越寂寞....越不敢說出口, 因為怕說出口後就永無止境的寂寞下去

起初的寂寞, 是享受..然後就明白是要去習慣...習慣之後, 就要忍耐, 無聱無色地忍耐...不想說出口, 很害怕永無止境的地寂寞下去.. 無能力去改變..還要寂寞幾多年?

Well, try your best to find your Mr./Ms. RIGHT

越寂寞越要飲~ 喝喝喝

年輕時已經錯了一次, 不想再錯..
 到了一把年紀, 亦沒多餘時間再容許自己錯..

I am also feeling lonely.

Moon,
 
 Are you married and have children ?

Dun be too tight...

無咁差既, luckylucky~

人生要經歷過的, 我都經歷過了..曾想過學習越寂寞越要快樂...學習中, 竟然發現是流著淚笑著對人說快樂

Moon replied at 2012-09-16 1:30 am
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 人生要經歷過的, 我都經歷過了..曾想過學習越寂寞越要快樂...學習中, 竟然發現是流著淚笑著對人說快樂
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 忠於自己啦
 何必對人歡笑背人愁

不想乞求人相陪, 不想再冒險嘗試去找另一半....我相信有人會病死, 有人會餓死, 就是不相信有人會因為寂寞至死.....看我會不會是第一個因為寂寞至死的人...

多愁善感雖然唔會致命
 
 但會致病
 
 
 等我陪你啦 ;)

Paul..你習慣了寂寞嗎?有沒有好辦法解決? 我不要胡亂找個人去解寂寞, 因為找錯了, 祇會更加寂寞

thanks, 許願樹...
 如果你真是一棵許願樹, 可否容我去回年輕時?
 現在已有足夠智慧去做決定了

Yes, you are right.
 
 After seperate with my ex-gf on 2 yrs ago. I start to feel lonely, but I cannot find the one who can make me out of this feeling.

I dont want to stay in this feeling, I try to meet and talk with someone else from net (net friends). But it doesn't work well.

cipher

只怕，越愛，越寂寞。

Moon replied at 2012-09-16 1:36 am
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 不想乞求人相陪, 不想再冒險嘗試去找另一半....我相信有人會病死, 有人會餓死, 就是不相信有人會因為寂寞至死.....看我會不會是第一個因為寂寞至死的人...
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 No way

Paul,你為什麼要與女友分手? 她做之決定? 如果你仲掛住她, 找她吧,
 不要胡亂找一個人去解決寂寞, 因為這樣祇會更加寂寞...
 如果是誤會分手, 要儘快找回她,不要讓分手之時間太久.. 否則你會耿耿於懷

She got someone new at that time, then married and have baby now.
 
 I am not looking for a replacement, but I really want to find someone new to make me to quit the lonely feeling. Full of love in my heart.

I agree of you. I know what was your feeling. I tried with a girl for few months, but finally failed and make me more lonely and hard feeling.

net friend? 原本人生已經變幻無常, 你還想在虛擬的網上世界找到實質的友誼愛情? 你不是想在海中撈月吧!

Paul, 如果你是一個男的, 不要太擔心, 因為香港仍然有很多有質素的女孩, 仍在尋尋覓覓, 祇是一時未遇到....

水中花，鏡中月。

I dont care the place and location. I just see all the chances.
 
 Everywhere can meet a new friend, office, school, gathering, Internet. The most important point is that one is good one or bad one.

Moon 小姐，那麼你也不應擔憂，費神吧。

有時半夜起來, 想訴說惡夢...可惜祇看到一遍藍海....慼慼然坐到天明
 打風時雨水由玻璃窗邊湧入...找不到人幫忙鎮定自己..
 有時工作回家, 屋內死氣沈沈, 不想開燈..祇想就此寂寞死去

Research report told us that Man and Woman ration on 100:75
 
 But, I think that relationship is called matching only, that is 1 to 1.

Hey you, dont be so sad and scar. Find more gathering and do something like. Dont put yourself in quiet and alone.

Paul,在公司圍著我有很多女孩子..有的很漂亮, 有的很可愛..可惜仍然是找不到她們的Mr Right, 如果男女機會均等, 為什麼總是女的找不到男, 而沒聽見男的找不到女?

coz, we need the matching, this is a very hard and serious thing.

