我的SL...你又話愛我,但為何我的事,你總是不上心,就算我生日,聖��,情人節,你連小小的禮物都無...你真的愛我嗎？
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He dun care at all, probably just selfish, want to receive but not give.
<br>You have sex with him already?
<br>Maybe let us know more before jumping to conclusion
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just
<br>你好！我們有一年半了,有sex關係了,我對他十分愛鍚,對他無微不至,遷就,但這些日子，只有我愛他,好累了....
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我諗妳未搞清楚SL既定義！SL只是次選，妳估他還有多餘的愛給妳嗎，對男人來講只不過是多一個固定性伴侶！妳應該清楚同人分享男友只可以接受佢願意比妳的，妳不可以有要求！
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靚佬
<br>但他連起碼的心思好像也費事為我想！只是用說話來愛我...SL真的無真愛？
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Honest speaking, SL , SP, Wife is just a name, which one makes you feels better, it doesn't matter.
<br>But it the guy's action, what he did, how you feel is true. I believe you will know the answer.
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The reason for most people to look for SL is they try to get that love & being love passion from someone else. (something they missed from their current relationship) But if this relationship won't make you any happier....why bother getting more trouble
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just
<br>你說得對！其實我知道答案的！只是白己騙自己罷了..
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It's always fun to satrt a SL relationship, but sometimes we'll corss the boarder, cos who can date someone without actually getting emotinal involve. As time goes by, this feeling will only increase & some people can handle very well, just say bye.....but some will suddenly discover they get too involved & get confused
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從頭開始比我揀,我唔會再行這路！好苦...實在好苦..........
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It's never too late. Unless you want to tolerate this pain, it's time to quit & move forward. Never look back, forget the bad memories & treat it as an experience, part of your history.
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just
<br>多謝你！
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My sl complaint all the time about this, I wonder how can i improve
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Tusk,你是男定女？
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You are welcome. Be strong, Remember even others dun treat you well, at least you will treat yourself good. No need to bother maintaining such an relationship. Best wishes.
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ling,你是男定女？
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靚佬
<br>但他連起碼的心思好像也費事為我想！只是用說話來愛我...SL真的無真愛？
<br>by mary - 02/01/07 11:27
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<br>唔可以話無！只不過用口講多於實質，我諗唔會有太多男人會投資太多感情及物質落SL度！妳投資太多感情落SL度是妳不智！其實佢咁做對妳對佢自已都有好處，SL只不過是霧水情，除非妳有辦法去改變將自已變為正印，如果不能始終都是過眼雲煙，雙方太愛對方到最後大家愈痛苦，佢這樣對妳其實未嘗不是好事，分開時妳起碼不會這樣留戀！
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靚佬
<br>我唔甘心,我對佢認真架！難道男人感情真的可以咁冷漠..
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<br>可以架！我好想知妳自已有冇男朋友？佢係有老婆定女友，點解妳會對SL咁認真？明知山有虎扁向虎山行，妳應知後果的是嗎，妳千其唔好高估男人可以為妳犧牲自已辛苦建立既家庭或和女友的感情！
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You are welcome. Be strong, Remember even others dun treat you well, at least you will treat yourself good. No need to bother maintaining such an relationship. Best wishes.
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<br>by Just guessing - 02/01/07 12:46
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<br>*****
<br>WELL SAID
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靚佬
<br>sorry....遲了覆...我是第一次有SL的,我自己也有同居男友,只是太久了,平淡了,咁啱R版和他由普通傾談,但慢慢由綱友變成了SL,曾經，想離開我男友而和他一起，但他也堅持要和他女友結婚，但仍想我跟他一世！
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女人就係咁, 對女人而言性同愛是好難分得開, 打從你同這個男人上床的那天起, 女人已輸了一半, 男人可以同你上床但從不層對你有一點愛意.
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<br>如果你已對他反映過你的感受而他卻是一點動作都沒有, 甚至連一個藉口都懶得去諗的話, 那樣子的他還藉得你去費時嗎? just gussing說得對, 要對自己好一點, 那個他不懂得愛惜你沒要緊, 最重要係你自己懂得愛惜你自己. 當你狠下心離他而去, 可能又一另一番新局面.
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長痛不如短痛:<
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係你on 9
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系咪妳個 SL 無機會送禮物比妳
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<br>多謝你們的回覆！
<br>曾經都覺得自己只像被他洩慾,也覺得自己好無用,因太愛他,唔捨得他走！唯有沒自尊的留下...我知我犯賤！
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<br>無機會？點解呢？
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只要你狠心一次, 你就會知道分手並不如你想像中的痛, 因他不曾待你好過, 離開如否的分別對你真的不大, 所以吾好再為佢去諗藉口, 無論什麼原因都好, 只要是他想做的, 吾會做吾到, 女人吾係愚蠢, 只係願吾願意被他欺騙, 你願意受欺的話, 就要承擔背後的一切, 包括但不限於你所遇到的.
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呢個topic各網友寫得真好, 我是有老公, 有SL, 有SP的女人, 女人如果真係有心同個男人上床果刻, 真係已經有一見鍾情感覺, 真係同男人好唔同!!
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<br>我同SL, SP上完床, 都會好掛住佢地, 但係理性話我知, 男人並唔係咁諗, 如果你想佢好似對gf, wife咁對你, 係真係冇可能!!! d男人上床後, 頭腦就變得清醒, 女人就會留戀上床果刻個男人點對你!!!
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<br>ai~的確是很苦惱, 學樓上話齋, 明知山有虎遍向虎山行, 以及女人明知被愛比較幸福, 但都會只想和自己愛他多d的人上床, 所以受傷很明顯係自己!!就係咁!!!
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<br>自己不愛的追著自己, 令自己有女神feel, 但和佢上床時冇feel!!!
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<br>自己愛的, 等他寵幸自己, 像地底泥, 但見到他已內心蔔蔔跳, 雖然自己都知咁樣會好cheap, 但係都係寧願咁做, 女人
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我覺得 SL 就是這樣子。如果做足功課的就是真正的女朋友了。所以 SL 不要認真。
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其他你對你有幾多愛意, 唔多唔少真係在禮物上看得出來, 不是禮物的價值, 而是花幾多心思!!
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<br>我的SL, 會知我想去那裡, 陪我去那裡, 大家互送小禮物, 很公平!!
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<br>我很喜歡的SP, 就算我希望佢花時間陪我吃餐飯也沒時間, 只能我去等他有時間去陪他一晚!!!
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<br>很喜歡我的SP, 只要我講一聲, 就即刻答應我要求!!!
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<br>人就係咁, 其實很公平, 看誰喜歡誰多一點!!! 很無奈但很想發這"lo" "so"!!