有冇試過移情別戀呀?

我有一個拍拖7年嘅男朋友, 佢係我中學同學, 所以我地同年嘅. 最近有位男同事追我.....我覺得佢好好, 好錫我, 而我亦都有d鍾意佢....點做好??

其實而家個男朋友唔係唔好, 可能因為我做嘢, 佢讀書嘅關係, 我成日都覺得佢諗嘢太過簡單, 簡單到有d唔夠現實....有時真係覺得好似湊仔咁.

試想想被你拋棄, 一直用心愛你既人沮喪落寞, 迷失街頭既樣, 你忍心嗎? 假如被人咁樣拋棄既人係你, 你又會點? 初相識, 當然會對你好好, 過七年又係乜野一會事? 可能得手七日之後已經係另一副面孔, 你未見過?

一段感情唔係一朝一夕可以培養出黎, 為左新鮮感而白白浪費, 你又要花上幾多年頭才開花結果?

初相識, 當然會對你好好, 過七年又係乜野一會事? 可能得手七日之後已經係另一副面孔, 你未見過?

一段感情唔係一朝一夕可以培養出黎, 為左新鮮感而白白浪費, 你又要花上幾多年頭才開花結果?

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agree so much

You are undergoing a major change in living - From studying to working.

During the transition, you will encounter lots of new things, including new guys "floating" around you. This can be a chaotic period.

7 years is a long time and the feeling established should be cherished. I don't know much about the new guy and probably you don't know neither.

You and your bf is not married. Dating is indeed a selection process.

Look before you jump is the key. My advise is keep your eye open and don't get too easily impressed.

到底, 係佢既唔夠現實令你想離開佢, 定係有人鍾意你, 所你你先想起飛腳? 坦白問一問自己, 亦公平點對待對方.

可唔可以同果位男同事做下朋友, 了解下先?

其實係男同事出現之前, 我都有諗過同男朋友分開, 但自己一直都冇決心. 可能因為同而家男朋友同年, 一齊越耐, 就覺得大家諗嘅嘢相差得太越...而且一齊咁耐, 雖然都開心, 但就冇被人照顧嘅感覺. 可能係因為而家個男同事嘅出現, 佢大我3年, 同佢一齊好有安全感, 好有被照顧嘅感覺.

如果係真既, 根本就唔會煩, 分就分, 想甚麼? 分但又唔想冇左個水泡, 咁既想法咪搞到你依家咁囉, 有新目標都唔可以放膽上.

記住, 你只係一廂情願認為佢會照顧你, 但冇七年既肯定, 唔好有太大期望.

我試過,不過之後又返轉頭

始終BF係最好

I ended a 4-year relationship with previous gf and I am now with a new gf for almost a year. Conclusion: 各有各好 and no one is perfect