同男友拍拖3年, 感覺越黎越疏黎

以前一個係HK, 一個係大陸做野時, 日日都有電話, 5,6,日一定會一齊
而家兩個都係HK. 平日一個電話都冇
周五各自出去
SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊
冇拍拖就好似冇拍拖咁
唉...

可能就係淡左..

但都需要其中一方去比返D新鮮感落去架~

當佢同朋友飲野去到凌晨5,6點都OK

同我出去. 去到7,8點就嗌累..

我係好唔開心

之前我生日, 仲會買禮物俾我. 今年呢? 叫我自己去買, 番黎俾番張單佢

少少心思都唔放我度. 佢一D 都唔明點解找唔肯自己去買，亦都唔知自己真係咁傷砉左我

仲有其他野,,我同朋友講, 佢反映..其實你地而家似SP多過拍拖

果刻我真係想喊

whohavehopes: 我有試

不過去得遠又話遠, 熱又熱, 凍又凍時

我真係唔知可以點

關心佢, 打電話俾佢, 唔夠2句就話好累/唔得閒

真係好心灰意冷

then dont waste your time with him....

是但一個無左個心，係無就無

我好唔捨得....

有時佢又會表現番少少, 好似真係你將你講既野聽入耳

不過most of the time都係咁

去到而家..呢個月, 我地除左SAT, SUN見面

冇通過電話, 冇SMS..成日都覺得好孤單

哎呀...我諗你至少要提出分手, 佢先會反醒一下E段關係..

I_am_fly : 我唔知道叫無心..

其實佢本身就係一個大男人, 一個自私既人

可能佢對我已經好好 (在他來說)

但係我只想係要多DD ATTENTION

whohavehopes : 之前有嗌過一次大交, 真係分手. 我又搵番佢一齊

跟住就變到而家咁

咁你可以自己打電話比佢，係唔係兩句就唔講

算吧啦`

直接講出你既不滿.

受夠就要走,

"天涯上有更多的好情人仍然未抱"

唔好因為唔捨得而MISS左身邊岩你既人.

I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:09 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

咁你可以自己打電話比佢，係唔係兩句就唔講

=================================================================

10次有10次都係我打俾佢..次次都係佢唔夠兩句就收線

話會打番俾我, 冇一次做到

越打就越失望, 唔想再打

其實係佢唔想聽...

HEY~

我訓喇~

下次再傾~^^

加油~!

whohavehopes replied at 2011-03-19 12:10 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

算吧啦`

直接講出你既不滿.

受夠就要走,

"天涯上有更多的好情人仍然未抱"

唔好因為唔捨得而MISS左身邊岩你既人.

=================================================================

講過好多次, 次次都係HIT 到我爆出黎

我唔知佢明幾多...我唔係淨係WEEKEND 果幾個鐘開心就夠, 我想要人關心我

可能佢覺得自己已娙好多野忙。已經俾左好時間我.但係點解佢俾哂佢D 時間屋企, 朋友..我永遠覺得自己係佢最唔重視果個

你男朋友真係……無心肝

whohavehopes replied at 2011-03-19 12:12 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

其實係佢唔想聽...

HEY~

我訓喇~

下次再傾~^^

加油~!

=================================================================

thanks. gd night

唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場

我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........

I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

你男朋友真係……無心肝

=================================================================

以前都會乙水下我..而家乜都冇哂...

你有無諗你要有番多點專嚴，如果人唔重視你你都唔好感覺自己係咁唔值佢對你好

passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場

我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........

=================================================================

我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?

(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()

I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:15 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

你有無諗你要有番多點專嚴，如果人唔重視你你都唔好感覺自己係咁唔值佢對你好

=================================================================

其實人係咪真係好犯賤? 我係度諗. 如果有一日我真係走左, 佢會唔會先會諗我

chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場

我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........

=================================================================

我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?

(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()

=================================================================

放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...

過一排就會慣,好似我咁

passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:22 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場

我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........

=================================================================

我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?

(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()

=================================================================

放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...

過一排就會慣,好似我咁

=================================================================

其實如果真係左手, 我會舒服D. 起碼, 我會開始DATING. 唔使再留番WEEKEND俾佢...

如果有日你走，就係完結…千其唔好理佢有無唔捨得

無人天生出來係賤嘅

chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:24 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:22 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場

我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........

=================================================================

我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?

(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()

=================================================================

放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...

過一排就會慣,好似我咁

=================================================================

其實如果真係左手, 我會舒服D. 起碼, 我會開始DATING. 唔使再留番WEEKEND俾佢...

