對一個好 , 係未會變成有種壓迫感?

susan,

無絕對答案哦。要睇provider既想給予的程度，同埋receiver既可接受能力

睇下對方鍾意你有幾多?!

好鍾意你會好開心，吾太鍾意你會有百壓迫感，因為佢吾知可以行幾耐，怕分手時欠你更多。

Agree. Sometimes you think you are treating him good but he thinks it is not enough or it is not the way he wants.

Any examples?

For those who are afraid of commitments, it would seemed like great pressure to them.

need to manage expectation...

I would take a step back and find out what is "Good" to him first.

Sometimes, we try to treat others nice without understanding what he/she really wants. Sometimes, we do it to an extend of trying to change him/her for our own good. Sometimes, we tend to wishful think too....

This is all a learning process. :)

Bravo, onlybs.

I am still learning it. It is always fun to read your message.

Gal,

I am just saying what I cannot do.

Learning it very slowly, the hard way myself....

actually, i think it is the same both for man n woman to understand better the other half before trying to treat her/him well.

though it is easier for saying than doing...

無奈的係. 連自己都唔知道點好, 放手的又唔想, 因會miss, 唔放手的又唔知可以點好. 真無奈

I think you are just too lonely and want someone to stay with you only. Try to go and learn something.

no la

I always tell my girl friends - Learn to live alone. Learn to appreciate being single.

I have seen too many girls getting a bf for the sake of having one. Worst is to have lovers/married guys just because they don't want to be alone. Sorrow is never not the final outcome.

A hobby or go back to school can help.

wakaka~