩既感情生活啦...
青春有幾多,唔好比自己後悔
開心值得就得..生命有幾長呢?