同男友拍拖3年, 感覺越黎越疏黎



  • <p>以前一個係HK, 一個係大陸做野時, 日日都有電話, 5,6,日 一定會一齊<br />而家兩個都係HK. 平日一個電話都冇<br />周五各自出去<br />SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊<br />冇拍拖就好似冇拍拖咁<br />唉...</p>



  • 可能就係淡左..
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    <br>但都需要其中一方去比返D新鮮感落去架~



  • 當佢同朋友飲野去到凌晨5,6點都OK
    <br>同我出去. 去到7,8點就嗌累..
    <br>我係好唔開心
    <br>之前我生日, 仲會買禮物俾我. 今年呢? 叫我自己去買, 番黎俾番張單佢
    <br>少少心思都唔放我度. 佢一D 都唔明點解找唔肯自己去買,亦都唔知自己真係咁傷砉左我
    <br>仲有其他野,,我同朋友講, 佢反映..其實你地而家似SP多過拍拖
    <br>果刻我真係想喊



  • whohavehopes: 我有試
    <br>不過去得遠又話遠, 熱又熱, 凍又凍時
    <br>我真係唔知可以點
    <br>關心佢, 打電話俾佢, 唔夠2句就話好累/唔得閒
    <br>真係好心灰意冷
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  • then dont waste your time with him....



  • 是但一個無左個心,係無就無



  • 我好唔捨得....
    <br>有時佢又會表現番少少, 好似真係你將你講既野聽入耳
    <br>不過most of the time都係咁
    <br>去到而家..呢個月, 我地除左SAT, SUN見面
    <br>冇通過電話, 冇SMS..成日都覺得好孤單



  • 哎呀...我諗你至少要提出分手, 佢先會反醒一下E段關係..



  • I_am_fly : 我唔知道叫無心..
    <br>其實佢本身就係一個大男人, 一個自私既人
    <br>可能佢對我已經好好 (在他來說)
    <br>但係我只想係要多DD ATTENTION



  • whohavehopes : 之前有嗌過一次大交, 真係分手. 我又搵番佢一齊
    <br>跟住就變到而家咁



  • 咁你可以自己打電話比佢,係唔係兩句就唔講
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  • 算吧啦`
    <br>直接講出你既不滿.
    <br>
    <br>受夠就要走,
    <br>"天涯上有更多的好情人仍然未抱"
    <br>唔好因為唔捨得而MISS左身邊岩你既人.



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:09 am
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    <br>咁你可以自己打電話比佢,係唔係兩句就唔講
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    <br> 10次有10次都係我打俾佢..次次都係佢唔夠兩句就收線
    <br>話會打番俾我, 冇一次做到
    <br>越打就越失望, 唔想再打



  • 其實係佢唔想聽...
    <br>
    <br>HEY~
    <br>我訓喇~
    <br>下次再傾~^^
    <br>加油~!



  • whohavehopes replied at 2011-03-19 12:10 am
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    <br>算吧啦`
    <br>直接講出你既不滿.
    <br>
    <br>受夠就要走,
    <br>"天涯上有更多的好情人仍然未抱"
    <br>唔好因為唔捨得而MISS左身邊岩你既人.
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>講過好多次, 次次都係HIT 到我爆出黎
    <br>我唔知佢明幾多...我唔係淨係WEEKEND 果幾個鐘開心就夠, 我想要人關心我
    <br>可能佢覺得自己已娙好多野忙。已經俾左好時間我.但係點解佢俾哂佢D 時間屋企, 朋友..我永遠覺得自己係佢最唔重視果個



  • 你男朋友真係……無心肝



  • whohavehopes replied at 2011-03-19 12:12 am
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    <br>其實係佢唔想聽...
    <br>
    <br>HEY~
    <br>我訓喇~
    <br>下次再傾~^^
    <br>加油~!
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>thanks. gd night



  • 唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場
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    <br>我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am
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    <br>你男朋友真係……無心肝
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    <br>以前都會乙水下我..而家乜都冇哂...



  • 你有無諗你要有番多點專嚴,如果人唔重視你你都唔好感覺自己係咁唔值佢對你好



  • passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am
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    <br>唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場
    <br>
    <br>我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........
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    <br>我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?
    <br>(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:15 am
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    <br>你有無諗你要有番多點專嚴,如果人唔重視你你都唔好感覺自己係咁唔值佢對你好
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    <br>其實人係咪真係好犯賤? 我係度諗. 如果有一日我真係走左, 佢會唔會先會諗我



  • chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am
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    <br>passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am
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    <br>唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場
    <br>
    <br>我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?
    <br>(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...
    <br>
    <br>過一排就會慣,好似我咁



  • passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:22 am
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    <br>chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am
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    <br>passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am
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    <br>唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場
    <br>
    <br>我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?
    <br>(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...
    <br>
    <br>過一排就會慣,好似我咁
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>其實如果真係左手, 我會舒服D. 起碼, 我會開始DATING. 唔使再留番WEEKEND俾佢...



