我是女, 一年前識咗個男人, 一年後的今天才發現, 他只是和我保持住SL的關係, 但因為太愛佢, 己不能放棄他,為有接受, 現想問怎樣做才是一個full mark嘅SL
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SL,
how can u tell he treats u as an SL not an SP, or sex tolls?
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full mark? it seems no body can have a full mark!
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SL, full mark SL ???
What do you mean??
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妳太愛他﹐即妳已經有一個 partner。
算吧啦! 大家出來玩﹐愛來幹麼。
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SL,
Are you sure you are a secret lover or just a sex slave?
if you are ok to be a sex slave then ok lah. if you think he is treating u like a secret lover, but then he is actually treating u like sex slave , then it doesn't worth it.
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pizzalover,
因為SP唔會有太多私人事給你,
知和SP只是做同bye
CLP
我已決定唔放棄, 就希望做好d, 令佢開心
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sl,
點解你會話自己係一個sl呢,你同佢一年之後先知佢有女朋友定係老婆呀?
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我本身是無男友的
只是唔想失去他
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因為SP唔會有太多私人事給你, ?
cannot catch u, sorry
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p.s
我估佢無stable女左
但不只我一個SL
因為大時大節或生日佢都無陪我
所以我當自己是SL
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pizza
我意思是SP唔會給你知道佢本身的私人資料太多, 只是hi,sex,bye
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咁怪﹐不如妳 forget 他。
裡個世界又唔系得他一個男人。
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SL
咁又何必呢! 咪令到自己仲唔開心, 仲悲痛? 傻o妹!
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sl,
我唔同意你咁講囉,你話佢無陪你,佢係咪唔得閒先?可能佢有野做呢?
你有無問佢呀?
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CLP
有時女人愛一個男人, 只希望佢需要你時或佢工作完好攰時, 給他開心和平靜舒服的感覺, 無話fool唔fool, 自已簡
SL
我知佢忙, 但係肯定佢無當我係serious女友
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SL,
maybe, he just finds u r a SP who he can trust.. nothing abt love feeling..
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sl,
我唔係好明你點解咁講呀?
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SL
咁單方面既愛同付出, 妳覺得有價值咩! 傻o妹!
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full mark sl就係唔問佢d野,佢想點都聽佢話
[email protected]
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CLP
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CLP
do u mind we chat in msn
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海堂
你是否想和我响msn傾
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CLP
added
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sl,
你有無問過佢,有無當你係佢女朋友呀?
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SL,
回頭是岸阿! 最後你將會是最受傷的一個!
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I am not the person right here to discourage you. Instead, if you really accept this connection. It is fine. You should bear your own responsibility.
Back to the world, to be a perfect s.l.. It is simple. To be a perfect lover but secret.
You should accept all secret-related behavious such as
* he may not answer your phone call.
* he may sometimes leave very urgent.
* he may be away from you on holiday
* you may be blame by someone on someday, etc
ba ba ba......
Sam Sam
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u only found out after 1 year. u are very slow girl....
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SAmsam
can i chat with u in msn
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我都有sl, 可以和你傾下, 希望幫到你...msn: [email protected]
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aiya.
I seldom play MSN ga.
You can reach me at [email protected]
Sam Sam
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thanks Sam sam
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SL, are u looking for new SL as you keep adding guys on msn???????
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sp
i m not looking for new sl
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SL, it maynot have any good result in this sl relationship.
There is no good guys are aound you??
If you really enjoy this moment, up to you.
But, I would like to let you know, how long will you spend ???
1, 2, 10, 20 years??
You may regret someday when you look back.
Think about it!!!!
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我條大賓周等緊妳[email protected]
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sugizo69
thank you so much
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hello SL
good morning, are you feel better today?
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傾個靚計啦
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Morning, SL,
A bit pity that I've found this thread so late, and I would have some sharing about this issue......
Secret lover - well, I am (or I should say, I am going NOT to be) a SL for a single gal for a few months since Sept 06. Everything seems ok at the beginning. However, once you really put more time and energy into the relationship, you start to have expectation. The feeling of needs and jealous will one day overcome your understanding.....
I think u'll on the same track, or, even worse. As somehow you have no BF and he doesn't have any GF also......
I usually ask my female friends when they upset about the relationship:
1. What is your expectation to your hubby / living partner in the future? and,
2. Does your BF have the potential?
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SL,
Please ask yourself first before action.
Do you really want to be his "Secret Lover" for long from the bottom of your heart? If it is so, then it is okay. Just enjoy the relationship and don't think too much.
If not, you shall think think what you actually want. One day to be his serious gf ? If it is what you want, you shall ask yourself how possible the situation can be and give yourself a timeframe (deadline) to see whether it is possible to come truth. Otherwise, you will fall into a time trap and cannot get out forever.
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i-love-u
good morning, i m ok la. got some useful hints, and feel better now
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Hello! SL.
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Good for u SL.
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SL
good, then to be a happy gal again la.
no matter what happen, just enjoy ur life n take care urself, ok!
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Blues & Soul &
shinano
thank you so much for your good hints
i choose leave now
and if dun mind , i really want talk more with both of u, can i have your msn for chat more
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sure, whiteRose,
[email protected]
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忘記他是一件好事﹐可以減少妳自己的傷害。
最初只會有短暫的傷痛。