Moon replied at 2012-09-16 2:18 am
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 Paul,在公司圍著我有很多女孩子..有的很漂亮, 有的很可愛..可惜仍然是找不到她們的Mr Right, 如果男女機會均等, 為什麼總是女的找不到男, 而沒聽見男的找不到女?
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 我找不到女!

Paul, 你試過一星期不用說話嗎?
 人們在慶祝新年, 家家戶戶開開心心..我就一個人, 坐在梳化, 不用說話, 不用梳洗, 不用腦, 不用口, 如果耳朵可以關掉, 連耳朵也可以不用..沒有來電, 沒有問候, 每天查看手電, 懷疑是無電或是無信號. 有時真害怕有烏蠅由頭上飛出....

許願樹,
 
 Please keep your "hope" heart and mind set.
 Keep and treasure the thing and the people you have.
 One day, you will be successed.

from you words...
 
 Why dont open your mind and be a active person.
 You just put yourself alone and look that you enjoy the lonely feeling.

究竟還要寂寞多久?
 十年?
 想想就已經很害怕很灰人

多謝阿Paul :)

Lonely, how do you explain this term ?
 Lonely = no boy friend, no hasband ?
 
 Do you have family, friends, colleagues ?

Paul, 我還可以做什麼呢?
 人生已經去到暮年, 沒能力去改變了.
 最怕是別人看著你的眼神...老,還可以如何?

open your heart, open your mind.

Moon replied at 2012-09-16 2:29 am
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 Paul, 你試過一星期不用說話嗎?
 人們在慶祝新年, 家家戶戶開開心心..我就一個人, 坐在梳化, 不用說話, 不用梳洗, 不用腦, 不用口, 如果耳朵可以關掉, 連耳朵也可以不用..沒有來電, 沒有問候, 每天查看手電, 懷疑是無電或是無信號. 有時真害怕有烏蠅由頭上飛出....
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 也曾深深感受過！

父母已經仙逝, 家人又不和睦, 不相往來了多年
 同事朋友有自己家庭, 試過 join with 他們的 family day, 不單感覺不良好, 連帶令同事諸多不便, 也不敢再打擾
 年輕時很漂亮, 很多裙下之臣, 可惜就祇錯了一次, 選擇了一個人辦...婚後苦痛不絕..自殺了很多次, 最終離婚, 也有其他人追求, 實在已經 "輕舟已過萬重山"....一直孤獨至今

Thanks that you share your story.
 Everyone has their own story. Every case has bad and good things.
 
 However, find the way that you feel good, find the things that you like to do, make yourself open and happy.
 Dont close yourself inside yourself only.

年初遇見初戀情人..他不停約會我, 不停訴說當年, 最後說到要我家給我煮食...可惜, 他已是有婦之夫...你要我怎麼樣?
 我是很害怕..要令自己沒有抑鬱症已是很難, 如何要驅走寂寞, 更是難上難..人生, 真是一步也不可以錯, 因為祇要錯一次, 就可能已經永不超生..

Sorry, I think that he is a bad guy to find you again but married.
 
 Dont be scare, if you know the problem, you can find the way out.
 
 I feel that you are not that bad, coz you can speak out all the things.

一個人在街上逛逛..寂寞依舊..走入商場, 走入球場, 就是走不入人群...試過一個人飛去印度, 一個人飛去歐洲, 仍然撇開不掉寂寞....

Paul, 你也是一個有質素的人, 如果有女孩給你遇上, 她一定是有幸運之神眷戀...好好地對待你的另一半, 要尊重及容忍..

I feel that you just keep yourself alone. Why ?
 Something bad on before ? Past is past.
 Looking forward please.

Paul, 1998年陳健康事件, 有印象沒有? 當年同日 19/10/1998 我自殺入了醫院....有一個護士問我, 為什麼要自殺不走去跳樓, 跳樓一定死的, 要自殺, 就要狠一點, 要學陳健康妻子..當年我才30歲
 沒死掉, 就一直收藏自己....初時真的很享受...可惜, 現在怕得要死..有時心想, 死在屋裡要多久才被人發現呢?

Dont keep thinking like that. Remember to find some open environment.
 
 I have to sleep la.
 Good Night.