  • 如果有日你走,就係完結…千其唔好理佢有無唔捨得
    <br>無人天生出來係賤嘅



  • chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:24 am
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    <br>passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:22 am
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    <br>chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am
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    <br>passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am
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    <br>唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場
    <br>
    <br>我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?
    <br>(我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...
    <br>
    <br>過一排就會慣,好似我咁
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>其實如果真係左手, 我會舒服D. 起碼, 我會開始DATING. 唔使再留番WEEKEND俾佢...
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>我以為只有我會咁,原來又多一個傻人...哈哈哈



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:25 am
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    <br>如果有日你走,就係完結…千其唔好理佢有無唔捨得
    <br>無人天生出來係賤嘅
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>我唔明, 點解有人對我, 我唔揀. 會唔捨一個放我係最低位置既人



  • 版主,我明日要番工都要先休息。
    <br>想同我contact可以add我
    <br>[email protected]
    <br>
    <br>good night 各位



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:30 am
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    <br>版主,我明日要番工都要先休息。
    <br>想同我contact可以add我
    <br>[email protected]
    <br>
    <br>good night 各位
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    <br>nite. add u now



  • Chrischi
    <br>can chat ?
    <br>so boring and lonely
    <br>



  • Wing replied at 2011-03-19 12:33 am
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    <br>Chrischi
    <br>can chat ?
    <br>so boring and lonely
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    <br>why? it's friday night?
    <br>actually am pretty tired after cryin



  • can add me in msn?



  • Wing,
    <br>"SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊"
    <br>可以一齊訓醒HEA 住食TEA, 都正架..
    <br>睇你點轉角度去睇~



  • Wing replied at 2011-03-19 12:38 am
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    <br>can add me in msn?
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    <br>it would be nicer to chat here~moreof us can share the topic:)



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:41 am
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    <br>Wing,
    <br>"SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊"
    <br>可以一齊訓醒HEA 住食TEA, 都正架..
    <br>睇你點轉角度去睇~
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>we used to
    <br>不過當上次分手, 佢講左俾佢mum分左手. 就冇再過去佢屋企了



  • chrischi,
    <br>
    <br>do you tell him directly about the problem?
    <br>tell him directly of what you feel?



  • 分手又關阿媽事..
    <br>佢既理由, 咁即係你地無將來啦, 一世都唔會見家長..
    <br>咁點解仲要落去?
    <br>你又唔覺得開心, 又唔似有將來..



  • marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:47 am
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    <br>chrischi,
    <br>
    <br>do you tell him directly about the problem?
    <br>tell him directly of what you feel?
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    <br>i did. i tried to express to him in a calm way
    <br>seems he has improved a bit, but then it's getting worse again.
    <br>i knew i would lose my temper & become out of control if i told him verbally, so i texted him. but he just ignored it and gave me no reply which had triggered our big fight n led to the breakup last time.
    <br>but since then, i just felt like we ar getting apart...



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:50 am
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    <br>分手又關阿媽事..
    <br>佢既理由, 咁即係你地無將來啦, 一世都唔會見家長..
    <br>咁點解仲要落去?
    <br>你又唔覺得開心, 又唔似有將來..
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>佢好錫佢媽媽, 咩都會同佢講
    <br>PLUS, 佢同佢媽媽一齊住, 我果時過去佢度, 都係有同佢媽媽一齊



  • 如果真係乜都同阿媽講, 你地復合又唔講?
    <br>或者你應先反思下佢愛你幾多...
    <br>



  • I think it is better to discuss, chat and share directly face to face , verbally.
    <br>If he cares about the relationship, he will do something continuously.
    <br>otherwise, 算拉, 及早make decision and don't waste your 青春



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:53 am
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    <br>如果真係乜都同阿媽講, 你地復合又唔講?
    <br>或者你應先反思下佢愛你幾多...
    <br>=================================================================
    <br>:'(



  • marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:55 am
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    <br>I think it is better to discuss, chat and share directly face to face , verbally.
    <br>If he cares about the relationship, he will do something continuously.
    <br>otherwise, 算拉, 及早make decision and don't waste your 青春
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    <br>
    <br>be frank, i think it's just him. unless either of us changes, or otherwise, i wont be realy happy in the relationship
    <br>but just emotionaly i cant let go..n stil hope that he woul suddnely understnad one day



  • 開心又唔開心, 又似無將來, 唔見得光..
    <br>你又大方, 竟然唔嬲, 可能你都要自私少少, 佢先會愛你, 男人係犯賤~



  • Also, one more thing is 你吳好call or text him 一排, 如果佢都吳find you , 甘可以bye bye la
    <br>because 佢都無heart to keep the relationship



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:58 am
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    <br>開心又唔開心, 又似無將來, 唔見得光..
    <br>你又大方, 竟然唔嬲, 可能你都要自私少少, 佢先會愛你, 男人係犯賤~
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    <br>都唔知係咪真係有得落去,..冇謂又來來回回咁....
    <br>其實我自己越黎越心灰意冷



  • marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:59 am
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    <br>Also, one more thing is 你吳好call or text him 一排, 如果佢都吳find you , 甘可以bye bye la
    <br>because 佢都無heart to keep the relationship
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    <br>i've had been stopped from calling or txt him.
    <br>anyway, he didnt call me neither. but he called once on wed when it's getting cold n remind me to dress more. but then hurry to off again.
    <br>
    <br>anyway, he will call me tmr after he woke up i think.



  • I agree 男人係犯賤
    <br>although I am 男人
    <br>有時冷淡D係一種相處方法



  • 因你以佢為中心, 佢變得無所謂..
    <br>你圍緊佢轉呢



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 1:02 am
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    <br>因你以佢為中心, 佢變得無所謂..
    <br>你圍緊佢轉呢
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    <br>嗯..所以我冇再主動搵佢了


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