=================================================================

我以為只有我會咁,原來又多一個傻人...哈哈哈

I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:25 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

如果有日你走，就係完結…千其唔好理佢有無唔捨得

無人天生出來係賤嘅

=================================================================

我唔明, 點解有人對我, 我唔揀. 會唔捨一個放我係最低位置既人

版主，我明日要番工都要先休息。

想同我contact可以add我

[email protected]

good night 各位

I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:30 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

版主，我明日要番工都要先休息。

想同我contact可以add我

[email protected]

good night 各位

=================================================================

nite. add u now

Chrischi

can chat ?

so boring and lonely

Wing replied at 2011-03-19 12:33 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

Chrischi

can chat ?

so boring and lonely

=================================================================

why? it's friday night?

actually am pretty tired after cryin

can add me in msn?

Wing,

"SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊"

可以一齊訓醒HEA 住食TEA, 都正架..

睇你點轉角度去睇~

Wing replied at 2011-03-19 12:38 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

can add me in msn?

=================================================================

it would be nicer to chat here~moreof us can share the topic:)

Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:41 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

Wing,

"SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊"

可以一齊訓醒HEA 住食TEA, 都正架..

睇你點轉角度去睇~

=================================================================

we used to

不過當上次分手, 佢講左俾佢mum分左手. 就冇再過去佢屋企了

chrischi,

do you tell him directly about the problem?

tell him directly of what you feel?

分手又關阿媽事..

佢既理由, 咁即係你地無將來啦, 一世都唔會見家長..

咁點解仲要落去?

你又唔覺得開心, 又唔似有將來..

marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:47 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

chrischi,

do you tell him directly about the problem?

tell him directly of what you feel?

=================================================================

i did. i tried to express to him in a calm way

seems he has improved a bit, but then it's getting worse again.

i knew i would lose my temper & become out of control if i told him verbally, so i texted him. but he just ignored it and gave me no reply which had triggered our big fight n led to the breakup last time.

but since then, i just felt like we ar getting apart...

Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:50 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

分手又關阿媽事..

佢既理由, 咁即係你地無將來啦, 一世都唔會見家長..

咁點解仲要落去?

你又唔覺得開心, 又唔似有將來..

=================================================================

佢好錫佢媽媽, 咩都會同佢講

PLUS, 佢同佢媽媽一齊住, 我果時過去佢度, 都係有同佢媽媽一齊

如果真係乜都同阿媽講, 你地復合又唔講?

或者你應先反思下佢愛你幾多...

I think it is better to discuss, chat and share directly face to face , verbally.

If he cares about the relationship, he will do something continuously.

otherwise, 算拉, 及早make decision and don't waste your 青春

Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:53 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

如果真係乜都同阿媽講, 你地復合又唔講?

或者你應先反思下佢愛你幾多...

=================================================================

:'(

marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:55 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

I think it is better to discuss, chat and share directly face to face , verbally.

If he cares about the relationship, he will do something continuously.

otherwise, 算拉, 及早make decision and don't waste your 青春

=================================================================

be frank, i think it's just him. unless either of us changes, or otherwise, i wont be realy happy in the relationship

but just emotionaly i cant let go..n stil hope that he woul suddnely understnad one day

開心又唔開心, 又似無將來, 唔見得光..

你又大方, 竟然唔嬲, 可能你都要自私少少, 佢先會愛你, 男人係犯賤~

Also, one more thing is 你吳好call or text him 一排, 如果佢都吳find you , 甘可以bye bye la

because 佢都無heart to keep the relationship

Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:58 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

開心又唔開心, 又似無將來, 唔見得光..

你又大方, 竟然唔嬲, 可能你都要自私少少, 佢先會愛你, 男人係犯賤~

=================================================================

都唔知係咪真係有得落去,..冇謂又來來回回咁....

其實我自己越黎越心灰意冷

marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:59 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

Also, one more thing is 你吳好call or text him 一排, 如果佢都吳find you , 甘可以bye bye la

because 佢都無heart to keep the relationship

=================================================================

i've had been stopped from calling or txt him.

anyway, he didnt call me neither. but he called once on wed when it's getting cold n remind me to dress more. but then hurry to off again.

anyway, he will call me tmr after he woke up i think.

I agree 男人係犯賤

although I am 男人

有時冷淡D係一種相處方法

因你以佢為中心, 佢變得無所謂..

你圍緊佢轉呢

Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 1:02 am

-----------------------------------------------------------------

因你以佢為中心, 佢變得無所謂..

你圍緊佢轉呢

=================================================================

嗯..所以我冇再主動搵佢了